Are you living in a world of “Have to”?

When everything feels like an effort and there is no longer any joy left in what

you are doing – you are already there.

As opposed to being in an internal space of peace, love & joy…it all just

feels like struggle town!

What happens when there is no joy associated with what you are doing?

Resistance!

Joy needs to be one of your main 3 priorities!

In some cases to find your joy again, it can be an intensive process of extreme change and getting out of your comfort zone, whereas sometimes its just an easy case of shaking things up a little.

We can start by looking at your own motivation – your WHY!

What is your WHY?

We don’t do anything FOREVER, so there is no need to do the “have to” for

longer then is necessary – JOY is the intention.

There will always be triggers for our stress – Stress happens!

You have a choice, the choice to let the stress run your life and let it live your life, or you can take charge of it and YOU can live your life

Today, let’s delve into the concept of personal power, where we lose power, where it goes and when we give it away.

How do we know when we are in power and we are out of power?

Rach clues us into what it feels like for her when she recognizes that she is out of power.

To Rach, it is when the feeling of hopelessness arises, feeling the loss of control or not having a choice in a situation, feeling like she is unable to change whatever might be happening.

To Therese, powerless feeling arises when she is not able to recognize the choices available.

I WANT IT THIS WAY!

We can feel powerless when we have an expectation of something that we have a strong emotional attachment to – it doesn’t show up how we expected it to.

Uuuuuggggghhhhhh!

Taking a step back to remember that we ALWAYS have a choice, we can choose to accept what we can’t change or we can remain in place of complete resistance – chewing over it internally.

When we have given too much of our power away, we can feel like there is no choice.

Powerless to Powerful

It is possible!

A power leak is when we are giving our power away without knowing that we are doing so.

When curveballs are thrown our way, ie. Child development, we can feel powerless because our “plan” hasn’t shown up how we expected it to.

There is ALWAYS a choice, the path way direction just may change a little!

So, let’s talk about what is happening around us lately!

Therese gives us some clues on what is in store for those of us with growing kids, after a growth spurt the fun really begins in her house!

Hormonal Kids…affectionately known as PMS’ing Toddlers!

BUTT HAIR!!

Don’t laugh…Your fun is coming!

Rach is breathing a sigh of relief as her young lad Jakson is not yet vocal enough to give cheek, however Rach seems to be on a constant alert to try and interpret what it is that Jaks is trying to communicate to her, running through the checklist of possibilities of what it might be that a toddler needs or wants.

Rach also reveals to us how the results of an indicator test for ADHD that she participated in has opened up her mind to the way her brain works and how it has changed her approach to daily life. She shared this test with her husband & close family, the results she compared really surprised her – after getting her own score of 85%, her husband got 13%, Therese scored 35% and Rach’s sister scored a 81%.

The brain just WORKS differently!

We need to remind ourselves that we don’t – and we can’t all fit into the one size box, as much as society and governing bodies would like us to, its just not possible and a universal approach just isn’t practical.

Both Rach & Therese let us know what they use as coping strategies and what they have learnt along their journeys, including triggers and symptoms.

Each of us have our own unique solution

What works for someone as their solution, won’t always work for others.

Anger is Stagnant Energy

Therese talks us through how she came to realize what was causing her anger to be triggered so easily. It was due to the excess amount of energy that she hadn’t expelled through the day – it was showing up as anger for her. Therese soon discovered the solution to this was to RUN, running was a more effective way of spending her energy then a brisk walk. Running for Therese is her solution to prevent the energy becoming stagnant resulting in easily triggered anger.

Rach’s “running” solution is revealed as Brainstorming! This breaks her Hyper-focus state and she is able to channel the energy to better work around her environment.

What is your solution?

After a quick recap of the latest podcast by Therese, she explains how we can find out who is actually on our own Team in Spirit.

It really is That Simple!

Most people don’t realize how simple it is really is as easy as going in and asking the Team themselves. 

Before you knew or accepted the spiritual world, how did you explain to yourself or others about what was happening in a moment?

What were your beliefs?

Rach gives us an insight into her thoughts & justifications prior to her accepting the spiritual being.

Therese explains that the Team in Spirit won’t come forth until we are ready to know or ask, due to “free will”. You may want to plead ignorance for a bit longer or you just aren’t ready to accept that they exist yet.

We have a team of energies and frequencies that are working with us every, single day.

Therese and Rach remind us that like many people, we assume that there is only one singular“guide” It wasn’t until they began to dig deeper that it was revealed to them that in fact there is a TEAM behind all of the magic.

As we begin to understand that we are able to get the answers that we seek internally, we realize that those “talented” people are really more limited to what they can see in us as opposed to the full version that we receive about ourselves; they can only see a fraction.

If our higher-self doesn’t feel that it is in our best interest to know these certain aspects, it will not be granted to those who are seeking the answers for us – permission denied.

It is all about Spiritual Growth

Knowing & truly understanding who is in your Team in Spirit, this is completely up to you!

It’s time to get down to the foundations of the business and see what is working for us and what isn’t – what needs to change.

 

It is important to do this in not only your business world but in your personal life aswell periodically.

 

Even though our minds seem to thrive on routines and patterns, every once in awhile you have to shake things up a bit. Even if you don’t like to deal with change, nothing can grow in a stagnant situation.

 

It doesn’t have to be a scary or even a difficult process, you can look at it as an exciting and positive process – what are you going to get out of this assessment? It is going to help you grow, be more productive and tailoring your business to the right dynamic rather then a broad spectrum approach.

 

Ensuring that your foundations are set securely and able to withstand the growth and directions will prevent the avoidable cracks from appearing in your foundations.

 

It is inevitable that there will be the initial teething problems when it comes to implementing the new systems & strategies, but this is all part of the learning process and tweaking these problems will help to stabalise the foundation. As you move through them, the process will become less scary and more empowering.

 

Be very REAL about what is working & what isn’t

 

Every human being, idea and every system go through the numerology cycle including stage 5!

 

It is a choice to reassess…a smart choice!

 

When you are aware of what is happening in your business you will be more in tune of how and where it needs to change and grow

Today we are talking about what is going on with the energy at the moment as it is being picked up by our clients, our friends and ourselves.

 

It’s a cycle of RELEASE

 

We are being prompted on a cosmic level to do some “spring cleaning” if you will, so whatever is old, doesn’t work or hasn’t been used, this also applies to what is aligning or not aligning with us as well.

 

You cannot avoid this!

 

“We are the master creator & the master piece at the same time”

 

If we are able embrace the opportunities that are brought to us, instead of succumbing to resistance so easily and sometimes too often, in a way we get to grow & develop faster – what is bad about that?

 

We all want our progress to be heading in the right direction but in order for this to happen we need to sort out (ie. Spring clean) what is in front of us right now that maybe unnecessarily draining our energy.

 

What is going to be your purge?

Rach dives in to tell us all about the recent events in their family with young Jaks showing some red flags for autism.

No one can really plan to catch the curve balls that life throws our way, but it is the way that we approach it and how we handle the situation or circumstances that will determine the outcome – and we will come away stronger for it.

Life does this to everyone!

There is hope!

What curve balls has life thrown your way lately?

Dealing with all of the feels when people (Drs/experts) are telling you that maybe

there is something “wrong” with your child who you see & know as no less then

perfect, this child is a gift! – can be quite overwhelming and takes time to absorb the diagnosis.

Putting “Labels” on these diagnosis can be triggering, you may go through a

grieving process of what you thought it should be like but are now faced with a

different reality – and it will get better as the information starts to come through and you are able to have a clearer understanding of what life will be like from this point.

Feel it, Trust it!

The word “Responsibility” just sounds like such a heavy, dirty word. It doesn’t quite have the joy attached to it when the word is spoken.

We don’t associate responsibility with having fun -they just don’t seem to blend in the same sentence together.

Therese has decided to run a little experiment on Rach, find out how she goes!

Rach talks us through from her perspective about how responsibility feels for her

and what she does to combat the resistance that comes up with it.

Have to Get The Work Done….Then You Can Play!

Work is Work – Play is Play

What responsibilities would you choose to remove from your list?

Inspired Action

These tasks may no longer be connected to your holistic intelligence.

You are The Captain!

What is normal? Time certainly isn’t anymore!

Time shifts and changes now like it never has done before and we are becoming more increasingly aware of it and having to find new ways to find the flow of it and adapt.

Some days though, it can feel near impossible to scratch off those jobs on your to-do list because life has this funny quirk where it likes to interrupt and get in the way of your productivity streak.

How do you feel when that happens?

The dead-line is all in your mind! Time is not running out!

Having the internal drive to knock that list off is great, however the downside of having the drive so intensely is that it will DRIVE you…too far! Burnout!

What are the feelings that arise for you when you set yourself a BIG goal?

#Ambitious

When you have an idea or target that you want to reach, it can be hard to resist getting on that train and blowing all the steam to get it moving to make into reality, when you really should sit on it and contemplate it – let it come through when the energy is right, the end result will be worth it.

All of the feels of chaos, drama and destruction is all because of Chiron…again! Therese tells us all about the goings on of Chiron and why it has us feeling the way that we do.

Chiron – the wounded healer, when it comes through it is activating the parts within us that we have left in-healed for whatever reason or they are possibly in-healable. The emotions that come up with the unhealed can range from shame, regret, guilt, hopelessness, frustration & anger.

Then, because these feelings have resurfaced, we begin to convince ourselves that this will never change, it will never get better because here we are again!

What is happening for you right now?

When you are willing to face your fears and sort through what is coming up, you are then able to begin to move forward and heal.

Acknowledge it

What if you can’t heal it?

Expectation & short term gratification are some of the main blocks that hinder us from being able to “fix” the wound. This shift in Chiron is forcing people to acknowledge their blocks and begin the process to heal them so that they are able to move forward with this shift without the excess baggage holding them down.

Do not surrender to your fears – stare them in the eye!