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It's a reoccurring topic that single guys in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question of .. What are some things single men in the swingers lifestyle do, that just irks you so much. The answers that came back really can apply to everyone, not just single men. I thought it would be a great exercise to talk about each entry one by one, really understanding the depth of it thought.

The specific talking points for today's show are:

• Make plans after plenty of chat and planning and are a no show.
• Thinking they are God's gift to the swinging community…
• Email non stop and do not read our preferences
• Hang out by the women’s bathroom at closing time
• Are pushy, persistent, and can't take a hint. Yeah that's 3 things but they are equally annoying
• For us it is not just single men, but couples as well.  but to separate them, single men at least where we have been seem to think that just because we are in the lifestyle she is down to have sex with everyone.  This also goes with couples, as we have had couples reach out to us who obviously did not read our profiles as to what we are looking for and wanting to get together for play.  While we do enjoy a good encounter with others, we have been in and around this long enough to know what we want and we know how to attract the couples we are interested in.  Over the years it has gotten worse where men think that going to a lifestyle party is an easy score as everyone there is DTF everyone else.  Over the years we have met some of the nicest and well mannered single men, and while they are not her choice ( her choice not mine, I would love to see her play with more), she has played with a few who treat her like a lady and not a quick score.
• Unfortunately if there are single guys like these examples , the host didn’t do a good job of vetting them.  That’s why they are there.  I’m not saying that single guys can’t be annoying because yes there are a shit ton of them.   
• I can’t wait to see the post about annoying single women.
• Talking to my lady when I step away or just ignoring me like I’m not there.  Jumping into her dms to try and play while keeping me out of the loop.
• Tbh. Single men don't bother me nearly as much as the fake people, the cliques, the abuser defenders etc.

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