State Shifters

SSP 173: Men Are More Loving Than You Think: 18 Years Working With Thousands of Men (Sasha Cobra)


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Female Perspective: What Thousands of Men Have Taught Me About Masculinity

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Hey, Legends? Today I'm sitting down with Sasha Cobra - someone who's been doing this work for 18 years, long before Instagram existed. She's worked with thousands of men and has insights about masculinity that'll challenge everything you think you know.

This conversation gets deep into territory most people won't touch. Sasha combines spirituality with sexuality in ways that actually heal trauma and unlock authentic power. After working exclusively with men for 8 years, then opening to women, she's witnessed patterns most coaches never see.


Here's what we explore in this podcast:

✔️ Why men are actually more loving and caring than most women (controversial but true)

✔️ The real reason men struggle with sexual shame and how it blocks everything else

✔️ How disconnection from your penis disconnects you from your power center

✔️ Why anger is actually a gift that most men suppress into rage

✔️ The difference between making love and "gymnastics with an ending"

✔️ How to use sexual energy as a healing modality for trauma


Most men's work ignores sexuality entirely. But your sexual energy is your life force energy. When you reject connection to your penis, you reject your positive pole - where confidence, decision-making, authority, and leadership reside.

Practical applications:-

  • How to touch yourself lovingly without mental images (most men can't do this)
  • Why 15 minutes daily of conscious self-connection will change every area of your life
  • How to set the tone in relationships without being controlling
  • The difference between helping your partner vs. trying to fix them

For men in relationships: Your energy during lovemaking becomes medicine for both of you. Physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual healing happens when you understand how to make love energetically rather than just having friction-based sex.

For women listening: How to inspire your man to grow without triggering his mother wounds. The art of being a "seductress" (not Instagram version) - someone who seduces people out of ego into love.

The conversation touches on everything from porn addiction recovery to why most men have never actually made love, even in long-term relationships. Heavy topics handled with wisdom from someone who's dedicated her life to this work.

Connect with Sasha: SashaCobrahead.com


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Alternative Titles:

  1. Men Are More Loving Than You Think: 18 Years Working With Thousands of Men (Sasha Cobra)
  2. Why Disconnecting From Your Penis Disconnects You From Power (Controversial)
  3. 18-Year Sexuality Expert Reveals What Men Really Need to Heal
  4. The Missing Piece in Men's Work That Nobody Talks About
  5. Female Perspective: What Thousands of Men Have Taught Me About Masculinity


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ABOUT ME

Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. Former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee who helps high-performing men build lives that feel good, not just look good on paper.

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