Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better

It is a new year, and we should be excited! It’s a fresh, clean slate, and I love the energy that comes forth with everyone wanting to show up differently and create new goals. If you’ve been listening for a while, you’ll know that I am all about being the real deal. And if you want to really get a fresh start and create new results, it all has to start with your ugly truth. In this episode, I share with you how to identify your ugly truth, my experiences with my ugly truths, and how to then turn them into your beautiful truths that allow for your amazing results.

Let’s talk about letting go, which is one of the most crucial steps in how to stop wanting Mr. or Ms. Wrong back, and to find someone better, and is an excellent topic to cover and wrap up an insane year. Even if I have discussed this topic before, what I’m going to share today is going to be up-leveled, because I have up-leveled, personally and as a coach through self-coaching and working with my coaches. I know it’s not easy, my loves, to move through the pain, and I also know that the only way through it is to lean in.

If you have listened to this podcast, or if we’ve worked together to heal your heart and call in Mr. or Ms. Right, then you know I am a proponent of cutting off all contact with your ex. I recently heard from someone on Instagram, follow me at @clairetheheartbreakcoach, who said that the thought of cutting off all contact was going to be more painful than the pain she was already in. In this episode, I share with you why you should lean into the pain, instead of avoiding it or trying to cover it, and the results that await you on the other side. What are you waiting for?

This is an emotional episode for me. I think it’s important for me to share with you, by leading by example, that the work is never done. I’m in the most amazing relationship with the love of my life, and I just released an amazing course, helping women fall in love with themselves and call in Mr. Right. But somewhere along the way, as I worked morning, noon, and night, seven days a week, for the lats four months, I abandoned myself, my self-coaching, and my self-love. In this episode, I share with you how I got here, how this relates to finding Mr. or Ms. Right, and how I’m going to prioritize loving myself again.

This week’s episode is, by far, the most special episode because I have Larry, the love of my life, joining me. Over the past 14 months, you’ve heard me mention him and the details of how I called in the love of my life with my thoughts. And now I’m so excited to bring him on as we answer some of your questions and talk about the early stages of our relationship and what it’s been like to navigate the special challenges we’ve faced as a couple.

We have an epic episode for you today, a “clients tell-all” episode featuring three of my clients, April, Heather, and Ina. These three women are at different stages of their dating lives and came to me at different stages. I really wanted to share with you a variety of stories and experiences, so that you could hear from them first-hand the kind of work we have done together, and how it could be helpful for you to work with me as a coach to move through your heartbreak.