Start Scared

I think perfectionism has robbed me of more joy than failure ever has.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the perfectionism I didn’t always recognize in myself and how easily it can disguise itself as “high standards,” preparation, ambition, or simply wanting to do things well.

If you’ve been stuck, overthinking, procrastinating, comparing, or quietly wondering if you’re doing enough, I hope this conversation makes you feel a little less alone.

You don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to be willing to start. 💛 If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who needs the reminder.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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My son starts middle school today, so in this special episode, I ask him what he's excited about, what he's nervous about, what he hopes middle school will be like, and what advice he'd give another kid who's feeling scared. His answers are honest, funny, thoughtful, and such a sweet reminder of how our kids see the world.

Whether your child is starting middle school, another grade, or you're simply soaking up these fleeting years of parenthood, I hope this conversation encourages you to slow down and hear what's on your child's heart.

📖 REDISCOVER YOU is a 30-day guided journal designed to help you reconnect with who YOU are beyond the roles you play. With daily Scriptures, affirmations, and space for reflection and gratitude, this journal is your tool to prioritize yourself without guilt. Get your copy here: https://a.co/d/7elPiN9

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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Last week, I thought I was surprising my son, Bruce, with tickets to see Forrest Frank. What I didn't expect was that God would surprise ME.

In this episode, I'm sharing one of the sweetest memories we've ever made together, from secretly planning the surprise for months to standing inside an arena with more than 13,000 people worshiping Jesus.

You'll also hear Bruce join me at the end of the episode to share the concert through his eyes. If you're a parent praying for your kids to know and love Jesus, I hope this episode encourages your heart as much as this night encouraged mine.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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In this episode, I'm sitting down with one of my sweet friends, Kally McNeil, the founder of Cactus Creek Clothing Company, to talk about what it really looks like to chase a dream before you feel completely ready.

We go behind the scenes of launching a clothing brand—from the late nights, self-doubt, and unexpected challenges to the excitement of creating something that's been on your heart for years. Kally shares why she started Cactus Creek, who the brand is for, how she chooses her collections, and what she's learned about herself through the process.

If you loved this conversation, be sure to follow Kally and cheer her on as Cactus Creek Clothing Company continues to grow!

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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Have you ever looked back over a season of your life and realized God had been teaching you the same lesson over and over again?

If you've been finding it hard to release control, embrace change, or trust what's next, I hope this episode reminds you that you're not walking through it alone.

📖 REDISCOVER YOU is a 30-day guided journal designed to help you reconnect with who YOU are beyond the roles you play. With daily Scriptures, affirmations, and space for reflection and gratitude, this journal is your tool to prioritize yourself without guilt. Get your copy here: https://a.co/d/7elPiN9

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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Have you ever looked back at old pictures of your kids and thought, “I wish I could go back and tell myself something?”

In this episode of Start Scared, I’m sharing the things I wish I could tell the younger version of myself when I was deep in the beautiful, exhausting, messy season of new motherhood.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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I took my 11 year old son, Bruce, to see Toy Story 5 after we rewatched all four previous movies together! In this spoiler free episode, I'm sharing what surprised me most, the lessons that stuck with me, and why this movie felt especially relevant for parents raising kids in a world full of screens.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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I'm sharing what God taught me through Matthew 7:1-12 this weekend at church. From judging others to trusting Him through prayer and living out the Golden Rule, this passage challenged my heart in ways I didn't expect. This isn't about perfection... It's about becoming more like Jesus one small act of obedience at a time.

📖 REDISCOVER YOU is a 30-day guided journal designed to help you reconnect with who YOU are beyond the roles you play. With daily Scriptures, affirmations, and space for reflection and gratitude, this journal is your tool to prioritize yourself without guilt. Get your copy here: https://a.co/d/7elPiN9

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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In this special Father's Day episode, I sit down with my husband, Frank, and our three kids, Malcolm, Addison, and Bruce, for a heartfelt family conversation about fatherhood, memories, life lessons, and legacy.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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This week, I'm sharing the story of a beautiful weekend in Wimberley, Texas, where my husband Frank and I had the honor of officiating our friends' wedding. From a last-minute dress rescue and an adorable black lab puppy to handmade necklaces, a rainbow during the reception, and the reminder that true friendship is one of life's greatest gifts, this episode is about partnership, belonging, and the moments we'll carry with us forever.

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I am SO grateful that you’re here and to be on this journey WITH you, girl! Cheers to US and our growth together! I love you, I am rooting for you and remember, YOU MATTER. 🤟🏻

xo,
Chrysty

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