The holiday season is a time of enormous pressure for all of us. Your business, your family, and your health are competing priorities, each one vying for 100% of your attention all the time. It’s enough to make you pull your hair out. 

On top of that, this is the time of year where peoples wallets are open and they are primed for spending money. You don’t want to miss the opportunity to take advantage of that momentum, but at the same time, you’re not sure if you

👉 Have the time to set something up without tapping out
👉 Know what kind of event to run that will get people’s attention
👉 Have the stamina for another big event that may or may not disappoint you

Today we’ll talk about why these big events work during the holiday season, and why it’s a GREAT idea to take advantage of the momentum. We’ll also cover the reason why I don’t do big holiday events anymore and why you don’t have to either - if you don’t want to. 

Note: This is a LIVE recording of the Stop Shoulding all Over Yourself podcast with a Q&A after! Please ask your questions while we’re recoding and we’ll go through them at the end!

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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

From time immemorial we’ve used lists to keep track of the things we need to do. As children we used crayons and scraps of paper, as we get older - we use pens and still scraps of paper, receipts, backs of envelopes - you name it. Some of us try to keep our to do list in our heads and just work our way down the mental list. 

We think its the way to get things done, and consider it a critical part of creating progress in our businesses, so we follow it. 

But what if this tool is the reason WHY you have trouble making progress. What if your To Do list is the very thing that locks you in place, generates analysis paralysis, creates the feeling of overwhelm, and STOPS you from getting things done. 

It’s more common than you’d think, but with a small shift in perspective, you can eliminate the dark side of To Do lists and make them work for you again. Join me on the podcast today to find out how. 

Note: This is a LIVE recording of the Stop Shoulding all Over Yourself podcast with a Q&A after! Please ask your questions while we’re recoding and we’ll go through them at the end!

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

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“Whatever I’m doing is enough, my value isn’t determined by how many things I cross off a list”

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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

From the time I started my social media business I was told you need more people, more numbers, the higher the numbers the better chance of you getting engagement and reach. 

I bet you heard the same things. 

And initially, it worked. More people. More engagement. More money. More better. 

Until. It stopped working. And then everything changes and getting back on track feels like you’re fighting an uphill battle in the snow - NAKED. It blows. 

So you do the best you can to increase your numbers the way you learned how

Asking your current customers for likes and shares

Running ads on social media for page likes

Doing like for like posts in business networking groups you’re in

But yet - it still feels like a battle. So what changed? What happened between AWESOME and OMG I’M LOSING PEOPLE? And what can you do differently to get your customer engine flowing again so you can get back to business!

Join me today - and find out. 

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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

It’s so weird to think how I simultaneously used to feel like I had to stand out from the competition, and ALSO used to feel like I needed to copy what other people who were successful were doing. 

😕 To be successful you need to stand out and be different. 

😕 To be successful, copy what other people are doing. 

Like you - I’ve heard both these messages as I grew my business. And I’ve … 

❌ tried copying word for word action for action what someone else does

❌ Tried to be unique by deliberately picking things I didn’t like but stood out

❌ Felt frustrated because there were people copying things I was doing that did work

And all the while, my business struggled. I felt like I was FIGHTING for every inch of success. 

Until one day. Clarity hit. Sometimes my realizations are subtle. Not this one. This realization was like a semi truck hitting me in the face at full speed. It was the realization that none of those things mattered. 

The things I had been focusing on as my “path to success” were really just a tide pool of things I was trapped in. There was no path to success with that perspective - only marinating in the same water for eternity. 🌊

So if it’s not about being original, and it’s not about copying what other people do - then WHAT IS IT? Join me on today’s live podcast recording and we’ll talk about the real reason people buy from other people, and you can pick your power tool before 11AM EST!

Note: This is a LIVE recording of the Stop Shoulding all Over Yourself podcast with a Q&A after! Please ask your questions while we’re recoding and we’ll go through them at the end!

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:
http://www.stopshoulding.me
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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

Do you have an opportunity to make money that you’re missing out on?

If you’re like most other women business owners, then the answer to that is most likely a resounding YES. 

And it’s because of an antiquated belief that if you have to do anything other than the one thing you set your business up for, then you’ve failed. 

This perspective is keeping you feeling poor. 

It’s preventing you from creating wealth and freedom. 

And You WILL be working non stop for the rest of your life if you don’t work it out

Am I being melodramatic? 

In this case - not really. Most of my clients miss out on enormous opportunities to make money because they don’t see them as opportunities - they see them as obstructions, challenges, or proof of failure. 

Let's turn that around and turn them into money generating machines, shall we? 

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

When it comes time to post about your life on social media, how do you feel?

🤩 Excited? Like you can’t wait to tell the world about your day, life, opinion?

😟 Worried? People will/wont agree with you? You’ll lose people?

😭Unsure? Your life isn’t super interesting, what will you talk about?

Maybe it depends on the day? 🤷

Working through those emotions takes time, and often by the time you’re done frantically searching for something interesting to talk about, carefully trying to decide on the right words, and dealing with the emotional shit, you either post something really quick, or don’t post at all. 

If I had a dollar for every time I faced that challenge, I wouldn’t need a business, I’d be rich on that income alone. 

But what if getting people’s attention on social media and inspiring them to engage has nothing to do with being interesting, or exciting, or the best dancer or most entertaining. 

What if it’s something else altogether? (Spoiler Alert: It is. It’s something else altogether)

Wanna know what it is? Listen to this week’s LIVE recording of the Stop Shoulding all Over Yourself podcast and find out. Then stick around at the end for a Q&A where we’ll talk about YOUR  specific issues! 

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

I don’t know about you, but there was a point in my life where I was tired of feeling like I was always ON MY WAY to succeeding. 

👉 At some point I asked myself - am I ever going to feel like I’m there?

👉 Will I feel like it’s enough?

👉 Or is this my life - will I just always feel like I’m chasing money, sales, customers, freedom, etc. 

I did not want to feel like I was on a treadmill going to fast for me for the rest of my life. But if I was being really honest, that’s all my business felt like for a couple of years. 

That’s when I had a real heart to heart with myself - and I realized

1. I LOVE being a business owner, and I want to keep doing i
2. I didn’t want to do it if I felt like this all the time

So that left only one solution. Find a way to feel differently while running my business. I figured it out, and now most days are full of fun and joy - exactly how I imagined it. 

I taught my clients how to do the same thing - and now their businesses are happy and hopping too. 

And today, I want to share that with you! Let get going! 

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:
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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

Facebookpocalypse has everyone talking. Is it time to get off the platform?

There are tons of other options out there: Clubhouse, Snapchat, E-mail, Telegram, WeMe, etc. Maybe you have an app or want to switch to Google Ads or Google my Business to grow, but you’re not sure. 

Is this the right choice for you? What if you make a mistake?

You’re right to wonder this.  Moving your business off the platform is no small feat, and diversifying your attention could be a business killer. It’s a smart business move to be cautious about such a big step. 

But HOW do you decide? THIS is the entire purpose of my business - neutralizing Facebook - because it IS a thorn in our sides. So join me today to answer your burning questions like:

👉 Do I have to be on Facebook? What are my other options?

👉 How can I keep Facebook from destroying my business whenever it has an outage? What do I do to protect myself?

👉 I really hate this platform, and no one’s paying attention anyway, or I’m shadowbanned - what do I do?

Wanna be notified whenever I go live? Text SHOULD to +1 (617) 764-9503 and I’ll ping you. 

CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:
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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

Do you feel like you need to be likeable in business? Lets talk about it! 

Are you worried that you don’t have enough reach because you’re boring?

The truth is, both of these things don’t matter as much as you think they do. In fact, they really don’t matter at all. And as long as you’re trying to be interesting and likeable, you’re solving the WRONG problem in your business. Which means you’ll waste a LOT of time before you realize it, reset and start making progress.

OR, you can watch this live, identify the issue, solve it, and then get started making progress now. 

Doesn’t that sound awesome? Let’s do it!

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http://www.stopshoulding.me
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🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter

⌛ Do you feel like you need to work all the time to be able to make traction in your business? 

💸 Are you afraid to stop working because you feel like you can’t risk losing the potential sales?

This is so common among women entrepreneurs these days. The pressures of running a business are high, and there always seems to be something else to do. When you started your business you imagined freedom and abundance, but you feel mostly tied to your phone and like you never have enough. 

🤩 What if you didn’t have to feel that way? 

🎉 What if you could run your business, make money, see success, all without killing yourself and ignoring your family. 

You can do it. It’s free, and I’m going to show you how on today’s podcast! 

CONNECT WITH ME MORE AT:
http://www.stopshoulding.me
https://www.instagram.com/minessa.konecky/

🎵 Thank you to Karacter for allowing me to use Telepathy (2005) in my intro.
This is one of my favorite albums of all time.
👉 Check it out: https://karacter.bandcamp.com/album/karacter