Isn’t it crazy how we can actually fall in love with celebrities and people on the internet, without them even knowing we exist (hello Oprah!)?
It’s because the relationship we have with them and the connection we have with them, is created in our minds. All relationships are created in our minds.
The bonds you have where you feel incredible love, commitment, safety and acceptance- that’s not because the other person is giving it to you.
Those relationships where you feel awkward, tense, dislike, or disconnection- that’s not because the other person is depriving you.
In both of these scenarios, the thoughts you think about that person (good or bad), are all on you and all within your control.
This is the best news. It means that if you want to fix a relationship or feel deeper love for someone, you have the power to make that happen- you don’t even need to tell them you are doing it #brainexplosion.
Listen up to today’s podcast where I take you through a specific exercise you can do to improve all of your relationships- including the one you have with yourself.
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