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Epsiode 26 — Build a Vision of Your Masculinity from a Blank Canvas

Today’s discussion starts in response to one viewer’s comment on his perception of the use of “re-” in the messaging of last episode’s ideas around men ‘reclaiming’ and ‘restoring’ their masculine essence. 

“Spaking in these terms, you’re looking backwards…it’s not forward-creating”, he commented. 

Zan tells us that what he champions is not a full pendulum swing back to anything. Rather, it’s about marrying beauty that was present in the past with upgrades in our intellect and knowledge that we’ve gained since. 

Today’s conversation is full of moments that spark contemplation.

Towards the end of the episode, you’ll hear the latest from Jordan and Zan on how they’re seeing the Vita Amorata come into the world. 

Share your thoughts and questions in response to today’s conversation in the comments section. We want to hear from you.
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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.

Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the primary guiding principle in our hearts and in the world.
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The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 25 — Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence
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Women Don’t Desire You When You’re Afraid of Your Own Masculine Essence

Today, Jordan and Zan shed light on one of the most fundamental, core (literally) shortcomings that men who want to be able to turn women on, must resolve. 

Tune in and discover some very simple practices that will help you become more aware of the energy moving deep within your body that makes you desirable to women, and learn to enjoy, love and celebrate those parts of yourself so that they can too. 

Soon, Jordan will be running a coaching program that will help men integrate their masculine edge and express it freely, opening up worlds of possibilities for their dating lives, and beyond. See the top comment pinned for more info. 

Share what you think about today’s discussion in the comments section. We want to hear from you.
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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.

Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the primary guiding principle in our hearts and in the w

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Episode 24 — Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover 

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Balancing Your Inner Warrior and Lover 

Today’s episode is a response to the following question from a viewer: “How can I celebrate women, and enjoy my encounters with them, when I’m in my warrior energy, and not lose it?” 

Zan and Jordan each bring a unique perspective to the conversation, citing experiences from their own lives as they both embody the warrior archetype in their individual ways. 

Ultimately, their advice is to balance your pursuit of fighting for something true, with taking time to celebrate your woman (or women in general).  

You might be surprised how little focus on her it ‘actually’ takes for you to unlock the full magic she offers. 

Little, yes–but certainly more than nothing. What they do not advocate is to bound yourself so tightly to any goal that you sacrifice everything else, including opportunities to experience beauty, along the way. 

This topic is richly nuanced, and it’s worth listening to the conversation in full to receive the message exactly as it was intended. 

We’d love to hear what comes up for you after watching.

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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

Talk to Anthony, our membership coordinator, here: https://cal.com/arsamorata. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call t

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Episode 23 — What To Do When She Brings the Storm

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If you’re in relationship with a woman, you can expect that–at some point or another–she will serve you up a juicy personal dilemma of hers. 

Its origin may have nothing to do with you, however, your own sense of well-being, and ultimately the state of your relationship will depend entirely on what you do in the face of her storm.

Lots of guys will get caught in the vortex. They’ll get frustrated, they’ll react unconsciously and they’ll end up making things worse. 

Others, having astutely examined and learned a thing or two from women in the past, will immediately assume the role of ‘coach’ without her ever having asked, harbouring even more irritation. (Pro tip: do not do this!)

This episode is a lesson in how to be present, graceful and strong–i.e. the man you want to be and the man she’ll adore–when she’s swept up in her next crisis. 

This is wisdom that every man needs to hear. 

How have you dealt with partners’ storms in the past? How can you experience beauty in your relationships when facing your own difficulties? 

We want to know your answers to these questions. Share them with us in the comments!

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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

Talk to Anthony, our membership coordinator, here: https://cal.com/arsamorata. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus c

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Episode 22 — Explore Your Relationship to Women and Step Into What’s Beyond

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On the heels of gathering in Bucharest for the Spring 2025 Amorati Conference, Jordan and Zan meet this week and reflect on the conversation had, discuss the true value of embracing the Ars Amorata philosophy, and answer the much-asked question, “How do I get more of ‘all this’ where I am?” 

Philosophers and laymen alike have long contemplated life’s great mysteries. What of Ars Amorata? What has been, is currently, and will be its contribution? 

Ultimately, it’s a certain kind of man who seeks out answers to the questions we ask here.

Follow today’s discussion for how to live the beauty of this philosophy, and to better understand where you stand in life’s most important journey: taking honest stock of your relationships. 

Keep the conversation going by sharing your thoughts with us.

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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

Talk to Anthony, our membership coordinator, here: https://cal.com/arsamorata. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.

Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the primary guiding principle in our hearts and in the world.

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Episode 21 — Life Beyond Porn — The Pearl to be Snatched from the Murky Abyss
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Every mindful man eventually faces this question: how do we navigate our relationship with sexuality in a world saturated with pornographic imagery?

If you want to feel masterful with your sexual impulses and desires, porn is a universe, a likely addiction, with which you must grapple.

There's no getting away from it. It's archetypal:

Turns out both Zan and I found a trolley-stash of adult magazines in the woods where we lived as kids. Imagine: eleven years old, that first look. The beauty of women… in all its naked forms!

Perhaps you still feel the original delight of it to this day. That sense of discovery and awe!

But as the years pass, our relationship to porn typically darkens. And most men, desiring a more conscious path through life, realize they must leave the images, the videos, behind.

In fact the consensus in good men’s work today is that pornography is wholly negative—a work of the devil!—and that we must rid ourselves of such habits as quick as we can. But within this blanket judgment, is there a soul of porn, a pearl, a gift, that might get left behind?

A trace of that original mischief? A key to our libido and vitality?

Anti-venom for our sexual shame?

Before throwing out the baby with the bathwater, Zan and I explore some nuanced views about porn—including what we’ve discovered about reclaiming the erotic imagination beyond the screen.

This is a topic we've never explored in public before. You'll walk away with fresh perspectives on how to navigate the worlds of sexual imagery.

Enjoy the show.

~ Jordan
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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich)

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The Zan and Jordan Show

Episode 20 — Semen Retention: Benefits, Usefulness, and Can You Go Too Far?

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Have you ever gone a few days without ejaculating, and noticed that you felt stronger, more confident, or that people seemed more attracted to you? Could consciously not cumming grant you access to some otherwise-impossible-to-experience level of ‘divine power’? 

For millennia, and across cultures, men have believed exactly this. 

Jordan has experimented with semen retention, and shares his experiences–the helpful and the unhelpful–in today’s episode. 

Today’s conversation will leave you considering the kind of healing that only sex–and release–with a woman can give you. It requires letting go on your part. Rigid practices and dogmatic obedience are simply incompatible.  

Have you experienced the beauty of coming together with a woman, as Zan describes it? To what degree do you believe you should, or should not, ‘retain your essence’? Consider these questions, and share your thoughts. 

~Anthony

Ars Amorata Membership Coordinator 

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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.

Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.

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Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture

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What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large.

Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if they put their best foot forward in dating, it won’t be long until they’re knocked down.

The angst of our age has become a forcefield, holding many of us and our desires back.

While we all know that a positive mindset helps create positive outcomes, it is still difficult for so many of us to let go of our grievances; our sense that so much in the world is unfair, or is skewed against us.

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan dig into the widespread feelings of resentment people feel towards “the culture” at large… and how to work with this issue, spiritually, philosophically, and practically. Not so that we forever resolve what is ‘wrong’ with the world, but so that we find our sense of oasis within it.

There are a few creative ways to deal with a dysfunctional home culture. But once you’re out of the box, it is impossible to ever climb back in.

Or is it?

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No more dry theory: learn sub-communication to command attention, master magnetic eye contact that sparks unforgettable connections, and explore the subtle art of touch—like a magician’s misdirection. Plus, unlock exclusive tactics to break through social boundaries with playful mystery.

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Giddy-up!

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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. 

Talk to Anthony, our membership coordinator, here: https://cal.com/arsamorata. 

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.

Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beau

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Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?

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Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and I don’t want to feel like I forever missed out.”

Depending on your life’s journey, you might feel like what you need now is to settle down with one woman. Understandably so, you might also be afraid that your curiosity for more experiences with women could one day put a wrench in a beautiful relationship. So how do you tame it? Can you?

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan attempt to give guys in this position an answer. 

Here’s something you might find illuminating: you pursue women, but women aren’t actually what you’re looking for. 

I see it in myself–using women to make myself feel godly, or pursuing her with the hope of forever basking in the goddess inside of her. But as the guys say in today’s episode, no woman can fulfil this longing of yours forever. 

If instead of trying to fill that void within you, you explored it, for what it is–what kind of beauty, artistic expression, and capacity for brand new pursuits could open up?

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Like a dog chasing cars–you wouldn’t really know what to do with one once you caught one! At least, after the honeymoon phase wears off :)

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Join Zan Perrion in Bucharest for WWZD (What Would Zan Do) Live—a full week of immersive, hands-on training with real models.

No more dry theory: learn sub-communication to command attention, master magnetic eye contact that sparks unforgettable connections, and explore the subtle art of touch—like a magician’s misdirection. Plus, unlock exclusive tactics to break through social boundaries with playful mystery.

Only a few spots available. Secure yours now: https://arsamorata.com/wwzd-live/

Giddy-up!

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Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/lifementoring/

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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/

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ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (

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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep?

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Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to?

Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?"

Or when you see a girl you like, are you completely bombarded with intense thoughts and feelings that you freeze up, staying where you are, never bridging that distance between the two of you, all the while stealing a glance, or two, or three...or more?

Being perceived as a 'creep' is one of the biggest fears that holds men back from interacting with women, and so from the potentiality for much more that lies between them.

How do you communicate sexual desire, without being creepy? At its core, it requires some self-examination into what lies beneath the surface-level desire for her body parts, without forgetting that she is also a fine piece of ass! Listen to today’s conversation for a couple of practical ways that you can start to walk this razor-thin line successfully. 

Today's discussion unpacks a reality of the modern dating world that almost no one is talking about, yet is key to a fulfilling interaction between a man and a woman. 

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Has today's conversation given you new insights into expressing your desire authentically?

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