Ep. 366: In this episode of Success in Mind, I’m sharing something that holds so many of us back from showing up, sharing our message, and being seen: the fear of online haters, trolls, and cancel culture.
I share a deeply personal story about a time I was publicly attacked online by people I once knew—and how that experience nearly stopped me from pursuing my coaching business. But more importantly, I talk about the powerful lesson I learned from it: resilience.
If you’ve ever been afraid to start your podcast, launch your YouTube channel, write your book, or speak your truth because of what “they” might say... this episode is for you.
Not everyone will like you—and that’s okay. About one-third of the people you meet won’t be your fans, and a small percentage may actively dislike you. That can’t stop you from doing your work. Visibility comes with criticism. If you want to play big, you have to be ready for the spotlight—and the shadows it casts.You have a choice: Give your power to the haters or to the people you’re here to serve.This is training. Every challenge you face online is preparing you for the next level of your personal and professional growth.Real freedom is not caring about what the wrong people think. The people who can’t be canceled are the ones who stop giving a damn about the opinions that don’t matter.The true story of my first Facebook ad campaign—and how it turned into a 48-hour nightmareThe bullying that almost made me quitWhat my coach said that changed everything for meThe “1/3 Rule” of human connection and how it can free you - Why we must stop playing small in a world that needs our message If this episode lit a fire under you—or even gave you a spark—please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with someone who needs it.
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🎙️ Thanks for being here with me. Until next time—stay bold and stay in success.
00:00 The Importance of Resilience in the Online Space
01:12 Facing Criticism and Online Attacks
08:32 Lessons in Resilience from Adversity
12:51 Focusing on Supporters Over Haters
16:34 Empowering Yourself to Share Your Message