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This week is another oldie but a goodie for you during the summer hiatus. All new episodes begin August 24th 

We promise you a journey deep into the heart of human resilience as we explore the powerful documentary "Precession." This profound narrative follows a group of brave men, survivors of childhood abuse within the Catholic Church, who reclaim their narrative through the potent force of drama therapy. With hearts on our sleeves, we delve into their raw emotions, the complexities of their trauma, and discuss how religious communities have played a double-edged role in their lives.

We spare no detail in our exploration of the film, beginning with the unforgettable opening scene - a press conference with the assertive attorney Rebecca Randall, and our brave survivors, Tom Viviano, Mike Foreman, and Michael Sandridge. Each story is a testament to the myriad ways in which humans respond to trauma. We also take you on a journey into the intricate maze of faith, healing, and the search for justice within the context of these unsettling experiences. 

In our conversation, we do not shy away from confronting the harsh reality of systemic injustice faced by victims of abuse. We share the heart-wrenching stories of Mike and Dan, whose paths intertwine in their fight for justice, and Joe, who suffered at the hands of not one, but three priests. Through it all, we enlighten you on the impact of trauma, the coping mechanisms that have become their lifelines and their relentless pursuit of justice. Join us as we navigate this captivating intersection of trauma, religion, and justice.

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This week is another oldie but a goodie for you during the summer hiatus. All new episodes begin August 24th 

Imagine growing up in a sheltered environment then finding yourself captured in the snare of a toxic relationship. This is the reality of Dr Heidi Brocky, a specialist in toxic relationship awareness and healing, who joins us today. Heidi's personal narrative paints a vivid picture of her life-altering experiences, as well as the power dynamics commonly associated with toxic relationships. 

Together, Heidi and I navigate the tricky path of recovery from emotional abuse. We discuss the cunning strategies used by abusers to gain control, and the harmful trauma bond that can form when a victim becomes reliant on their abuser for emotional support. Heidi also boldly opens up about her own decision to leave her children with their father, illuminating the tough choices victims often have to make in their journey towards healing. 

We wrap up the episode with practical advice on how to effectively deal with toxic people, ensuring you're equipped with the knowledge to protect yourself. As a bonus, we conclude with a heartwrenching yet powerful song about healing and finding strength. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of toxic relationships and the road to recovery. Let Heidi's story inspire you, give you hope, and open your eyes to the realities and overcoming of toxic relationships.

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It's my birthday, and I'm feeling the love! Join me as I share some exciting news, like the launch of the brand new Surviving Pod Network and a second podcast hosted by Nora, all about the Troubled Teen Industry. We're taking listener questions and giving a special shout-out to all the support we've received on this journey. Can you believe we've made it to building a network?

Let's take a moment to recognize how trauma can change the way we experience milestones and birthdays. I recount my most memorable pre-attack birthday and the difficult reality of my first birthday after the attack. You'll also hear a sweet story about my first date and kiss. As we celebrate my hard work and successes, we wish me a happy birthday and recognize the incredible impact I've had on so many lives.

Travel with me as I chat about my excitement and fear of traveling, as well as my plans to explore Boston, Massachusetts or Maine this year, and possibly Utah next year. Tune in as we discuss Cody's surprise trip for me and don't forget to join us for a live stream on July 14th at 8 p.m. EST. Let's raise a glass to all the lives touched and the exciting future ahead for us all. Cheers to an unforgettable birthday celebration!

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What would you do if you discovered your child was caught in the deceptive web of the Troubled Teen Industry? In this emotional episode, we have the privilege of speaking with Coleen, a brave mother who shares her heart-wrenching experience of trying to help her son, only to be led astray by an educational consultant insisting that wilderness therapy was the only option. Little did she know, this would lead her family down a traumatic path through a world riddled with deception and hidden abuse.

Coleen opens up about the harsh realities her son had to endure in the wilderness therapy program, as well as the struggles they faced with therapy, testing, and legal challenges due to her ex-husband's tie-breaking decision-making rights. As parents ourselves, it's difficult to hear the pain and frustration in Ashley's story, but her courage in sharing it is a testament to her love and dedication to her child. This conversation sheds light on the broader issues surrounding the Troubled Teen Industry, exposing the deceptive practices that these programs employ and the lasting trauma they can inflict on innocent families.

Join us in this enlightening and important episode as we explore the dark truth behind the Troubled Teen Industry and offer hope for a better future for our children. We'll discuss the power of believing in and supporting our children, as well as the strength of community in advocating for change. Let's stand together and fight against these abusive businesses to create a safer world for our kids.

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What happens when a mother's best intentions clash with a deeply flawed system? Join us in this heart-wrenching episode as we welcome Nikki and her mother Kimberly, who bravely share their story of navigating the troubled teen industry. We explore the difficult decisions made by a mother trying to protect her daughter, and the unexpected consequences that tore their family apart.

Together, Nikki and Kimberly shed light on the TTI industry from both the parent and child perspectives. We discuss the extreme tactics used to 'break down and rebuild' Nikki and the emotional toll it took on both of them. Kimberly opens up about her painful realization that the people she trusted to help Nikki were only causing more harm than good.

In the final part of our conversation, we tackle the challenging topic of confronting past trauma and the role of parental responsibility in healing. Nikki and Kimberly share their experiences of navigating the difficult conversations needed to mend their relationship and move forward. This powerful episode is not only a testimony to their resilience but also a reminder of the importance of understanding and support in overcoming the trials that life throws our way.

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What if you were forcibly taken from your home as a teenager and subjected to a harrowing, abusive experience in a troubled teen facility? My guest, Niki, bravely shares her powerful story of resilience and determination as a survivor of the Troubled Teen Industry (TTI). Her heart-wrenching experiences in two TTI facilities reveal the dark side of this billion-dollar industry that preys on vulnerable children and their families.

Together, we uncover the extreme exercises, brainwashing techniques, and financial exploitation faced by Niki and her family during her time in these facilities. The emotional and financial toll on her loved ones is difficult to comprehend, but Niki has emerged with the courage to fight against the stigma associated with surviving the TTI. We also explore her complex relationship with her body, weight, and the fitness industry, as well as the solace she finds in nature.

This episode is not only an eye-opening look into the darkness of the TTI but also a testament to the strength and resilience of survivors like Niki. Join us as we discuss her journey towards healing, self-care, and advocacy in the ongoing battle against the Troubled Teen Industry.

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Here is another Palate Cleanser Episode for you!

Mike Bono is a Comedian and Podcast Host. Healing through trauma and hardships he found laughter is the best medicine. 

 People call Mike Bono “The Angry White Comic” but you will call him hilarious. This West Virginia born Ohio comedian is sarcastic and insightful, rallying against the stupid people who seem to surround us all. Catch him at one of his shows, yelling at cars in traffic, on his Youtube channel, or his Podcast.

"Ride Home Rants" is a podcast brought to you by Comedian Mike "Bono" Bonaventura. The podcast has a different guest each week from a different career field and background talking about what led them into their career and the stops along the way. These guests are your everyday people who provide insight into their own journeys and life go

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How do we find the courage to share our most vulnerable experiences and make the right decisions for our loved ones? Join us for a heart-wrenching conversation with Ashliegh and her biological mother, Olivia, as they bravely discuss Ashliegh's  adoption story and the impact of family trauma. Listen in as we learn about Olivia's experience of physical abuse during her pregnancy with Ashliegh and how she made the difficult decision to put her daughter up for adoption to protect her from potential hardship.

Growing up with a loving adoptive family, Ashliegh always felt the support from her adoptive mother, Rhaedin, and from Olivia, who never shied away from discussing the truth of her adoption. As they navigate their newfound connection, Ashliegh and Olivia explore the complex emotions that come with reunification and the importance of transparency and open communication within both adoptive and biological families. Witness the resilience and love that can be found in family, regardless of blood ties, and the significance of supporting one another through life's challenges.

In this powerful episode, we also delve into the traumatic impact that the Troubled Teen Industry had on Ashley and her family, and the healing journey they now face. Ashliegh and Olivia's story serves as a testament to the strength of love and connection, offering hope and inspiration to those who have gone through similar experiences. So grab a tissue, and prepare to be moved by this emotional and inspiring conversation about adoption, family, and the power of love and connection.

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Josh Anderson is singer/songwriter from Knoxville, Tn.

Writing songs suh as “Heavy like A Stone” is because thats how sometimes he felt, heavy. Through his own trauma, heartache and disappointments he found music is his way to heal and express.

As a child belting out the Garth Brooks song Shameless, sparked something in Josh to find and express emotion is his own music. At times, Josh wonders if he should explore lyrics that are more uplifting, but somethings keep drawing him back to songs with feeling.

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Nicole Wasilishin "Nikki"  is the daughter of a murdered woman.

In 1993, when Nikki was 10 years old and sleeping, her mother was be shot and killed by her boyfriend in a domestic violence altercation. Her mothers boyfriend allegedly grabs a gun and my mother’s life was lost.
It’s been 30 years, and no charges have been filed. The Sedona Police Department likes to tell the family the reasoning is due to insufficient evidence. It took Nikki 28 years to become involved. Nikki requested the case-file and found out what happened to her mothers investigation or lack there of.

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One in four women in the U.S. will be targeted by an abusive partner in their lifetime. Female victims most commonly  first experience domestic violence between the ages of 18-24 (38.6%), followed by age 11-17 (22.4%), age 35-44 (6.8%) and age 45+ (2.5%). Almost one out of five or 16.3% of murder victims in the U.S. were killed by an intimate partner; women account for two out of three murder victims killed by an intimate partner.

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