In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D dive deep into one of the most overlooked spiritual battles in relationships — soul ties. After betrayal, many couples feel trapped in invisible bonds that keep them emotionally and spiritually stuck, no matter how hard they try to move forward. Amee and D share their personal story of breaking free from unhealthy attachments, exposing how these ties can linger even after repentance — and how true freedom only comes when you invite God into the healing process.

Whether you’ve been betrayed, battled guilt, or are simply searching for clarity, this episode will give you practical steps, biblical insight, and raw truth to help you recognize, break, and heal from ungodly attachments. Stay tuned until the end for a powerful prayer of release and spiritual breakthrough.

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📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

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In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee & D. Widders tackle the agonizing question of infidelity recovery and the stigma of staying after cheating. Everyone loves a redemption story... until you tell them your partner cheated, and you’re fighting for your marriage. We dive deep into the "silent stigma" where the outrage, support, and loyalty from friends "dries up" the moment you choose reconciliation. We unpack why people assume staying means you are "desperate, weak, [or] have no self-worth," and how to navigate this intense external pressure. Did you know a 2023 poll found that 62% of people believe relationships should end immediately after cheating? Tune in as we expose the judgment and the gossip that follows a betrayed partner who decides to work through it instead of walking away.

The conversation gets personal as we debate the central question: Should you tell your family and friends you were cheated on? We discuss the reality that external people often "come and go," but your marriage is for the long term. Ultimately, we share why your decision should be "made up... with God" first, and then you can choose to tell—or not tell—everybody else. If you are working through marriage after an affair or dealing with the emotional labor of reconciliation stigma, this episode offers the clarity and conviction you need to prioritize your relationship. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more real-talk on navigating the hardest parts of life and love!

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📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

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00:00 The Stigma of Staying After Cheating: Should You Tell Anyone?

00:26 Point One: The Silent Stigma

00:49 Losing Support: Why Friends Distance Themselves After You Reconcile

01:33 "You Chose Him Over Us": The Family Conflict After Infidelity

02:38 Why We Kept the Cheating a Secret from Our Parents

04:25 How 50 Years of Marriage Saved Our Relationship

05:27 Why 50% of Couples Stay: Exposing the Truth About Reconciliation

07:02 Point Two: Their Pain, Your Pressure

07:52 How to Spot Bad Advice Rooted in Unresolved Trauma

09:44 Should Unhealed People Get a Say in Your Marriage?

11:15 Support Break: 1-on-1 Coaching & Biblical Counsel

11:46 Point Three: The Cost of Restoration

12:38 Is a "Relationship Purge" Necessary for Healing?

13:27 The Friend I Thought I Lost (The Story of Jean)

17:12 The 4-Part Order to Prioritize Your Spouse and Rebuild Trust

18:12 The Golden Rule: Make Up Your Mind with God First (Then Tell People)

19:42 Final Word: Your Marriage is for 100 Years, Friends Come and Go

20:42 Outro & Resources for Healing

Forgiving a cheater feels impossible… but with God, healing after betrayal is possible. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we share the raw truth about how forgiveness, healing, and rebuilding trust really happen after infidelity. Amee opens up about hearing God’s voice in her darkest moments, and D shares what it took to forgive himself after being the one who betrayed. Together, we unpack the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, how to let go of resentment, and why surrendering it all to Christ is the only path to freedom. ❤️‍🩹

If you’re struggling to forgive, to heal, or to move forward after cheating, this episode is for you. Learn how to release shame, find peace in God’s grace, and begin your own journey toward restoration — one choice at a time.

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🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

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📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd

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00:00 – Forgiving feels impossible… but one choice changes everything

00:33 – Forgiveness vs. reconciliation: what’s the difference?

02:21 – How forgiveness heals your heart and health

05:23 – Hearing God in the pain

08:28 – Forgiving yourself after betrayal

16:04 – The science behind self-forgiveness

18:25 – Forgiveness is a process, not a one-time event

21:15 – How unforgiveness opens doors spiritually

25:28 – 3 key takeaways for healing after infidelity

In Episode 72 of The ANTD Podcast Amee and D. Widders dive DEEP into the topic of DEFENSIVENESS in relationships and how it DESTROYS TRUST and STOPS INTIMACY.

Follow along as we explain how being defensive after infidelity blocks healing and transparency, shifts focus away from responsibility, and delays the rebuilding of trust and intimacy.

If you apply what we teach in this episode you will drastically speed up yoru healing after betrayal and through humility, accountability, and transparency - not defensiveness -you can being to heal, rebuild trust and have a stronger relationship that WILL LAST!

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🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

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• 0:00 – 0:37 | Intro & Theme: Defensiveness as a silent killer in relationships
• 0:37 – 1:09 | Why defensiveness destroys rebuilding after betrayal
• 1:09 – 3:48 | Point 1: Defensiveness blocks healing and transparency
• 3:48 – 5:35 | How to approach your partner without triggering defensiveness
• 5:35 – 11:26 | Point 2: Defensiveness shifts focus away from responsibility
• 11:26 – 13:41 | Intimacy, defensiveness, and different phases of relationships
• 13:41 – 15:25 | Why prayer and intentional intimacy matter in marriage
• 15:25 – 19:35 | Point 3: Defensiveness delays rebuilding trust and intimacy
• 19:35 – 20:37 | Healing takes humility, patience, and accountability
• 20:37 – 22:52 | Closing thoughts, resources, and prayer

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we talk about 5 ways that are guaranteed to speed up your healing and transform your relationship after being cheated on.

If you’ve been cheated on or have done the cheating, this episode will help you. You will Learn how to release pain and find peace through prayer,

anchor yourself in God’s Word for clarity and guidance, recognize the spiritual side of betrayal, discover the freedom forgiveness brings, reclaim your true identity in Christ and see how sharing your testimony can inspire healing!

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

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⏱️ Timestamps

00:01:01 – Prayer as the Foundation

00:07:38 – The Bible & Devotional Time

00:13:21 – Cheating is Demonic (Spiritual Warfare)

00:21:14 – Forgiveness Brings Freedom

00:26:33 – Reclaiming Your Identity in Christ

00:33:21 – Sharing Testimony & Building Community

Episode 70 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders dives deep into how to heal daily after infidelity and betrayal. Healing isn’t just about one decision—it’s about consistent, faith-filled choices that bring peace, restore trust, and rebuild your marriage. In this conversation, we break down 5 daily habits that help you overcome triggers, stop living in the past, and start creating a stronger future together.

From beginning your mornings with God to ending your nights in peace, we share practical and spiritual tools you can use right now. If you’ve been cheated on, are struggling with broken trust, or want to understand how to recover from betrayal, this episode gives you a roadmap for hope and healing. Join us as we share our own journey and encourage you to take your next step forward.

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

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00:00 – Why healing daily matters

01:00 – Start your mornings with God

08:20 – Practicing gratitude every day

11:30 – Choosing responses over reactions

15:00 – Caring for your body & mind

18:00 – Ending the day with release & rest

20:30 – Final encouragement + resources

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we share the Infidelity Survival Guide — real strategies to heal after cheating, rebuild broken trust, and overcome the painful triggers that follow betrayal. Healing is not a straight line, and we talk about what to do when you’re caught in the ups and downs, why accountability from the unfaithful partner is non-negotiable, and how couples can reset arguments before they spiral out of control.

We also discuss how prayer, transparency, and vulnerability can transform your marriage, turning moments of chaos into opportunities for connection. Whether you’re the betrayed partner or the one who was unfaithful, this conversation will give you hope, practical tools, and biblical wisdom for finding redemption. If you’ve ever wondered if your relationship can survive infidelity, this episode will show you that with consistency, accountability, and grace — healing is possible.

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd

🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/3uH9u5kTi7VcqN2x1zJ9xP

Timestamps:

0:00 – Healing after infidelity isn’t a straight line

1:13 – Why setbacks and triggers don’t erase progress

2:31 – How the betrayer can respond in tough moments

4:23 – Using prayer as a reset in conflict

6:10 – Fighting as teammates, not enemies

7:14 – Eliminating trigger words and setting boundaries

10:11 – Building trust through vulnerability and honesty

13:30 – Accountability as the foundation of rebuilding trust

15:05 – Why transparency creates safety in marriage

16:30 – Can couples really make it after cheating?

18:08 – Healing old wounds and childhood pain together

20:03 – Becoming softer, not harder, after betrayal

22:25 – Understanding your partner’s past and trauma

23:04 – Marriage as a covenant worth fighting for

24:31 – Studying the Bible together to restore intimacy

25:10 – The power of prayer and Scripture in marriage

26:35 – Final encouragement: ups & downs mean healing

Healing after cheating isn’t easy—but there IS a proven path forward. In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down the 7 Stages of Healing After Betrayal. Whether you’ve been cheated on or are trying to recover from infidelity, this roadmap will help you process the pain, find hope, and rebuild stronger than before.

We share our own story of infidelity recovery, practical tools, and faith-based steps that helped us overcome betrayal. If you’ve ever wondered “How do I heal after being cheated on?”—this episode gives you answers, encouragement, and a step-by-step guide to move forward.

👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Devotional → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 6-Week Healing Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

📖 Complete PDF Pack → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee Daily Live → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

📸 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd

🎧 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/3uH9u5kTi7VcqN2x1zJ9xP

⏱️ Time Stamps:

00:00 Intro

00:56 Stage 1: Shock & Discovery

07:32 Stage 2: Anger & Grief

11:34 Stage 3: Searching for Answers

16:01 Stage 4: Boundaries & Safety

17:43 Stage 5: Acceptance & Processing

19:03 Stage 6: Forgiveness

22:02 Stage 7: Rebuilding & Hope

25:25 Final Encouragement

Cheating isn’t just a “mistake” — in this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we unpack why cheating is demonic and how it opens the door to spiritual warfare. We dive deep into what the Bible says about infidelity, how the enemy plants seeds that destroy relationships, and the real-life spiritual experiences we’ve faced in our own marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or dating, this conversation will help you guard your heart, close spiritual doors, and break free from the chains of betrayal.

We also share practical steps to repent, cut soul ties, and build a relationship rooted in purity and faith. If you’ve been hurt by cheating—or if you’ve made mistakes yourself—this episode will give you both biblical truth and hope for restoration. Watch until the end for prayers, scripture, and steps you can take today to protect your relationship and walk in God’s freedom.

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Video Devotional & PDF Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd

🎧 Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0Z2SfrVn6bnV3XK9Oyy7XW

⏱ TIMESTAMPS ⏱

0:00 – Cheating is Demonic: Why This Matters

0:41 – Spiritual Warfare and Infidelity

2:12 – How the Enemy Uses Cheating to Destroy

8:00 – Real Spiritual Encounters in Our Marriage

15:08 – Seeds of Dissatisfaction and Temptation

19:18 – Biblical Examples of Adultery

23:47 – Why This Applies to Marriage AND Dating

25:16 – How to Close Spiritual Doors After Cheating

28:09 – Guarding Your Heart and Walking in Freedom

In Episode 66 of The ANTD Podcast with Amee & D. Widders, we answer a question we get asked all the time: How do you LOVE AGAIN after you’ve been CHEATED ON? We dive deep into the truth, tools, and faith it took for us to rebuild after repeated years of infidelity. If you’ve chosen to stay after betrayal, this episode gives you the hope and practical help to heal and love again.

Learn how daily choices, emotional safety, and spiritual maturity create a foundation for love that lasts—even after deep betrayal. We break down the power of consistency, prayer, forgiveness, and grace when you're working to rebuild what was broken. If you’ve ever felt like giving up, this episode will remind you that redemption is real—and love is still possible.

Stick around to the end where we will show you how to pray together and build a bod that cannot be broken!

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👕 This Month’s Merch Drop → https://shopantd.com/products/bet-on-the-blood-t-shirt

🗓️ 31 Day Video Devotional & PDF Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/1-antd-healing-devotional-31-day-devotional-videos-pdfs

📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses

🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio

🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

📸 Follow Us on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd

🎧 Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/0Z2SfrVn6bnV3XK9Oyy7XW

00:00 - Why love after infidelity must be a choice, not a feeling

01:22 - Point 1: Love is a daily decision (1 Corinthians 13:7)

02:00 - Why feelings are temporary and actions matter

03:49 - Love is about giving, not receiving

05:13 - The risk of loving again after betrayal

06:26 - Daily tip: Do one deliberate act of kindness

07:20 - The struggle of the betrayed spouse vs. the remorseful cheater

09:07 - Men, responsibility, and why cheating is always a choice

10:20 - Why this podcast focuses so much on infidelity

11:09 - Point 2: Small consistent actions rebuild emotional safety

12:31 - Connection rituals that actually work (Gottman Institute data)

13:02 - Why the little things are the big things

13:56 - How the cheater should rebuild without being told

15:26 - Daily effort and non-negotiable habits

16:45 - Why men especially need hugs and affection

17:54 - Physical and spiritual unity in relationships

18:18 - Point 3: God’s model of love and daily mercies (Ephesians 5:1-2)

19:33 - Why prayer together matters (Family Life Study)

20:38 - Daily tip: Close your day in prayer together

21:21 - Why people fear prayer more than intimacy

22:17 - How to pray simply and specifically

23:00 - Final challenge: 3 action steps to try this week

23:26 - Closing prayer for couples healing from infidelity