Part 3 of My Big Brave Beginning. What do you do when you're moving forward but you hit the wall of fear and uncertainty? I share how I almost scrapped an entire year-long program idea, and the question that stopped me cold: "How do you know when you're done planning and it's time to move forward?" Spoiler — I didn't have an answer, and that was the point.

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CHAPTERS0:00 What do you do when you hit the wall?1:39 Fear and uncertainty set in3:31 The overbuilt, year-long program idea4:25 The question that stopped me6:36 The "what makes me feel most alive" filter8:23 Giving myself permission to not control everything9:59 How to decide: move forward or step back

Part 2 of My Big Brave Beginning. Once you're ready to share your dream out loud, who do you actually tell? I walk through the concept of "border busters" from The Dream Giver, and share the real story of a beach walk where God spoke clearly about people settling for the "condo view" instead of the ocean — and how I went home and Voxed my coach because I couldn't hold it in another minute.

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CHAPTERS0:00 What do you do when you finally get the courage to share?1:13 The Dream Giver & "border busters"1:45 How do you choose who to share with?2:50 Coach Laura & what Voxer is3:49 The beach walk story begins6:15 The condo view — God's word to me7:58 What makes someone a safe person9:03 Two-step takeaway9:51 Avoiding "validation shopping"

I'm kicking off a brand new series — My Big Brave Beginning — and episode one is about that very first moment a dream sparks inside you, before you even know if it's real. I share the story of a small speaking group where two facilitators pulled me aside and asked, "Are you a coach?" — a question I never saw coming. My takeaway for you: not every dream needs action today, but every dream deserves a place where you can sit with it and get curious.

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CHAPTERS0:00 Introducing My Big Brave Beginning1:27 God allowed me to launch one of my dreams2:48 What do you do when an idea first sparks?3:31 The speaking group story begins7:26 The silent video review technique8:07 "Are you a coach?"9:51 The wedding toast — her story stuck with me10:45 Starting a Dreams Journal11:42 Comparison: the biggest barrier12:49 Today's takeaway13:29 The Inner Circle & how to join

This is it — the final episode of the Rooted series. Today we're talking about grieving, and not just the kind tied to losing someone. I'm sharing some of the things I've personally had to grieve over the last couple years — including a hard lesson about saying goodbye to volunteer commitments I loved, and what it actually looked like to grieve well.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. Grieving isn't just about losing a person — it's about anything we have to say goodbye to: a business, a role, a season, a way of living.
2. Grieving is a process, and it's actually how we love well — when we take the time to do it.
3. Saying goodbye to opportunities you love — even good ones — because they're not in the right season can be one of the hardest kinds of grief.
4. Endings can carry both joy and sadness at the same time, and being able to hold both is real emotional maturity.
5. This week's (and series') question: are you ready to grieve well?

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"Mom, are you listening?" Today's episode starts with a question my youngest asked me — one I couldn't answer, because I genuinely had no idea what he'd just said. I'm talking about presence, and who in our lives actually gets the best of us.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. We can be physically present and still completely miss the people right in front of us — clients, schedules, and to-do lists can quietly take priority.
2. Different people need different kinds of presence — what works for one of my boys doesn't work the same for another.
3. The real question isn't just "am I listening" — it's "who is getting the best of me?" Clients? Strangers at Walmart? Or the people I do life with every day?
4. Clients and circumstances come and go — but the people closest to you are constants, and they deserve to know they have your availability.
5. This week's challenge: tell someone you do life with how important they are, and ask them honestly — "do you feel like I listen well?" Then just receive their answer.

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"Did you see what she posted on Facebook?" Today we're talking about comparison — and I'm sharing a recent moment where I caught myself spiraling over a friend's posts, almost to the point of hiding her content... until a phone call with her completely shifted my perspective.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. Comparison keeps us from living the actual story God has given us — and a lot of the time, the story we're seeing (and the one we're telling about ourselves) isn't even true.
2. Comparison shows up everywhere — social media, emails other people get, family photos, houses, even goals we feel like we "should" have.
3. The story I was telling myself — "my value isn't important because I don't show up like so-and-so" — wasn't true. I was never meant to show up as someone else.
4. The more I show up as myself, the more I can actually see what God is doing — and the more people get to know the real me.
5. This week's challenge: when comparison shows up, sit with it. Ask — what is this really saying about me? Would reaching that goal actually change my value?

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Is it really possible to have hard conversations without everything falling apart? Today I'm digging into that — including a story about a group member who was ready to walk away completely, and what happened when she agreed to come back for one last thing first: a goodbye liturgy.

I also start this one with a funny (and slightly painful) story about a giant bruise I didn't even know I had — until my guide dog accidentally found it.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. Sometimes we don't know how big something is until it gets pressed right in that spot — and that's often what community is for.
2. Avoiding hard conversations doesn't make things easier — it adds stress to your mind, body, and relationships.
3. Hard conversations done well aren't about winning or being right — they're about both people feeling seen and understood.
4. A "goodbye liturgy" — leaving well instead of just disappearing — can completely change the outcome of a hard moment.
5. This week's challenge: is there a hard conversation you've been avoiding? What's it costing you to keep avoiding it?

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Have you ever wondered what the world would be like with no speed limits? Today we're talking about limits — why they're not the enemy, and how one I set for myself just last fall completely changed how I show up for my boys and my clients.

I'm sharing the story of finally taking Saturdays off after years of "working while someone else has the kids," what happened when I didn't know what to do with myself, and a recent book signing that taught me (the hard way) about my own limits with noise and migraines.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. The most fruitful lives are often the most focused ones — limits aren't restrictions, they're protection from overextending.
2. Working every "free" moment may look productive, but it can quietly cost you presence with the people who need you most.
3. Learning to rest isn't always natural — sometimes it takes time just to figure out what rest even looks like for you.
4. Limits aren't selfish — they come back to a simple question: if I truly believe I'm loved for who I am, do I need to do more to prove it?
5. This week's challenge: what limits do you have — or need — in your life? What story is your relationship with limits telling about you?

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Today I'm talking about my superpower — and it's probably not what you think. In fact, for most of my life, I thought it was one of my biggest weaknesses.

I'm sharing the story of how I found my way into a community called Luke 10, what happened the first time I checked in honestly in a group of strangers, and the question someone asked me that changed everything — "How can we best be with you today?"

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. The thing you've spent your whole life trying to hide might actually be the thing that connects you to people the most.
2. Checking in honestly — naming what's really going on in your body and your emotions — is harder than it sounds, especially the first time.
3. "How can we best be with you today?" is a question that can change everything, because it makes space without trying to fix.
4. Vulnerability becomes a superpower in places where people are okay being uncomfortable, okay not fixing, and willing to trust God with the outcome.
5. This week's question: where do you feel broken? What's the story you've been telling yourself about that — and who could you let in?

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Are you living your best life? Today I'm asking the question I think a lot of us avoid — and sharing the story of the day I went skydiving with literally no notice, hours after a conversation about "one day."

If you've ever caught yourself saying "one day when..." — when the kids are older, when the finances work out, when life calms down — this episode is for you.

🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:

1. "One day when..." can quietly become a permanent excuse — survival mode keeps that day from ever arriving.
2. Survival mode is your brain trying to just stay alive. Thriving is something different — it's looking for God in the everyday.
3. Slowing down enough to be present in this season reveals gifts you'll only get right now — not in the "one day" you're waiting for.
4. What if today was already worth living — and just waiting for you to show up and live it?
5. This week's challenge: are you in survival mode? What story are you telling yourself, and what gifts is God giving you right now?

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