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Why women test, and how to pass.
(Hint: it has nothing to do with tactics—and everything to do with truth.)

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The single quality that women ultimately probe for when they meet a man
- The behavioral nuances most men miss—but women never do
- What Zan wouldn’t do—why the spirit of invitation makes all the difference

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
02:15 Today’s question
06:55 The quality that sets certain men apart from all others
20:08 Be honest, but not crude – the art of being gentlemanly 
22:00 What Would Zan Not Do? 
42:15 How truth releases tension and creates openness in a woman
49:45 Women light up when you own your desire and express it
52:00 Another flavor of approach

What part of yourself are you most tempted to hide from a new woman you meet? Share your experience with us. 

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
When a woman tests you, she isn’t asking you to perform.

What she wants to know is: are you genuine? Or is there more going on beneath the surface that she can’t see? 

Women love to have fun—but trying to figure out whether your interest in her is real, or whether you’re just engaging her for a quick ego boost before disappearing, is not a game she wants to play.

It often surprises men how accepting women are of desires the men themselves have difficulty accepting. It’s not what you want that turns her off. It’s the fact that it scares you. 

Today’s episode explores what it means to be trustworthy—and the different flavors desire can take when it’s honestly expressed.

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship #jealousy 
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.

Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful pla

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You hear the call to adventure—how to answer it through travel without blowing up your relationships or career.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

- The difference between travelling to consume vs. to reveal something hidden within you—and how _real_ travel changes who you are

- North, East, West and South as archetypes—what each offers a man, and what a balanced traveller looks like

- Why a strong call to adventure won’t leave you until something in you has transformed (and how suffering comes from suppressing it)

- How *clearly identifying* what you’re seeking can dramatically reduce the time, money, and energy your journey requires

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Highlights

02:00 Thoughts on the first Amorati Guild call and _culture creation_

10:20 How to leave as one man and return as another

16:50 Escape vs. adventure 

22:35 You’re probably in one of these 3 stages

37:10 The archetypal North, East, West and South

39:55 Brazil as a case study 

48:30 From Zan’s client: “I have a burning desire for adventure… but I also have a great girl in my life”

What desire is burning inside of you? Let us know in the comments. 

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:

*In this week’s podcast, we begin to guide you through different models of initiation.*

Some highlights:

*1.* How different life stages require us to complete certain tasks of maturation,

*2.* How the place in the world that you’re drawn to represents the missing facet within your soul,

*3.* How you probably don’t need the size and scale of adventure you imagine. When you understand what your psyche’s calling for, you can often shorten and direct the adventure, and keep the girl… _if you truly want to._

There’s no relationship status that will rescue you from the mythical, psychospiritual urge for initiation.

But you don’t have to blow up your relationship so you can wander. In fact, knowing exactly what you’re seeking doesn’t just raise the chances of your trip being a success… it can evoke from everyone around you the empathy (and challenge) that you need.

Though most people, these days, travel completely in the dark. Impulse, without reflection.

Enjoy the episode.

And, if you’d like to go deeper into this territory, _The Art of Initiatory Travel_ will be the topic of our next Weekend Intensive.

January 10th + 11th, online.

Available to members of the Amorati Guild.

~ Jordan

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship #jealousy 

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End anxiety and dread around milestones like New Year’s or birthdays with a daily ritual and mindful pause.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

- The difference between goal-chasing and focusing on manifesting a _felt state of being_ (and how this helps you attract much higher-quality relationships)

- Why resolutions fail—and what to do instead

- A daily ritual that replaces anxiety with trust and potential

- A powerful end-of-year reflection exercise rooted in the Ars Amorata philosophy

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Highlights

56:40 Why alignment—not confidence or answers—dissolves New Year’s anxiety

59:10 Pausing, daily ritual, and the Amorati approach to reflection

01:00:00 How this is different from a resolution, plan, or to-do list

01:03:40 What actually matters

01:12:35 Zan's most enlightened quote

01:21:05 Jordan’s end-of-year exercise and reflection prompts

Up for a challenge? Participate fully in Jordan’s end-of-year reflection exercise. See the pinned comment.

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:

If you’re reading in the northern hemisphere, tonight is the longest night of the year. The ‘sun’, so to speak, has gone down, way down, and he will not rise again for three days.

In my younger days, this was one of the best times. Our pagan roots would pour through—parties, drinking, hook-ups that in any other season wouldn’t dare happen. At the coldest time of year, people became unseasonably warm.

These days, I tend to down tools in early December, travel somewhere a few days, watch the year’s best movies, and plot out what’s to come. By the time Jan rolls around, I’ve actioned my new year’s intention, and find myself in a whole new place. _Mentally, geographically, all the rest of it._

I didn’t plan this end-of-year rhythm: it’s just arisen as a natural cycle. Many things have to shift when you grow beyond party culture.

The older I get, the more I see how _shaped_ we are by seasons and rituals. I sense it’s wise to move with them.

*How intentional is your end of year? And how do you welcome the next one?*

This is what we explore on the podcast today.

In fact, I grill Zan on what I’ve always felt to be his most enlightened comment—

*‘Morning is a Promise. Everything you desire is contained within this day.’*

Take a moment to let that sink in. _Morning is a promise._

_Everything you desire is contained within this day._

~ Jordan

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How to overcome jealousy toward men who “do better” with women which keeps you from having the kind of life and relationships you desire. 

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- How being truly loved by even one great woman transforms your relationship to rejection, and the fear of “better men” taking something from you
- Why wanting another man to “dim his light” is a sign of insecurity, and how to shift into genuine masculine confidence and humility
- The surprising reason powerful men don’t exclude or compete—they include—and why this mindset makes you more attractive to women
- How to work with jealousy, fear of loss, and comparison in the moment, so these emotions help you grow instead of sabotaging your relationships

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
02:40 How Zan gradually overcame jealousy (it took years)
12:30 How jealousy hides in men: deep-rooted, subtle, and masked
13:50 Jordan experiencing the power of humility 
28:25 When _you_ become the man other men feel jealous of
34:30 How Zan’s success with Diana came from his lack of possessiveness
39:05 The transformative power of feeling fear, loss, and uncertainty

Think of a time you were around a girl you liked, and another guy showed up who commanded her attention more than you did. If you could say anything to that guy, what would it be? Would you tell him to get lost? Would you ask him _how the hell he just did that?_

ABOUT THIS VIDEO: 
Jealousy is one of those emotions men rarely admit to—and yet it quietly shapes so much of a man’s love life.

When Zan was younger, he felt it too. Jealous of the men who seemed to do better with women. Jealous of the women who chose them instead of him.

But over the years—through heartbreak, decades of travel, relationships with women who truly adored him, and the widening perspective that comes with age—something shifted. 

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan explore jealousy in all its forms: the envy men feel toward each other, the fear of loss that grips the heart, and the uncomfortable intensity of being in the “bear pit” with men who shine a little brighter. 

Most importantly, *you’ll learn how jealousy, and the fear associated with it, can be a doorway.* Not something to suppress or something to be ashamed of—but something that, if you let it be felt fully, can transform you into a freer, more grounded, more loving man.

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship #jealousy 
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How to connect with a woman across the room without saying a single word. 

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The subtle difference between *desire,* which is honest, free and independent of outcome… and *neediness,* which has a covert agenda and tries to _take_ something
- How to let a woman FEEL you by expressing your desire openly
- How to overcome internal blockages that keep you from expressing your authentic desire
- *4 practical steps* to communicating your desire to a woman across any room, without saying a single word

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
05:45 True desire vs. covert neediness 
15:07 Why power games sabotage connection (and how to escape the zero-sum mindset)
26:20 How Zan expresses genuine desire in the moment 
37:55 Don’t submit to _her,_ submit to the *third entity:* the force of attraction 
41:00 4 indicators of a guy freely expressing his desire to a woman
57:50 Try this if you struggle to sub-communicate with women 

Two men are in a room, both interested in the same woman. Their behavior looks identical… but one expresses true desire, while the other carries neediness.

What’s the real difference between them?
Share your insights in the comments.

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Two men are in a room, both interested in the same woman. 

The first guy–we’d say his interest comes from a place of *genuine desire.* He loves how the girl looks, and loves even more how her presence in the room makes him feel. Whatever conspires between the two of them, he’ll enjoy his evening. 

The second guy–we’d say his interest is laced with *neediness.* He doesn’t actually like the girl–he likes what he can get from her. It could be sex. It could be a smile… a phone number. Validation, ultimately. 

It might _look_ like he really likes her, and heck, he might even believe that himself. 

An observer looking in wouldn't be able to tell the two guys apart.

But, even though no one’s said a word, the woman has already understood volumes about each of them and sees a world of difference between the two. 

You know which guy she’d rather see again. But do you know *why?*

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan discuss the mechanics of _*desire, expressed*_ in their most detailed and practical breakdown of sub-communication yet. 

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship 
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How do you go from feeling uninspired and dissatisfied with life… to becoming a man whose presence naturally attracts, moves, and excites women?

(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 44)

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- What 'beauty' really is in the context of attraction
- What a woman needs to feel to be drawn to you
- How Zan’s philosophy of beauty applies to modern dating
- The origin story of the Amorati Guild

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
09:55 ‘Sublime’ as the 'more than ordinary' you seek
22:00 A powerful analogy for attraction: do you move women, or is your presence just kitsch?
31:30 Modern views on beauty vs. Zan’s view—beauty as a real force
37:45 How Zan’s view of beauty evolved into something deeper and more fulfilling
41:10 The value of surrounding yourself with the right people
54:02 The inspiration behind the Amorati Guild
59:05 An invitation to join elevated minds in inspiring conversations like this one

If you're here, chances are you, too, seek something more. Some call it oneness, others God—Zan and Jordan like to use words like communion, devotion, reverence and sublimity. 

*How do you fulfil your longing to experience a state of sublimity?* Is there a path to follow? _Is_ there anything you can do? And what role do women play for you in this pursuit?

Comment and share your thoughts with.

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
Many men today feel disconnected, uninspired, or stuck in surface-level dating. In this episode, Zan explains how cultivating beauty, presence, and sublimity makes a man naturally more attractive—and why inspired men create more meaningful connections with women.

Zan quotes Longinus, saying the sublime is revealed in music, poetry, and art through something that elevates you. In this sense, beauty is real and perceivable.

Just like you, many women long for contact with the sublime. And many women are deeply dissatisfied with the ordinariness of modern dating and the disappointment of shallow interactions.

What if you represented something different? What if your own pursuit of something greater—something inspiring and exciting—made you a beacon of those same qualities? What if you became her refuge?

These are the questions Zan and Jordan explore inside the Amorati Guild. If you haven’t seen it already, last weekend’s Guild Salon replay is available for a few more days.

You can watch it here: https://youtu.be/Mck6RCeX-9Q

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Why meeting and dating women frustrates you, how to be yourself around women, and the secret to having fulfilling experiences with women that very few men know. 

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The #1 factor that makes a woman fall in love with you 
- Where traditional self-improvement falls short in the dance with women 
- How real fulfillment comes from the QUALITY of your encounters, not the quantity 
- What it means to truly love a woman, and how to tell her (without tricks or antics)

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Highlights
04:30 Debunking myths about female-male attraction
07:30 What does a man who loves women look like?
12:29 Example: the energy of a man who loves women
25:25 Where traditional men's work helps — and where it kills — attraction
31:00 Women don't like men who are too rigid 
42:30 The kind of power women want you to have over them
51:00 Story: how Zan helped Jordan unlock and express his love for the feminine 

Do you love the spirit of women? And can you love that spirit more? Even beyond your better judgment?! Let us know with a comment.

As well as hit it hard in the gym, hustle your way to greater resource, and obsess over elements of ‘the game’… why not come out of the closet about what you’re biologically and spiritually designed to crave?

It would make everyone’s life a lot more… straightforward!

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
What kind of man is loved by women?

A man that first loves, like Scarface did, the money and the power? 

A man in love with the length of his workouts and his well-sculpted abs? 

A rational man with a tone of boldness and indifference, who sends slightly shorter texts to her than she sends to him? 

How about a man who’s cleaning his communication, who reads feminist literature at the matcha café? 

Now, what about a man with strong boundaries, who respects himself, who stands committed to some grand commitment, a brother to the brotherhood of brothers? 

Mmmmeh. It's our sense that the women of the world can just about hold on.

And though the man with the fat stash is chased by some women… and the post-male male sure sits in a café with a lot of women in it… at its core the universe is unambiguous, direct, and clear:

A man who loves women is loved by women.

That’s it.

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship 
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Think you don’t want to ‘commit’ to a relationship? This video will change the way you see commitment, show you how to love freely, and stop being so attached and jealous.

(Abundance in the Land of Women, Episode 42)

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- All women come and go, and no woman will be in your life forever: accepting that fact is the first step in having a relationship that’s meaningful 
- Why being devoted to your partner’s happiness – above all else – is the recipe for a free and fulfilling relationship
- How to tell if you’re acting from a place of neediness and lack (which pushes women away) or giving women what they really want 
- How to overcome jealousy and suspicion, and create an enjoyable time for you and a girl

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
03:57 Myths About Commitment 
09:22 How Women Are Like Butterflies (A Woman Will Only Ever Be in Your Life for a Finite Period)
13:22 A Constraining Relationship vs. a Freeing Relationship
16:15 How to Snap Out of Jealousy & Suspicion
25:00 What Is Devotion? 
31:55 The Test: Could You Be Devoted to a Woman Like This?
39:00 Remember This When Your Entitlement and Resentment Pop Up

Have you ever known someone (a woman or a man) that you could’ve used for your own gain, but didn’t, because you valued their happiness and well-being more? 

Share your story in the comments below. Because loving freely is the only chance you have at loving for real. 

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
The word ‘commitment’ gets thrown around a lot in the world of dating coaching. 

Women hire coaches to help them find a man who will ‘actually’ commit, while men listen to coaches talk about the freedom that comes with commitment. 

But as one Amorati member observed, the word ‘commitment’ hardly features in the Ars Amorata lexicon: Zan hardly uses it, and apparently it’s nowhere to be found in the Essentials masterclass. 

It’s not without reason, Zan says. ‘Commitment’ has become a buzzword, kind of like ‘authenticity’ and ‘vulnerability’. 

Devotion is a word that Zan prefers to champion. 

What’s the difference? 

Tune in to hear Zan and Jordan discuss their views on relationships that go beyond the kind of ‘commitment’ you’re familiar with, and actually foster more freedom and fulfillment for you and the woman you're with, rather than restrict it. 

#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips 
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How to get women to chase you by being more mysterious: what makes women fantasize over guys, and tips for increasing your spirit of mystique.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- The inner workings of a woman’s mind and what makes her obsess over a man 
- How to make her dream about you – not through tactics – but as something beneficent (how to actually give her the gift of dreaming about you) 
- Books to read to make you more mysterious 

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
03:55 Be a man that women dream about
09:50 Women experience of fantasy 
12:05 A man’s obsession with mission breeds female obsession with him
17:10 Books that’ll make you more mysterious
23:15 Two practical questions to help you explore this topic more deeply

Have you ever met somebody who made you dream in a massive way? Think about it, and share your answer in the comments below. As you come to understand what makes you dream, you understand how to make a woman dream.

ABOUT THIS VIDEO:
You work so hard to be the guy you think she wants, but in the end, she says “let’s just be friends.” 

Again, you try to be the ideal man, and she tells you you’re sweet, but you don't get what you want.

You may or may not recognize it, but deep down, what you really want is for a woman to dream about you.

Nothing can replace the attraction force that is a woman’s natural longing for a man’s presence out of her own volition.  

So, how can you be someone that a woman genuinely dreams about? 

In today’s episode, Jordan and Zan continue their exploration from last week on the themes of masculine energy and mystique, and share practical insights that will 1. help you understand what makes women fantasize over you, and 2. guide you to start increasing your sense of mystery and desirability in the world, today. 
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

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Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle ca

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Why being mysterious is so attractive to women, and the body language and texting that keeps women interested. 
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Episode 40 — What Makes a Man Mysterious — And Why Women Melt in His Presence
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80% of communication between men and women is nonverbal. 

“It’s not what you say, but how you say it”.  

Most of the time, you’re just ‘another guy’ to her. And you have opportunities to show her that you aren’t, but what do you do… say… in those situations? 

Being mysterious is a fine art that’s far too daunting for most men to practice, and those who do attempt it often end up in some extreme caricature of themselves, out of alignment and frustrated. 

In today’s episode, Jordan and Zan explore what a truly mysterious presence looks like in a man. 

With live demonstrations on ways to stand and gesture to women in person, to how to text them later on, watch and see how you, too, can start moving through the world with more mystique and intrigue. 

What thoughts come up for you after watching? Let us know in the comments below.
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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos

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