Thanks Divorce

What happens when you marry a pastor and later determine you don't want to be married to him anymore? Listen to find out. Kelly Irene, joins me for this interview where she talks openly about her experiences and how she eventually created the life she is truly in love with!

This conversation discusses topics like listening to your inner knowing, trusting yourself, and finding the healing you need- when and how you need it.

A little about Kelly:

Kelly Irene is passionate about highlighting stories of womxn who have chosen the brave path of breaking out from the chains of other people's expectations to live as their truest, most authentic self. She is the host of the Most True You podcast and can be found at http://www.mosttrueyoupodcast.com/ (www.mosttrueyoupodcast.com) or http://www.instagram.com/ikellyirene (instagram.com/ikellyirene). Kelly lives in Northern California with her two human kids and one cat baby. When she's not working, podcasting, or hanging with her kids, she's often found with her feet up, a book in one hand, and a glass of kombucha in the other.

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We initially connected on Instagram: she in Australia, I in Jamaica (visiting). This episode is our DM conversations, turned in a podcast episode. Just two moms navigating a divorce, swapping advice and tales.

Her Divorce Profile: Was married for 9 years. Been separated for 1 year. Two children (under 10 years old). Was a stay-at-home mom for 6 years.

We learned that we have a lot in common and found connection in the overlap of our stories.

In the episode, we chat about being a mom of two small children while navigating a divorce- how to talk to them about it and how to recognize behavioral changes in them. We also talk about changing our names post-divorce. She has chosen a brand new last name! Not the one she had when she was married, and not the one she was born with!....which I find fascinating and totally understand.

We also both define "single motherhood" and what it means to us individually.

And toward the end, her response to "Thanks Divorce for _________" is heart-warming and powerful.

Enjoy!

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Have you ever had random ideas about life and love and also had a podcast to say them on? I do and I do.

This episode is a compilation of 5 ideas. I won't give it all away but this is the gist of the 5 ideas:

Whether people in relationships should live together or not

How long I think marriages should be

How to document when we're going through a tough time in life

My ideas on what first dates should be

How we're stronger than we think

This episode is short and sweet, but it had to be said! I'm sure I'm not the first to have these thoughts. This is just Volume One of the "Hear Me Out" series. There's more to come. I'm full of random ideas like this.

Let me know your thoughts! Find me on IG or submit a form on the contact page of our website. I'd love to hear from you.

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In this episode I speak with grief healer and licensed counselor, Katie Rossler (all her contact info below)

We speak candidly about about grief as it relates to divorce, how to recognize it and how to address it. She also defines grief in a very relatable and gives us tools on how to de-stigmatize it. I learned a lot in this episode. I hope you do too!

Katie brings a wealth of experience and expertise to this episode and it was a pleasure speaking with her. She has an upcoming book release on October 5th, 2021. The book is called "The New Face of Grief." You can learn more about it here: http://www.thenewfaceofgrief.com/ (www.thenewfaceofgrief.com). If you want to get more information about Katie and her work, her website is http://www.katierossler.com/ (www.katierossler.com) and her Instagram is @katie.rossler.

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The podcast's first interview! They grow up so fast, don't they?! haha!

In this interview I speak to my good friend and producer extraordinaire: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aidahzmuhammad/ (Aidah Muhammad).

We talk about who she is, her marriage and divorce story, and everything she's learned from all the above.

She talks about the importance of home (external and internal), the importance of listening to our inner knowing....and a whole heap of other insightful things. She honestly drops gems all throughout. Gotta catch them all, like pokemon!

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Dating after divorce can bring up a lot of emotions. In this episode, I talk about where to start and how to navigate your post-divorce dating life. I also discuss, how to know if you're ready to start dating again, how to approach the dating scene and a few dating tips for your brave new world.

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This episode invites listeners to remove romantic love from the center of your lives, and make room for other types of love. I talk about how we've been socialized to put romantic love on a pedestal and how we may not be giving enough attention to the other types of love that exists in our lives. I also give ideas on how to decentralize it. "She's invited to the party, just don't take up so much space while you're here!"

File this under: "Hear Me Out"

On another note, this one was fun to record! ....By fun, I mean scary! This was a live recording/simulcast on https://www.clubhouse.com/club/thanks-divorce (Clubhouse)! I was nervous, sweating and breathing heavy but I powered through it with what I had to say. After I stopped recording, the people in the room with me came on stage and we had an impromptu hour-long conversation about the topic. I guess another take away from the episode is to try new things, even scary things! You never know what will come of it.

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This episode is about seeing the wonderful opportunity that divorce has given us in being able to write your own script for our lives.

But wait, there's a script?! Of course there is!

I talk about "loosening the reigns of what society has prescribed for us and go for what we actually want!"

Take a listen to learn about the script that's been handed down to us, how we "drank the kool-aid" and how to make our own!

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In this episode, I talk about the three lists that will make your post-divorce life much easier, grounded and clear: The Needs List, The Non-Negotiable List and the List of Likes.

I tell you the importance of these lists, how they impact your post-divorce life and I share a little about what's on my personal lists. Get your pens and paper ready to make your lists and level up in life. Send me a note in Instagram when you do your list. I'd love to hear all about it.

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Allow me to re-introduce myself, my name's Janine!

We're two episodes in and I've finally come around to formally introducing myself. You will, of course, get to know me as I release more episodes and my personality shines through. But in this episode I share some specific details about my personal and professional life. I also share where I am (emotionally) in my divorce process, and finally I share a newfound superpower that I've developed while going through this process.

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