Strong Men Strong Marriages

I’ve recently started to take MMA lessons and I am LOVING it.

Here are some of my big takeaways:

-Having a strong base keeps you prepared and stable

-Having a strong base in God does the same

-You won’t die if you take a punch

-You won’t die if you take an emotional punch from your wife or kids

-You can be confident in caring for yourself

Hear more about this and what I’ve been learning in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1n_NXQm5R4

Dr. Mike

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I read a few books in the last few weeks that have really impacted the way I view life and life after death.

After by Bruce Greyson, MD  and

Proof of Heaven by Eben Alexander, MD 

The main takeaways I got are:

-Life DOES continue after this life

-We are LOVED by our creator, God

-He has a great plan for us

-We can tune into his love and plan any time, and the more we do the better we feel and the better we operate as men, husbands, fathers and in all areas

Learn more in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

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Does your wife feel safe with you?

Do your kids feel safe with you?

What if they did something wrong? Would they come to you for help?

What if your wife is struggling emotionally? Would she come to you for comfort?

If not, you haven’t been a secure attachment figure to your wife and kids.

And that’s not fun to realize. I’ve had to realize it myself.

But, the good news is, you CAN be one.

By being someone who is there for your wife and kids… no matter what.

Who loves them (wants the good for them)... no matter what.

Who is also there for yourself… no matter what.

Learn more about how to do this in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here.

And join the program to learn how to do this together.

Dr. Mike

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We’re all following someone, consciously or unconsciously.

When it comes to being a husband and father… who are you following?

When it comes to being a man… who are you following?

If you’re not consciously following someone, you’ll unconsciously follow your parents in your marriage and parenting relationships.

Either by doing what they did… or doing the exact opposite of what they did.

Both of those can cause problems.

Learn how to intentionally choose your role models…

So you can be the husband, father and man you want to be…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JcnkkkOS4U4

Dr. Mike

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Do you feel worthy of love?

What about when you’re not doing the “right things?”

Are other people willing, able and available to love you when you need it?

The answers to these 2 questions shape your relationship style.

If the answer to either question is “no,” or a conditional yes…

Your relationship style will cause problems in your marriage and parenting…

And your relationship with God.

Learn how to feel worthy of love (no matter what you’re doing or not doing)...

And how to find people who are willing, able and available to give you love…

In today’s episode.

Here's the book, God Attachment, I mention in the episode.

And keep in mind…

It’s not that God doesn’t want us to do good, or that we don’t want our kids to do good…

It’s just that we want them to do good because we love them and it’s good for them…

Vs we want them to do good so that we can love them.

Listen on the Strong Men Strong Marriages Podcast. 

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Are you feeling burnt out in your marriage?

Feel like you’re putting in SO MUCH work, but not getting much back?

Not sure if you want to keep going in the marriage anymore?

Don’t worry. These are NORMAL feelings to have.

It doesn’t mean your marriage is over.

It just means it’s time to take some steps to:

-Take care of yourself and your emotions

-Ask for what you want

-See both the good and bad

When you do this, you can release the feeling of “burnt out” and start feeling joy, energy and put your marriage on course for the joyful, fun, intimate relationship it was meant to be.

Learn how in today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Was your Valentine’s Day… not what you were hoping for?

Maybe you’re dealing with separation or divorce.

Maybe your wife is interested in someone else.

Maybe you were hoping for intimacy that didn’t happen.

It’s normal and natural to be disappointed.

And, there are ways to deal with that disappointment that will make things WORSE…

And ways to deal with it that will help you create more intimacy.

Learn what NOT to do.. And what TO do…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

Dr. Mike

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Has your wife told you “You make everything about you!”

What was your response?

Did you give her examples of how you don’t make everything about you?

Did you get mad and walk away?

If you did either of these…

You made it about you!

I’ve done this plenty of times, and so have the guys in my program.

But, we don’t have to do this.

We can break out of this pattern and “find our lives as we lose them.”

Learn how…

In today’s episode.

Watch on YouTube here.

And in the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.

Dr. Mike

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How healthy is your marriage?

Spiritually, do you feel a sense of mission and purpose, individually and as a couple?

Mentally do you feel that you are both open to learning from each other, able to challenge your own beliefs, and take an appropriate stand?

Emotionally can you name, feel and release emotions in health ways?

Physically, are you in good shape with good energy?

Financially, do you spend less than you earn, have a safety net of savings, and a clear savings and investment plan?

Sexually do you enjoy sex and have a safe and satisfying sex life?

If you find yourself, your wife or both lacking in these areas…

It’s time to create a healthier marriage!

Learn how in today’s episode…

Watch on YouTube here.

And in the Strong Men Strong Marriages program.

Dr. Mike

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This week we are launching the first group of the Strong Men Strong Marriages Membership!

This will be The Alpha Group.

The group that helps grow us to 500 men.

The group that helps shape the membership into something that helps men become the Christ-like, strong and loving leaders of their homes that they were meant to be.

The group that leads the charge to making generational changes and is the man that is led by God, the husband his wife loves and can count on, and the father that shows genuine love and strength to his children.

At Strong Men Strong Marriages we are:

-Strong and loving leaders of our homes as disciples of Jesus
-Examples of real, Christ-like manhood to ourselves, our families and the world
-Building a stronger world through stronger families
-And for my Christian brothers, helping prepare the world for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ

If this mission resonates with you...

Come join us!

Join our email list at http://strongmen.io for your invitation to join.

Dr. Mike

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