Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better

Today's episode is inspired by one of Claire's clients who reconnected with an ex (not part of her coaching plan!) and ultimately decided that overall she just thinks she has a "bad mindset." Much to the clients' surprise on the group call, Claire chimed in with, "Yeah ME TOO!" In this episode you'll discover how your negative mindset, whether it's about your love-life or something else, doesn't have to be a problem... it's NOT CONSISTENTLY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT, that's the problem, and Claire shares what you can actively do to switch out of it... even when the inevitable disruptions and curveballs come your way.

This episode was inspired by a book Claire is reading by Grant Cardone, called the 10 X Rule. How can you not only 10X your effort into finding true love, but 10X the idea of the person you're looking for, so that you stop settling for less than what you want and deserve?

It's not kindness, communication, or respect... although those are pretty good hallmarks of a relationship too! Claire reveals what she thinks makes Larry and her work so well together, which doesn't involve just the two of them... Curious? Then check out this freeing and fun episode, where Claire definitely has a laugh at her own expense, as well as Larry's.

If you are hesitant to put yourself out there on the apps, or even get out there in the world with the intention of "you never know who you're gonna meet... more of a chance being out and about, than at home behind closed doors!," this episode is for you!

Big TRIGGER WARNING for today's episode, as Claire understands that physical appearance-- especially for women-- can tend to be an extremely sensitive issue.

And yet, it's an issue that she really wanted to address in today's episode, because what we look like, as well as what we want our ideal person to look like or NOT look like, often comes into play in our dating lives.

If you let the story, "I'm just not lucky in love" roll off your tongue, this episode is for you, because YES-- it IS just a story that you get to change instead of perpetuate as your truth! Claire helps you see how your love-life isn't about luck-- it's about belief AND the meaning you're making out of what's unfolded in your past romantic relationships. Enjoy!

If you think your attraction to unavailable men is super confusing because you believe you're super available, this episode is for you.

Get ready to hunker down and eat a slice of humble pie for this episode.

Claire speaks so much about how easy it is to settle for crumbs, but in this episode, she talks about common ways women automatically want to write someone off without deeply considering WHY they're writing that person off...

Claire is bringing you a dating app smackdown on today's episode! Look, this isn't to say that your person is definitely on the apps, but the apps ARE the most mainstream way to date these days, and Claire is here to say that just because you've had some brutal experiences or "no luck" with the apps so far, doesn't mean you should throw in the towel when it comes to the apps.

In today's episode, Claire share's about a client's resistance to doing the work outside of their calls together (very normal!) but what was uncovered underneath the resistance broke open a whole new way for her client to approach her finding-love journey.