When betrayal breaks the foundation of your relationship, where do you even start? In this raw and honest episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. share how they navigated the painful aftermath of cheating—from heartbreak to healing. They talk openly about what it took to rebuild trust, why forgiveness is a daily choice, and how setting boundaries helped them finally break free from toxic cycles. If you’ve been cheated on—or you were the one who cheated—this conversation will help you understand the trauma, the process, and the path forward. Healing is possible, but it requires honesty, effort, and intentional change.

We also dive into the emotional rollercoaster of seeing “the other woman” in public, how to stop giving betrayal power over your emotions, and how faith became the anchor for restoration. This isn’t therapy talk—it’s real life. Whether you’re trying to save your relationship or just searching for peace after the pain, this episode is for you. Plus, we break down our 6-week course that walks couples through reclaiming their identity, setting boundaries, and rebuilding their relationship God's way.

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack - All 7 of Our PDF Guides

https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoration

☕️ Grab your official ANTD Coffee mug here → https://shopantd.com/products/anointed-sitcom-antd-coffee-mug-copy

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily to offer support & Q&A → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Intro: Where do you begin after betrayal?

00:35 – Why you must acknowledge the pain

01:26 – How intentional actions rebuild trust

02:12 – The moment she stopped pretending she was “okay”

04:00 – Why healing helped both the hurt and the cheater

05:18 – Forgiveness vs. trust: what’s the difference?

06:23 – Letting go of the power betrayal has over you

08:24 – When we ran into “the other woman” at the car dealership

10:05 – Rage, emotions, and learning self-control

13:06 – Boundaries: how to protect what you're rebuilding

14:21 – Why she didn’t set boundaries sooner

16:00 – What made him finally respect the boundaries

18:00 – About our 6-week healing course: how it works

What do you do when your heart says stay, but your mind says run? In this raw and faith-filled episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders walk you through the 3 most important questions to ask yourself before deciding whether to stay in a relationship after infidelity. Blending biblical truth, personal experience, and practical wisdom, they unpack what true repentance really looks like, how to rebuild trust (if it's even possible), and why your healing must be led by God—not pressure, fear, or emotion.

Whether you're in the middle of heartbreak, trying to discern God’s voice, or unsure if restoration is even possible, this episode offers the clarity, encouragement, and spiritual guidance you need. These questions aren't just for the betrayed—but for anyone seeking direction and peace in the middle of chaos. Watch until the end for a powerful testimony that proves God can bring beauty from even the deepest betrayal.

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack - All 7 of Our PDF Guides

https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoration

🛒 Grab your copy of the Forgiveness Workbook here → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-forgiveness-workbook-christ-centered-healing-guide-printable-pdf

☕️ Grab your official ANTD Coffee mug here → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-broken-hearts-club-coffee-mug

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

00:00 – Should I stay or should I go after betrayal?

01:05 – What real repentance looks like (vs. guilt or regret)

02:20 – A former cheater’s insight on true change

04:00 – When one person wants to heal but the other isn’t ready

06:00 – The cycle of empty apologies vs. action

08:00 – How to examine someone’s heart: watch the fruit

09:00 – Rebuilding trust after betrayal: who does the heavy lifting?

10:45 – “You shot me—now help me heal”: emotional analogy

11:30 – Why mutual restoration is necessary, not just survival

13:00 – Amee’s personal breaking point & moment of surrender

15:00 – The night everything almost ended… and the breakthrough

16:30 – How God used obedience to build a new legacy

18:00 – God can restore or release—listen for His voice

19:15 – Culture says “leave,” but God’s direction is personal

21:00 – 3 signs of real repentance: Remorse, Reassurance, Respect

22:30 – “Give it 100% before you walk away”

23:30 – What to do when patterns of betrayal continue

24:00 – The three-year restoration concept explained

25:00 – Final encouragement: Pray. Discern. Obey God.

25:40 – Our full healing PDF bundle now available

26:20 – Final thoughts + how our testimony keeps growing

If you've ever felt uncontrollable anger after being cheated on, or rage that lingers long after a betrayal or breakup—you’re not crazy. In this raw, faith-filled conversation, Amee and D. Widders dive deep into the emotions that come after infidelity: not just anger, but the pain, shame, and rejection hiding underneath. We unpack how to express your anger without letting it explode, how to invite God into your healing, and how to rebuild your identity when it feels like everything’s been ripped apart.

From screaming into pillows to praying through the rage, this episode is full of real-life tools, honest stories, and biblical truth. Whether you're fresh out of betrayal or still stuck in the aftershocks, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you breathe again.

📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack - All 7 of Our PDF Guides

https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoration

📋 ANTD 7 Ways To Release Anger PDF:

https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-ways-to-release-anger-faith-based-mini-guide-printable-pdf

☕️ Grab your official ANTD Coffee mug →

https://shopantd.com/products/antd-broken-hearts-club-coffee-mug

🎧 Listen to the full podcast on Spotify & Apple:

Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNC

Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

📲 Follow Us on TikTok + Instagram:

https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro: Rage is the Fire

00:38 - Why Anger After Cheating Is So Intense

01:21 - Managing Anger Without Losing Yourself

02:47 - “Your Anger Is Valid, But It Can’t Be in Control”

06:48 - Mourning Who You Were Before the Betrayal

08:14 - Placing Your Identity in God, Not the Affair

10:14 - Expressing Anger Without Exploding

12:33 - How the Unfaithful Partner Should Respond

14:09 - What Healing Looks Like Together

16:05 - Turning Fire Into Focus

17:10 - 7 Ways to Release Anger Resource

17:55 - Outro & Encouragement

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders dive into how to set boundaries after cheating in a way that protects your healing without becoming controlling. We break down why boundaries are essential after betrayal, how they can actually rebuild trust, and the mindset shifts needed to set them with confidence. This is a raw, honest conversation for anyone navigating infidelity recovery and looking for real tools to move forward with clarity and hope. ❤️‍🩹

🛒 Grab your copy of the Boundaries After Betrayal Mini Workbook here → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-boundaries-after-betrayal-mini-workbook-downloadable-pdf

☕️ Grab your official ANTD Coffee mug here → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-broken-hearts-club-coffee-mug

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal → https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A → https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro & Why Boundaries Matter

02:30 – Are Boundaries Punishment or Protection?

06:45 – Access to Phones & Transparency

12:10 – What True Repentance Looks Like

17:00 – Setting Boundaries Without Being Controlling

22:15 – Healing Together & Final Thoughts

In this episode of The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders, we dive deep into one of the most painful questions we get: how do you forgive a betrayal that shattered your heart, your trust, and your sense of safety? Amee opens up about what it was like to forgive D’s infidelity, how she found the strength to love like Jesus, and why forgiveness doesn’t mean being a doormat. Together, they break down the difference between forgiveness and trust, why betrayal feels like grieving a death, and how forgiveness is ultimately a gift you give yourself.

We also explore biblical insights, like the difference between Judas and Peter’s betrayals, the weight of carrying bitterness, and why forgiveness can transform you even when the other person doesn’t change. Whether you’re healing from infidelity, betrayal by a friend, or wounds from your past, this conversation will challenge, encourage, and give you tools to move forward. Stick around — you might just leave feeling lighter.

☕️ Grab your official ANTD Coffee mug here → https://shopantd.com/products/antd-broken-hearts-club-coffee-mug

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go – https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

Timestamps:

00:00 Intro — How do you forgive betrayal?

02:15 Amee’s story: Forgiving after infidelity

05:00 Betrayal feels like grieving the living

08:30 Forgiveness vs. trust: Why they’re different

11:20 The Judas vs. Peter principle

14:45 How unforgiveness affects your body

18:00 Biblical truths about forgiveness

22:30 Can you really heal a shattered relationship?

25:15 How to ask God for help forgiving

28:00 Final thoughts + announcements

Welcome to The ANTD Podcast with Amee and D. Widders! In today’s powerful episode, we’re diving deep into a tough but transformational topic: how infidelity — the betrayal that almost destroyed us — actually became the catalyst that made our marriage stronger than ever. We’ll walk you through the five major ways that cheating shattered our old foundation, forced us into radical honesty, and ultimately led to a love deeper and more real than we ever thought possible. If you’ve ever wondered whether a relationship can truly heal after betrayal, or if lasting change is even possible, this episode is for you.

We also talk openly about how putting God at the center of our lives changed everything — not just our marriage, but who we are as individuals. Healing from infidelity isn’t easy, but we’re living proof that it's possible with humility, hard work, and faith. Stick around until the end for encouragement, real stories, and resources to help you on your own journey. This isn’t just about surviving infidelity — it’s about building something brand new and stronger than before.

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go – https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

Why do people cheat in relationships—even in marriages built on love and faith? In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders break down 8 real reasons people cheat that go way beyond lust or boredom. From unhealed trauma and emotional neglect to ego, revenge, addiction, and lack of identity, they explore how infidelity is often a symptom of deeper wounds, not just a moral failure. If you’re searching for answers, healing, or how to rebuild after betrayal, this episode will challenge you, comfort you, and guide you with both truth and hope.

Whether you've been cheated on, made mistakes in your past, or want to protect your relationship, this episode brings real-life experience and biblical insight into one of the hardest topics couples face. You’ll learn why communication breaks down, how emotional wounds turn into temptation, and what it takes to truly heal after infidelity. God doesn't just reveal wounds—He redeems them. 💔➡️❤️‍🩹

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

📋 The Relationship Check-In: https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go – https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

⏱ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Opening: Manipulation, Pain & the Start of Healing

01:20 – “Do Most Men Cheat If Given the Chance?”

02:30 – Why This Episode Isn’t Justifying Cheating

03:40 – Reason 1: Unhealed Trauma & Emotional Baggage

06:50 – How Abandonment Shaped D’s Patterns

09:40 – What Finally Helped Him Heal

11:20 – Reason 2: Lack of Identity or Purpose

13:40 – False Identities: Culture, Careers, and Control

15:30 – Identity in Christ: The Real Shift

16:40 – Reason 3: Emotional Disconnection

19:30 – Why Many Women Cheat After Feeling Ignored

21:30 – Communication Fails & Emotional Withdrawal

23:00 – Reason 4: Entitlement & Ego (Pride in Disguise)

25:00 – Covenant vs. Convenience in Marriage

26:10 – Reason 5: Impulse, Opportunity & Weak Boundaries

28:10 – Strip Club Culture, Temptation, and Lost Values

30:00 – Reason 6: Lack of Accountability or Spiritual Covering

31:40 – Isolation, Weak Friendships, and No Guidance

33:00 – Reason 7: Addiction or Escapism

34:20 – How Lust, Porn, and Numbness Replace Intimacy

35:20 – Reason 8: Revenge or Resentment

36:10 – Final Word: Cheating Doesn’t Heal—God Does

Can trust ever be rebuilt after cheating? In this powerful episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders get raw and honest about the exact steps they took to repair their marriage after betrayal. If you've ever been cheated on—or were the one who cheated—and you're wondering if it's even possible to fix things... this episode is for you.

We break down the 3 pillars of true accountability: Remorse, Reassurance, and Respecting Boundaries. Learn why apologies without action are meaningless, how to rebuild connection through daily habits, and how a faith-driven relationship can survive even the worst pain.

You’ll also hear how D overcame guilt, Amee dealt with constant fear, and what ultimately helped them both trust again. Whether you're in a relationship trying to heal or preparing for the future, this conversation will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you—you’re not alone.

📲 Follow us for more relationship insights:

🔗 NEW: Weekly Relationship Check-In PDF:

https://shopantd.com/products/antd-weekly-relationship-check-in-printable-pdf

🔗 30-Day Healing From Infidelity Devotional + Journal:

https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

🔗 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations PDF:

https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

📧 Email Us: [email protected]

🔗 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-I

00:00 – Why Accountability Is Non-Negotiable

00:38 – Step 1: Take Ownership Without Excuses

01:45 – Why Blaming Makes Things Worse

02:47 – Breaking Complacency in Long-Term Relationships

04:03 – Rebuilding Emotional Connection Through Time

04:52 – The Compound Effect in Relationships

06:26 – Transparency: Sharing Passwords, Daily Check-ins

08:10 – The Power of Actions Over Words

09:04 – From Manipulator to Man of God

10:12 – What Real Heart Change Looks Like

11:18 – The 3 R’s: Remorse, Reassurance, Boundaries

15:03 – What Reassurance Actually Means

16:55 – Building a Relationship God Will Bless

18:00 – Why Vulnerability Is the Key to Deep Healing

19:51 – Healthy Boundaries After Infidelity

22:41 – Full Access vs. Control in Marriage

24:00 – Can God Really Restore a Broken Relationship?

24:51 – Shop Resources & Final Encouragement

In Episode 48 of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders explore how the attachment styles we develop in childhood can sabotage our adult relationships and even lead to infidelity. They break down the four attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful-avoidant) and reveal how each can influence a person’s likelihood to cheat. With personal stories, faith-filled encouragement, and even a little humor, Amee and D unpack why an unhealed inner child might drive someone to betray their partner. They emphasize that no attachment style is beyond healing – through self-awareness, God’s grace, and hard work, couples can break toxic cycles and rebuild trust after betrayal.

Links & Resources:

✨ The Healing Journal: 30-Day Healing from Infidelity Devotional & Journal – https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

🙏 The Anointed Affirmations: 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go – https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

🎥 TikTok Live: Amee is live on TikTok daily (April) to offer support & Q&A – https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

When the trust is shattered, is love enough to stay—or is it time to let go? In this emotionally raw episode of The ANTD Podcast, Amee and D. Widders open up about infidelity, betrayal, and the gut-wrenching process of deciding whether to rebuild or release a relationship. This conversation is for anyone struggling in the aftermath of cheating, wondering if the person who hurt them can ever truly change, or feeling stuck between heartbreak and hope.

With honesty, faith, and real-world wisdom, they unpack the emotional, spiritual, and psychological weight of staying—or leaving—after betrayal. You’ll learn the true signs your relationship might be worth fighting for: consistent accountability, real remorse, and transparent action. You’ll also hear when it’s time to stop holding on—especially if your partner keeps breaking promises, blaming you, or causing emotional damage. D vulnerably shares his own past of betrayal and what finally pushed him to change, while Amee brings clarity and strength to the voice of the betrayed.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How did we get here?” or “Can we come back from this?”—this episode will help you answer it with truth and grace. Whether you choose to stay and rebuild or let go and heal, there is hope beyond heartbreak.

📲 Follow us for more relationship insights:

🔗 Get your Devotional & Journal:

https://shopantd.com/products/30-day-healing-from-infidelity-devotional-journal-downloadable-printable-pdf

🔗 Get the 7-Day Prayer & Affirmations for Strength, Healing & Letting Go:

https://shopantd.com/products/antd-7-day-prayer-affirmations-for-strength-healing-letting-go

📧 Email Us: [email protected]

🔗 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply

🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/

🎧 Listen on Apple & Spotify:

🔗 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149

🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA

00:01:03 – Lack of accountability & blame shifting

00:07:06 – Controlling or isolating behavior

00:16:23 – Dishonesty & secretive behavior

00:24:17 – Emotional or verbal abuse

00:29:00 – Inconsistent actions & broken promises