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Episode 6 - Zan’s Longevity Protocols
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Many of you have been asking… so here it is:

Today, Jordan helps us discover the pearl of great price: exactly what Zan does to keep himself youthful, vibrant and energized–not just in body, but in spirit!

It is well-known that Zan keeps himself up-to-date with technology, and his dedication to health is an extension of his curiosity.

From his weekly workout routine to his strictly adhered-to diet, sleep habits to his use of supplements – plus a show and tell of some of his favourite gadgets – today’s episode packs in dozens of practical takeaways so you can enjoy more strength and aliveness, every day. 

Get ready to take notes.

Let us know what you think. And if you have your own longevity protocols to add, let us know via email!

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Episode 5 - Growing Amidst the Challenging Parts of Relationship

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Last week, Zan and Jordan discussed how a relationship can be a powerful vehicle for growth, and looked at some of the ways that we might draw inspiration from tradition and the sacred to create relationships that ground us in what matters most.

In today’s conversation, Zan and Jordan look at the nuances of ‘evolutionary relationships’, and explore what we can do practically to ensure our continued evolution within them.

Finally, a distinction between desire and neediness is made. To create the kind of relationships we’re really looking for, we first have to understand which of these energies we’re coming from. Today’s episode reveals exactly how you can know.

We would love to hear what you think about today’s discussion. Please share your thoughts, questions and insights with us—we’ll look to include them in future episodes!

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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

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Episode 4 - Relationships and the ‘Evolution of Consciousness’
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A viewer asked for our thoughts on relationships and the ‘evolution of consciousness’. I have never heard Zan mention these words, so I was curious to get his take.

On my side of things, an ‘evolutionary relationship’ – a way of framing intimacy with my woman as a place where we challenge each other and grow – has long been a core value of mine. No-one will ever see you as your woman does: there’s no greater mirror to help you understand yourself.

Zan takes a different rhythm on things. Still, for him, the relationship is the foundation from which restoring beauty, in culture, will arise.

This podcast went long, so we’re splitting it into two. This week, we look at rescuing the good and the true from traditional relationships, and how we might slow down, and reorient our intimate lives, according to ritual, quality time, and the sacred.

Next week, we’ll unpack the outer edges of relationships: the hunt for blindspots, and the perils of too much desire for growth.

As always, please send in your comments and insights. There’s a lot packed into this episode.
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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

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Episode 3 - Building Empathy for Women (When I’ve Been Hurt in the Past)
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At some point, every man on this journey has to ask himself: do I truly like women?

Even the most ardent lover has a place in his heart where he’s been wounded and thus closes off. And if, on the whole, you don’t really like women all that much, it will be hard for your relationships to have much positive feeling.

“So how do I grow empathy for women,” asked one of our viewers recently, “especially after all I’ve seen?”

The reverse question is just as true: every time a woman asks how she can build empathy for men, our culture similarly shifts.

In today’s episode we’ll talk through three stages you can walk, which will increase your understanding of the opposite sex, open your heart, and shift the gracefulness in how you move through your relationships.

After all, a man who loves women is loved by women. There is no level of ‘skill’ or ‘technique’ you can acquire that will compensate for a true and natural love.

And if you’re listening to our message, it’s because, on some level – despite what so many others are out there saying – you know the fundamental goodness and beauty of the feminine spirit. And the truth latent in men.

Enjoy the episode. And please send in your take-aways and your questions.
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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/
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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 2 - Seeing Through the Eyes of Motivation
(Or, how to always know what your lover will do next)
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Many of our listeners have asked over the years, how do I see another person more deeply? How can I understand how a particular dating or social dynamic is going to unfold?

These are good questions—but most people ask themselves the wrong ones. Their curiosity is laced with agenda: how can I swing this interaction to my advantage? How can I get what I want? When your questions are laced with strategy, you miss the other person’s deeper layers. And you’re prone to constant second-guessing: a life based in the head.

Zan has long been fascinated by motivation. Actors and screenwriters, too. For when you understand a person’s fundamental motivation, you understand the depth of their character. You know what drives the drama forward, and you’ll know what step they’re going to take next.

In this episode, we explore the nature of motivation, how to see it in others, and why clarifying our personal motivation is the lifeblood that sustains ourselves, our relationships, and our freshness in all things seduction.

Enjoy, and please add your comments!
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The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/
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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 1 - ‘Friend Zone Pro’ & The Decision to Leave

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You heard that right... Friend Zone Pro

Just like the iPhone Pro: a bigger, more complex, and more expensive form of friend-zone, with extra applications to keep you locked in.

As we get older, the nuances of the ‘friend zone’ start changing. And we’re seeing a whole host of new, creative ways that men today are using to get some of their desires met by women, but without inspiring the women they really want to go all the way.

The general dynamic in the ‘friend-zone pro’ is the same as it always was: she holds a little more power over you than you hold over her. Though you’ll never likely admit it to each other, you both know… and it is this that stops her looking at you through eyes that might surrender.

The way to leave any sort of ‘friend-zone’ remains the same, though. We reveal all inside the episode!

Enjoy, and please add your comments!
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THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.

The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/
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A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!

In this episode: Part Two of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation
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Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV 

"In Search of the Alabaster Girl"
Producer: Zan Perrion
Director: Ioan Bati
Editor: Gabriel Coroiu
Sound Editing: Nikolaos Spyratos
Original music: "Tango del'Amor" by DaKsha & Nandi
With:  Zan Perrion, Jordan Luke Collier, Rich Thompson, Owen Davis

Created by Affinity Studio (http://www.affinitystudio.ro)

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Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy--a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com and www.arsamorata.com

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A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!

 In this episode: Part One of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Salvation
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Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV 

"In Search of the Alabaster Girl"
Producer: Zan Perrion
Director: Ioan Bati
Editor: Gabriel Coroiu
Sound Editing: Nikolaos Spyratos
Original music: "Tango del'Amor" by DaKsha & Nandi
With:  Zan Perrion, Jordan Luke Collier, Rich Thompson, Owen Davis

Created by Affinity Studio (http://www.affinitystudio.ro)

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Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy--a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com and www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Ars Amorata WEBSITE: http://www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Zan Perrion WEBSITE: http://www.zanperrion.com

Join the Ars Amorata on FACEBOOK Community: https://bit.ly/3E7bDQ5

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Ars Amorata ®, The Amorati ®, Casa Amorata ®, and the Amorati logo are all registered trademarks of Alabaster Communications Inc.

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A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!

In this episode: Part Nine of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love
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Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV 

"In Search of the Alabaster Girl"
Producer: Zan Perrion
Director: Ioan Bati
Editor: Gabriel Coroiu
Sound Editing: Nikolaos Spyratos
Original music: "Tango del'Amor" by DaKsha & Nandi
With:  Zan Perrion, Jordan Luke Collier, Rich Thompson, Owen Davis

Created by Affinity Studio (http://www.affinitystudio.ro)

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Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy--a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com and www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Ars Amorata WEBSITE: http://www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Zan Perrion WEBSITE: http://www.zanperrion.com

Join the Ars Amorata on FACEBOOK Community: https://bit.ly/3E7bDQ5

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Copyright © 2023 Alabaster Communications Inc. All rights reserved 

Ars Amorata ®, The Amorati ®, Casa Amorata ®, and the Amorati logo are all registered trademarks of Alabaster Communications Inc.

Support the show

Send us Fan Mail

A coffee-fueled round-table discussion about the book, "The Alabaster Girl" by Zan Perrion. Listen in as Zan and his guests explore the themes and concepts of the book in immense and surprising detail. The episodes will be released on a regular basis, so don't forget to subscribe!

In this episode: Part Eight of the discussion on the chapter: The Way of Love
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Get the book, "The Alabaster Girl" here: https://bit.ly/3E6TxgV 

"In Search of the Alabaster Girl"
Producer: Zan Perrion
Director: Ioan Bati
Editor: Gabriel Coroiu
Sound Editing: Nikolaos Spyratos
Original music: "Tango del'Amor" by DaKsha & Nandi
With:  Zan Perrion, Jordan Luke Collier, Rich Thompson, Owen Davis

Created by Affinity Studio (http://www.affinitystudio.ro)

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Ars Amorata is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.

Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy--a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com and www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Ars Amorata WEBSITE: http://www.arsamorata.com

Visit the Zan Perrion WEBSITE: http://www.zanperrion.com

Join the Ars Amorata on FACEBOOK Community: https://bit.ly/3E7bDQ5

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Copyright © 2023 Alabaster Communications Inc. All rights reserved 

Ars Amorata ®, The Amorati ®, Casa Amorata ®, and the Amorati logo are all registered trademarks of Alabaster Communications Inc.

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