Honesty isn’t a confession—it’s an invitation.

In Telling Your Partner About ABDL by Polly Bane, vulnerability becomes the gateway to real connection. This guide explores one of the most delicate conversations in any relationship: how to share your Adult Baby / Diaper Lover (ABDL) identity or kink with someone you love—without shame, panic, or self-rejection.

Instead of sensationalism, Bane offers empathy, structure, and strategy. The book explains why secrecy creates emotional distance and how openness can transform a relationship into a space of deeper trust and curiosity. Through gentle coaching and practical steps, you’ll learn how to:

💬 Understand your own motivations before you speak
 💞 Choose the right time and language for the conversation
 🧠 Handle fear of judgment or misunderstanding with confidence
 🌱 Create mutual safety and curiosity, not confrontation
 🤝 Build a shared vocabulary of intimacy that fits your partnership

Part relationship manual, part emotional support guide, Telling Your Partner About ABDL helps readers move from anxiety to authenticity. Whether you’re newly exploring your identity or trying to heal after hiding it, the message is clear: you deserve to be known fully, and loved completely.

Polly Bane approaches the subject with trademark tenderness—balancing realism with hope, and offering communication templates, emotional framing, and grounded advice drawn from her broader work on submission, power, and consent.

This episode unpacks:
🩵 Why hiding parts of yourself erodes trust
🩵 How to guide your partner through curiosity, not shock
🩵 The difference between disclosure and dumping
🩵 Ways to turn fear into shared intimacy

Real love doesn’t require perfection—it asks for truth.
 And sometimes, the bravest thing you can say is: this is who I am.

Available now on Amazon: https://amzn.to/47FZGhM

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