What is it really like to lose your hair as a man — particularly when the hair loss isn't something you expected?
In this episode of Talking Hair Loss with Katie Dear, Katie sits down with Dan Newman, founder of Baldilocks, for an incredibly honest conversation about living with alopecia, trauma, confidence, identity and mental health.
Dan shares his experience of alopecia from childhood through to adulthood, including the impact that sudden and visible hair loss had on his confidence and sense of self. He talks about feeling isolated and misunderstood, a particularly difficult experience with his GP, and the point in his twenties when he finally decided to shave his head and begin accepting the things he couldn't control.
Katie and Dan also explore the idea that hair loss is somehow “easier” for men, why that isn't true for everyone, and the importance of allowing people to experience hair loss in their own way.
Dan explains how one encounter in a barber shop eventually became the inspiration for Baldilocks — a social enterprise focused on creating inclusive, welcoming spaces and wellness experiences for people living with hair loss.
They discuss:
• The emotional and psychological impact of alopecia
• Why men need more space to talk about hair loss
• Trauma, confidence and identity
• The importance of being seen rather than looked at
• How friends and family can support someone experiencing hair loss
• Why humour became such an important part of Dan's journey
• The inspiration and mission behind Baldilocks
• Creating salons, barber shops and other spaces where people with hair loss feel welcome
• Dan's advice to anyone currently struggling with their hair loss
• The one thing Dan would tell his younger self
And, of course, there's a quick-fire round covering resilience, confidence and what makes Dan laugh on difficult days!
“A few bad experiences does not mean a bad life.”
If you're experiencing alopecia or hair loss — or supporting someone who is — we hope this conversation reminds you that you aren't alone.
Follow Dan / Baldilocks:
Instagram: @Baldilocks.me
Website: Baldilocks.me
About Talking Hair Loss with Katie Dear:
Katie talks to people with lived experience of hair loss, alongside professionals and people working within the hair-loss community, to open up honest conversations about the emotional, practical and personal side of losing your hair.
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If you need support if you are going through treatment there are many amazing charities such as Macmillen and Maggies Charity.
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