Is it really possible to have hard conversations without everything falling apart? Today I'm digging into that — including a story about a group member who was ready to walk away completely, and what happened when she agreed to come back for one last thing first: a goodbye liturgy.
I also start this one with a funny (and slightly painful) story about a giant bruise I didn't even know I had — until my guide dog accidentally found it.
🔑 5 Takeaways from this episode:
- Sometimes we don't know how big something is until it gets pressed right in that spot — and that's often what community is for.
- Avoiding hard conversations doesn't make things easier — it adds stress to your mind, body, and relationships.
- Hard conversations done well aren't about winning or being right — they're about both people feeling seen and understood.
- A "goodbye liturgy" — leaving well instead of just disappearing — can completely change the outcome of a hard moment.
- This week's challenge: is there a hard conversation you've been avoiding? What's it costing you to keep avoiding it?
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