State Shifters

SSP 175: Why Your Relationship Has So Much Drama (And How to Fix It)


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From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free RelationshipApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/ema...Your first love hits different. For men especially, it breaks you down completely when attachment wounds get triggered. One day you're good, the next you're in the dumps because the relationship is struggling. You hate how much control they have over your emotional state.I coach men through relationship breakdowns regularly, and I see the same pattern - guys who let their happiness depend entirely on one person. This podcast shares how I went from being completely attached and needy with my first love to building a 10-year relationship with Amanda that's drama-free because we both have internal security.What you'll learn in this podcast:✔️Why first love destroys young men and how to recover✔️The exact process of cutting someone off completely ✔️How to build internal security that doesn't depend on others✔️Why relationships are here to make you aware, not happy✔️How Amanda and I handle months apart with zero jealousy✔️The foundation that creates drama-free relationshipsIf you're going through heartbreak right now, this is your dark night of the soul. Don't distract from the pain - use it to become someone who attracts love effortlessly. You have to earn the right to receive extraordinary love by becoming worthy of it.The uncomfortable truth is you may never end up with the person you're currently attached to. Can you be okay with that? Until you can, your relationships will be built on shaky foundations with constant drama.Connect with me:📸 Instagram:   / jordancandlish01  🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook:   / jordancandlish01  🎵 TikTok:   / jordancandlish01  ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.Recommended Titles1. Why Your First Love Nearly Destroyed You (And How Mine Led to 10 Years of Bliss)2. From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free Relationship3. How I Went Cold Turkey on My First Love and Found My Soulmate4. The Dark Night of the Soul That Saved My Love Life5. Why Men Get Destroyed by First Love (Recovery Guide)#FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #relationshipadvice

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