Welcome back to another insightful episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast. I'm your host, Steve Stein, and today we delve into the realm of mental resilience and inner strength with our exceptional guest, Melli O'Brien. Melli, cofounder of mindfulness.com and an esteemed educator and coach in mental health, joins us to explore the concept of "Deep Resilience."

In this episode, we discuss her upcoming book, "Deep Resilience: A Four Step Journey to Unshakable Inner Strength," and dive into the importance of mental, emotional, and spiritual strength in navigating the ever-changing, often challenging world we live in today. Melli shares her unique RISE method, aimed at teaching skills to recognize and regulate thoughts and emotions, inhabit the present moment, stay connected to values, and take empowered action.

We also delve into practical exercises like anchoring, which help cultivate states of inner calm and presence. So, sit back, relax, and get ready for a conversation filled with wisdom, practical tips, and strategies to help you rise to life's challenges with resilience and grace.

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00:00 "Street Smart Wisdom Podcast Intro"

04:17 Resilience Patterns in Adversity

10:44 "Deep Resilience Method Overview"

14:57 Mastering Skills Through Practice

17:43 Practice of Anchoring for Stress Management

19:37 Anchoring for Authentic Well-being

24:13 Find Calm Through Breath

29:13 "Embrace Inner Calm"

33:19 Anchoring Practice for Mind Clarity

36:39 Mindfulness Needs Humor

39:10 Recognize and Regulate the Mind

42:46 Humor for Diffusion and Redirection

45:13 Tony Robbins' Power Move Mindset

50:02 Deep Resilience: Embodied Mindfulness Practice

53:50 Join WisdomFeed Plus Community

54:52 "Surfing the Tsunami: Get Started"

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Welcome back to another enriching episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast! I'm your host, Steve Stein, and today we have a transformative conversation with our esteemed guest, Mark Matousek. In this episode titled "Mark Matousek on Emerson’s Path to Self-Reliance and Spiritual Consciousness," we dive deep into the timeless wisdom of Ralph Waldo Emerson and explore how his philosophies on self-reliance, nonconformity, and spiritual democracy can illuminate our paths today.

Mark, the author of the insightful book "Lessons from an American Stoic: How Emerson Can Change Your Life," shares invaluable lessons on accessing inner wisdom without the need for external permission, and discusses Emerson's relevance in an age overwhelmed by social media and societal pressures. We examine how personal connection to the divine is accessible to everyone, supported by practical spiritual exercises inspired by stoicism to enhance self-awareness.

Together, we navigate the importance of grounding oneself to maintain authenticity, the benefits of taking breaks from social influences, and the profound impact of spending quality introspective time. We also touch on the powerful stoic practice of "viewing from above," reframing life’s challenges into opportunities for growth, demonstrating how imagination can reshape our realities.

Join us as we traverse through Emerson’s critical ideas on personal wellness, individuality, and the sacred marriage of opposites, alongside insights into Matousek's personal journey influenced by figures like James Hillman and their shared mission to reduce suffering through self-discovery and mindfulness. Don't miss this enlightening episode, providing you with essential tools to thrive in today’s complex world.

Remember to check out Mark Matousek’s work at markmatousek.com and join our community at WisdomFeed Plus for more resources on personal development, health, and wellness. Tune in and empower yourself with some StreetSmart wisdom!

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00:00 Street Smart Wisdom: Inspirational and vetted content.

04:13 Emerson's ideas offer relevant guidance for today.

08:42 Transcendentalism: Personal divine experience over religious institutions.

10:57 Traditions not needed for spiritual enlightenment.

16:12 Grounded wisdom, Emerson's impact, accessible stoicism.

18:21 Being true to oneself is life's greatest achievement.

20:57 Being eccentric is valuable; individuality fosters creativity.

24:01 Engaged quiet time for self-reflection.

28:33 Stoicism focused on reducing suffering, like CBT.

32:09 Finding opportunity in adversity brings positive change.

36:17 Empowerment comes from changing victim mindset.

37:51 Be present; avoid living life on autopilot.

43:54 Emerson: Embrace contradictions, form unique originality.

45:50 Embrace contradictions; expand understanding and possibilities.

47:59 Opposites teach valuable lessons for reconciliation.

51:23 Join WisdomFeed Plus for wellness and community.

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast! I'm your host, Steve Stein, founder of Better Listen and Wisdom Feed Plus. Today, we have the immense privilege of conversing with Dr. Rick Hanson, a best-selling author and renowned speaker, whose work beautifully intertwines mindfulness, clinical psychology, and neuroscience.

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of sensitization and neuroplasticity, exploring how our inner world shapes our existence and overall well-being. Rick shares his journey—from a young boy grappling with feelings of inadequacy and social awkwardness to becoming a leading figure at the fascinating intersection of brain science and contemplative wisdom.

We also reflect on the impermanence of life through the poignant metaphor of a sand mandala, and Rick offers street smart wisdom on how to navigate this ever-changing world with resilience and inner peace.

This episode is rich with insights and practical takeaways that will inspire you to cultivate a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world. So, buckle up and get ready for a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Rick Hanson, right here on the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast.

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00:00 Street Smart Wisdom Podcast with Steve Stein.

04:04 UCLA at 16, evolved to psychology intersection.

07:12 Socially awkward, turned to inner world exploration.

11:57 Everything is cloud-like; live with less attachment.

15:34 Life is transient, memories fade over time.

19:02 Skipping grades poses social challenges for students.

22:53 Realization: It was up to me.

26:39 Join WisdomFeed Plus for curated wellness content.

27:42 Begin your peaceful journey at surfingthetsunami.com

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Welcome to the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast! I’m your host, Steve Stein, and in today’s episode, we have the incredible Dr. Rick Hanson joining us. Rick, an acclaimed author known for works like "Buddha's Brain," will be diving deep into a fascinating discussion on two intriguing concepts: sensitization and neuroplasticity.

We'll explore what it means to become sensitized, how this process shapes our reactions, and how it intertwines with neuroplasticity—the brain's ability to change through experiences. Rick shares practical advice on understanding our own triggers, managing negative interactions, and even healing from past traumas through a powerful technique called "linking."

Expect valuable insights and practical wisdom designed to bring ancient ideas to the street level of everyday life. Stay tuned as we uncover how understanding these principles can influence your journey to mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and overall well-being. Join us for an enlightening conversation that promises to teach you tools for leading a happier, healthier life.

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00:00 Street Smart Wisdom podcast: Inspirational discussions.

05:12 Controlling parents affects reactions to criticism.

08:08 Negativity bias makes negative experiences impactful.

12:49 Speak from your heart to influence outcomes.

15:42 Understand your brain, manage triggers effectively.

18:43 Negative experiences, and positive experiences link neurologically.

22:32 Join Wisdom Feed Plus for personal growth.

23:33 Visit surfingthetsunami.com for more information.

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast! Today, we have a compelling conversation with Bryan Reeves, a renowned relationship coach and author of the acclaimed book, "Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her." I’m your host, Steve Stein, and we’ll be diving deep into Bryan’s insightful journey—from being an Air Force captain to becoming a beacon of wisdom in the realm of intimate relationships.

We’ll explore the nuances of commitment, the importance of being genuinely present, and the transformative power of sincere apologies. Bryan shares invaluable advice on maintaining healthy relationships, fostering emotional connections through meaningful rituals, and navigating the often tricky landscape of gender dynamics in communication.

Whether you’re single, partnered, or anywhere in between, this episode offers essential wisdom that can elevate your personal relationships. Plus, we introduce "Surfing the Tsunami" and the Wisdom Feed Plus membership, curated to support your journey towards personal development and wellness.

Stay tuned as we unpack the heartfelt stories and practical tips that can help you choose love every day. Let’s get into it!

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00:00 Street Smart Wisdom features Brian Reeves interview.

05:55 Realization of relationship struggles while counseling couples.

07:02 Never fully committed to five-year relationship.

12:38 Men's value tied to partner's mood.

16:32 Relationships require 100% commitment from each individual.

19:14 Men write from their own perspective, need commitment.

23:28 Apologies repair relationship karma, preventing stagnation.

26:10 Strong relationships require emotional, intellectual connection.

31:44 Feminine connection focuses on love; masculine on tasks.

34:53 Article credited for saving and ending relationships.

38:50 Join Wisdom Feed Plus for wisdom and wellness.

39:51 Visit surfingthetsunami.com to start surfing.

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast. In today's session, we have the privilege of hosting a riveting discussion with esteemed guests Sherry Turkle and Jon Kabat-Zinn. As we delve into the complexities of our increasingly digital world, Sherry and Jon explore the profound impact of digital technology on human empathy, the preservation of our essential human qualities, and the concerning rise of artificial intelligence.

Throughout this episode, our speakers tackle the tough questions about the balance between embracing technology and maintaining meaningful human interactions. They emphasize the importance of mindfulness and being present as tools to counteract the potential dehumanization brought on by digital advancements. From discussing the erosion of genuine human connections to the shift towards more controlled, friction-free relationships facilitated by technology, this conversation is a deep dive into what it truly means to be human in a digital age.

Join us as we explore these crucial themes, reflecting on the need to reclaim conversation, foster real empathy, and appreciate the marvels of life in an increasingly automated world. Don't miss out on this compelling exploration of humanity's future, right here on the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast.

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00:00 Conversation with Sherry Turkle and Jon Kabat-Zinn.

06:05 Humanity's radical evolutionary moment integrates digital reality.

14:52 Value of conversations often underestimated in interactions.

20:47 Challenging the impact of technology on humanity.

26:30 Safe spaces needed for meaningful conversations.

33:19 Embracing silence, confronting addictive thoughts, finding completeness.

35:30 Digital vs human companionship: a key question.

42:15 AI threatens human connection, compassion, and self-worth.

48:35 AI finding optimal answers contradicts human authenticity.

52:57 Computer scientist creates ELISA program, sparks dialogue.

57:38 Wisdom, life, relationships, authenticity, Buddhism, self-discovery.

01:05:21 Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy combines analytical problem-solving.

01:08:59 Find completeness in present moment through mindfulness.

01:13:00 Analog technology connects human life cycle experiences.

01:18:57 Pondering humanity's future in the age of AI.

01:24:33 Agreement on exploring meditation and human existence.

01:34:48 Meditating is a radical act of love.

01:38:15 Sit with erect posture, focus on breathing.

01:41:56 Embrace wakefulness, wisdom, and intrinsic beauty fully.

01:47:07 Become part of inner movement for peace.

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oin us on a transformative journey with the revered spiritual leader Kamlesh D. Patel, affectionately known as Daaji, in this enlightening episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast. Host Steve Stein dives deep into the essence of Heartfulness meditation, spiritual evolution, and the mystique of chakras alongside Daaji’s vast experience and insights. As we unravel Daaji’s thought-provoking book “Spiritual Anatomy, Meditation Chakras, and the Journey to the Center,” here are the top five takeaways from this soul-stirring conversation:

1. Chakras and Emotions: Daaji elucidates the intriguing connection between colors, emotions, and chakras. Discover how each emotion influences specific chakras and how this knowledge can serve as a spiritual roadmap, guiding our meditation practices and introspective journeys.

2. Spiritual Growth as Life’s Purpose: Reflect on the profound idea that our purpose in life is to evolve into better beings. Engage in a centering meditation led by Daaji, aiming for neutrality and humility to experience the presence of the divine within us.

3. The Heartfulness Movement: Learn about the transformative Heartfulness meditation practice, which centers on the heart and seeks to enhance our positive attributes while dissolving negative tendencies. Daaji extends an invitation to collectively meditate, promising a unifying and serene experience.

4. The Mind’s Role in Meditation: Delve into the art of training the mind to focus during meditation and the phenomenon of grace transmission and transformation. Daaji shares how this process can lead to divinity and an accelerated personal evolution.

5. The Heart as Our Guide: Embrace the wisdom of the Heartfulness tradition that the heart, not the mind, should lead our life decisions. Recognize the voice of the heart as the most reliable compass we have for making choices that we won’t regret later.

Immerse yourself in this engaging dialogue as Daaji and Steve explore spirituality with both a practical lens and a poetic touch. Celebrate the release of Daaji’s book in India, and bask in the wealth of knowledge that promises a deeper understanding of our innermost workings. Ending on notes of gratitude and collective aspiration, this episode is a treasure trove for seekers and sages alike, aiming to bring a slice of tranquility into our bustling lives. Tune in, feel centered, and transform with the SweetSmart Wisdom Podcast.

Welcome back to another insightful episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast, I'm your host, Steve Stein. Today's episode features a special guest, Catherine Hallissey, a psychologist from Ireland specializing in turning clinical research into practical parenting wisdom. In a world that often stresses us with negativity and challenges, Catherine shares with us the concept of 'glimmers,' our little moments of happiness and gratitude that can help steer us away from our inbuilt negativity bias and towards improved well-being.

During these trying times, especially accentuated by the COVID-19 pandemic, parents and children alike struggle with increased anxiety and the loss of social connections. Catherine discusses how we can combat this by integrating simple strategies into our daily lives that can increase overall happiness by a staggering 25% in just eight weeks. She also delves into the significance of gratitude in parenting, the neuroscience of shifting from trigger bias to glimmer bias, and how to soak in those good moments amidst the difficulties.

Catherine passionately advocates for setting appropriate boundaries, co-regulating emotions, and always defaulting to connection rather than punishment. She urges us to look into our past to understand our parenting style, encourages us not to aim for perfection but persistence, and shares personal experiences that highlight the power of approaching children with love and compassion, even in moments of misbehavior.

Get ready to dive into some heartfelt strategies, neuroscience-backed insights, and universal truths about human connections that can simplify and enhance our interactions with our children and with each other. All of that and much more, right here on the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast. So, take a deep breath, find your calm, and join us as we learn how to ride the waves of modern parenting with grace and optimism. Let's get started.

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00:00 Irish mom and psychologist helps parents thrive.

04:54 Effective parenting strategies streamlined for busy lives.

07:33 Rebuilding social connections, stress relief through relationships.

13:54 Aging friends face health challenges, meds have side effects, science supports meditation and gratitude.

16:13 Enjoying sunshine with family in the northeast.

19:09 Negativity bias ingrained since beginning of time.

21:44 Default to connection in parenting for guidance.

26:15 Filter questions for ethical parenting strategies evaluation.

30:26 Regulating behavior and emotions is essential.

33:41 Parenting advice: love, support, and simplify.

38:48 Connecting with people worldwide, understanding universality. Deeper parenting, echoes of the past influence.

40:14 Parenting advice: Embrace imperfection, seek support.

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Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast. I'm your host, Steve Stein, and today we're diving deep into the soul-stirring realms of mythology and psychology. Joining us are two remarkable minds: poet, writer, and maverick of the mythopoetic men's movement, Robert Bly, along with the profound thinker and self-explorer, Mikey Bracket.

In this episode, Robert shares the transformative power of myths like Iron John, illustrating how these ancient narratives offer timeless wisdom that helps us navigate personal and relational complexities. With captivating insights, he sheds light on the soul's journey through these stories, challenging us to venture inward before aiming upward.

Mikey Bracket champions the idea of embracing our inner characters—the knight, the child, and even the evil stepmother—without judgment, as he reflects on Robert's influential work and storytelling paradigms. From a program Steve Stein reocorded and published on BetterListen.com , Robert brings to us invaluable lessons from the Lindworm myth and how it fosters deep self-exploration.

They discuss the evolving landscape of men's psychology and therapy, reaffirming the essential role of Robert’s work in fostering emotional awareness and growth within men’s organizations. With a blend of personal anecdotes and expert knowledge, they highlight the significance of revisiting the roots of the men's movement to ignite genuine, radical change.

This potent conversation is not just for the ears but for the soul as we explore the indispensability of mythology in our quest for understanding what it means to be truly human.

So, prepare to engage with the profound as we unpack the connections between inner shadow work, mythology, and living a soulful life. And for those yearning for more wisdom, don't forget to check out our sponsors at WisdomFeed+ for a nourishing community experience and visit surfingthesunami.com for insightful tools from world-renowned figures.

All this awaits you here, on the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast.

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00:00 Podcast at surfingthesunami.com offers wisdom and wellness.

04:22 Expresses gratitude for mentorship, speaks about shared interests.

08:39 Robert Bly's relevance in shaping men's work.

13:09 Reflecting on Robert's legacy and reclaiming it.

16:46 Finding passion for poetry transformed my life.

20:06 Men's camaraderie, soul exploration, and creative ideas.

23:12 "Iron John" myth applies to deep human wisdom.

26:44 Mythology connects to the soul before spirit.

31:03 Internal family systems therapy gaining popularity recently.

34:40 Internal role play to explore inner dimensions.

37:53 Robert exemplified authentic, kind, intentional living.

39:44 Sharing thoughts, lives, and podcasts with audience.

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Welcome to another insightful episode of the StreetSmart Wisdom Podcast, where we delve into the depths of the human psyche and explore the potent intertwining of creativity and self-discovery. Today's episode, "Harnessing the Shadow for Creativity and Growth," welcomes two remarkable voices to the conversation.

Our host, Steve Stein, founder of Better Listen and WisdomFeed Plus, joins forces with the esteemed Dr. Ido Cohen, a Bay Area clinical psychologist noted for his expertise in early childhood trauma, depression, and psychospiritual development. Together, they embark on a deep-dive into the rich terrain of Carl Jung's philosophies, shadow work, and the transformative power of imagination. They'll discuss how facing our darker aspects can lead to profound personal changes, as exemplified by narratives of individuals—ranging from musicians to Celtic poets—whose creative pursuits and encounters with their golden shadow have led them to authenticity and unexpected life paths.

The dialogue extends to imagination's pivotal role in both healing and hindering, our tendencies to stagnate in familiar patterns, and the dynamic interplay between analytical reflection and artistic expression. They advise embracing curiosity and self-reflection, possibly through journaling or painting, to engage with our shadows.

Furthermore, Mikey Brackett's contribution raises intriguing notions of the unconscious and shadow's influence, while our speakers touch upon archetypal images found in stories like Harry Potter and Peter Pan, and probe the depth of psychological impacts stemming from collective and personal trauma.

In true StreetSmart spirit, you're invited to contemplate the "trembling child" within and understand the crucial balance between disappointment and creativity necessary for growth. By episode’s end, Dr. Cohen extends an invitation for further connection, and both speakers encourage embracing the wisdom of dreams in the context of world conflict.

We invite you to join this revelatory journey into understanding and integrating the shadow for a richer, more authentic life. And, as always, we're excited to offer you the chance to become a part of the WisdomFeed Plus community, where like-minded individuals come together on a quest for deeper knowledge and fulfillment. Let's begin.

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00:00 Clinical psychologist with eclectic, spiritual approach. Influenced by Jungian perspective and Ayahuasca ceremonies.

06:00 Fascinated by inner processes, imaginative, interested in people.

11:16 Man's profound youth experiences led to realization.

13:16 Analyzing Harry Potter books for Jungian archetypes.

16:00 Hillman and von Franz on Puer Puella complex.

20:15 Transformation of painful experiences into creative enrichment.

25:26 Unaddressed pain hinders capacity for imagination.

27:43 Marie France talks about men and creative paralysis.

31:11 Navigating computer use involves internal and external awareness.

33:39 Reflective analysis leads to creativity and spontaneity.

38:20 Overcoming fear and nurturing creativity in childhood.

41:21 Dealing with collective and personal trauma complexities.

43:33 Holiday consumerism influences unconscious shopping behaviors.

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