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  • How Rejection Sparks Growth and New Paths with Lucy Bedewi

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    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Lucy Bedewi about transforming rejection into an engine for personal and professional growth. Lucy is based in Austin, Texas. Listeners and viewers will learn how Lucy reframed setbacks, used resilience and self-reflection to launch her “unicorn” business approach, and why embracing imperfection can lead to powerful transformations.

    Lucy Bedewi is the brand messaging strategist and copywriter behind My Write Hand Woman. She’s known for her ability to connect the dots quickly and craft unique messaging angles that’ll turn normal businesses into unicorn brands. She has scaled her business to multi-6-figures by the age of 22, working with top coaches, irreverent brands, highly-differentiated businesses, and personality-packed e-commerce companies. Her story and work has been featured in Nasdaq, Thrive Global, and Create and Cultivate. An electric speaker and the host of the podcast Unicorn Messaging, Lucy inspires women to get clear on the articulation behind their business, move into their bigness, and create messaging that’s easy to buy from.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Using rejection as a catalyst for change and self-discovery in your career
    2. Navigating job loss and leveraging a supportive safety net to take risks
    3. The emotional reality of being fired—why it’s more common (and survivable) than people think
    4. Building a business from scratch: how spite and determination fueled Lucy’s rapid entrepreneurial success
    5. Recognizing when it’s time to walk away from unfair partnerships and startup “equity” situations
    6. Rebranding after failure: returning to authenticity, infusing personality, and launching the “unicorn” brand strategy
    7. The role of support systems, including executive coaching, in processing setbacks
    8. Shifting from internalizing rejection to viewing it as useful information—and letting go of outside validation

    Quote from the Episode: “You can be like the juiciest peach, but if someone only eats apples, they're never gonna see that you’re a delicious peach... It's never about you. It's also never about them.” — Lucy Bedewi

    Timestamps: [00:00:05] Warm welcome and where Lucy calls home (Austin, Texas) [00:00:44] What Lucy loves about Austin’s climate, food, and lifestyle [00:01:11] Introducing the theme: seeing rejection as the start of great things [00:01:43] Fired from a remote job after 90 days—emotional impact and realities [00:02:36] Graduating during the pandemic and landing her first “adult” job [00:03:32] Early career expectations, red flags, and entrepreneurial leanings [00:06:13] Taking risks because of a safety net and “Jerry Maguire” moments [00:07:12] Launching a business out of spite and necessity; setting ambitious goals [00:09:32] Why Lucy pushed for three months to hit $5k/month—and how she did it [00:12:20] The second rejection: being cut from a startup and confronting undervaluation [00:15:07] The aftermath—scaling back, self-reflection, and emotional impact [00:16:14] Rebranding gone wrong, returning to personality and authenticity [00:17:55] Launching Unicorn Messaging: helping others become the “unicorn” in their industry [00:18:30] The process of self-discovery and breaking free from the need for approval [00:20:01] The mix of personality, coaching, and support required to bounce back [00:22:54] How to NOT internalize rejection—and practical reframes for moving forward [00:25:01] Comparing “bounce-back” stories; the deeper lessons of later rejection [00:26:18] Embracing letting go, trusting what’s meant for you, and future possibilities [00:27:26] About Lucy’s current business, special quiz offer, and where to follow her [00:28:46] Fun quickfire questions (birthdays, grocery shopping hacks, favorite books) [00:31:05] Closing gratitude and final thoughts

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://www.mywritehandwoman.com and Lucy has a podcast Unicorn Messaging: https://open.spotify.com/show/22xqeOiQGWzrTNaD2NmI03

    GET LUCY'S SPECIAL OFFER:

    FREE quiz: What's Your Brand Messaging Superpower?

    https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/67979624c16f720015e296ad?method=iframe

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

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    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

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    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    35 min
  • Lactation Consultant Support for Queer and Trans Parents with Jacob Engelsman

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    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Jacob Engelsman about redefining family, identity, and lactation support for queer and trans parents. Listeners will gain insights into Jacob’s transformative career change, the importance of specialized resources for marginalized families, and the power of creating community in unconventional spaces. Jacob is Based in Atlanta, GA.

    Jacob Engelsman is an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant, infant care specialist, speaker, and writer. He is the author of Lactation for the Rest of Us: A Guide for Queer and Trans Parents and Helpers, as well as several articles and presentations on lactation support and supporting gender and sexual diversity in healthcare.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Making bold career transitions: Jacob’s move from food service to the world of birth work, doula training, and lactation consulting.
    2. What it means to be a postpartum doula versus a lactation consultant, and how real-world experience reshapes career paths.
    3. The lack of resources for queer, trans, and non-traditional families in lactation, and how Jacob is filling that gap with his book “Lactation for the Rest of Us.”
    4. Inducing lactation for non-gestational parents: myths, biology, and practical advice for queer and adoptive families.
    5. Navigating gender, belonging, and being “the only guy in the room” in feminine-dominated birth spaces.
    6. The importance of representation and referral in inclusive healthcare—ensuring all parents find the right support.
    7. Why giving space and resources for marginalized stories matters, and how listeners can be better allies by simply “being nice” and connecting people to what they need.
    8. The rise and role of telehealth in postpartum care, especially for underrepresented families.

    Quote from the Episode:

    “I think one of the things that's important to stress in conversations like these is that I'm not telling anybody to change their language about anything or to change the way they do anything. I'm asking people to be nice. If you don't feel comfortable working with trans communities, that's fine. Just know somebody that you can refer them to. That's literally the bare minimum.” — Jacob Engelsman

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://jacobengelsmanibclc.com/

    GET JACOB'S BOOK: Lactation for the Rest of Us https://bookshop.org/a/87491/9781805011910

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

    • Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast app
    • Get guest offers delivered straight to your inbox
    • Access all important links in one convenient place
    • Catch the highlights even when you don't have time to listen

    Are you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com


    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

    Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi

    Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590

    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    1 hr 8 min
  • Discovering Unconditional Joy After Depression with Alisha Kapani

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Alisha Kapani about the reality of living with and healing from depression. Alisha is based in Calgary, Alberta in Canada. Alisha shares her deeply personal journey through severe depression, suicidal ideation, and her eventual discovery of unconditional joy after years of searching and trying both conventional and unconventional healing modalities. Listeners will hear about the importance of seeking the root cause of mental illness, the power of vulnerability, and how a shift in consciousness led Alisha to her own radically transformed life and a new career.

    Alisha Kapani is a former Chemical Engineer turned Mindbody Mentor after struggling with severe depression for 5 years. She assists clients all over the world to tap into their body’s wisdom to resolve illness and access their highest possibilities for vitality and abundance.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Recognizing the signs and symptoms of depression beyond ordinary sadness.
    2. Navigating medical and therapeutic treatment options, including antidepressants and cognitive behavioral therapy.
    3. The limitations and challenges of traditional approaches to mental health.
    4. Exploring alternative healing modalities: Reiki, hypnosis, acupuncture, and more.
    5. Why addressing the emotional root cause is crucial for genuine healing—and how distraction and suppression can impede progress.
    6. Transformative impact of finding a mentor and embracing mind-body connection and quantum physics to facilitate rapid recovery.
    7. The stigma, vulnerability, and misunderstandings around mental illness—with advice for managing shame, family expectations, and relationships.
    8. Alisha’s current work as a mind body mentor, including approaches to raising your vibration and healing at the root.

    Quote from the Episode: “I think because so many people are managing their illness, whether it's a mental or physical illness, because they think that that is all that's available...I guess I just want people to know that once you get to the root cause, you can heal very quickly. I did heal pretty much right away once I figured out what the root cause was. On the other side of it is more joy than you've ever experienced in your life before.”— Alisha Kapani

    Timestamps: [00:00:06] Welcome and Alisha’s home base in Calgary, Alberta

    [00:00:41] Reflecting on learnings from the past year—epiphany around relationships and depression

    [00:01:49] Trigger warning: depression, self-harm, suicidal ideation

    [00:02:27] Timeline of Alisha’s depression and age at onset

    [00:03:49] Working with medical professionals: diagnosis and medication journey

    [00:06:31] Describing symptoms of depression—fatigue, lack of motivation, impact on relationships

    [00:08:51] Recognizing depression: misattributing root causes, effect of life transitions

    [00:10:14] Impact on work performance and relationships; perfectionism and stigma

    [00:12:55] Relationship dynamics: depression and anxiety in partnerships

    [00:15:33] Why share your story? Breaking stigma, possibilities for healing, hope for others

    [00:19:28] Was there hope? The possibility of healing and experiencing greater joy

    [00:21:05] Sources of support—role of family, friends, and especially stepmom

    [00:23:44] Treatments tried: medical, therapeutic, and unconventional modalities

    [00:26:06] Distraction as a coping strategy—work and busy schedules

    [00:28:26] Surrender and openness: discovering a mentor and holistic healing

    [00:30:59] How Alisha discovered her mentor and the science behind self-healing

    [00:33:50] The challenge of understanding others’ experiences with mental health

    [00:35:16] From engineer to intuitive—embracing spiritual healing

    [00:36:24] Realizing transformation: unconditional peace and joy

    [00:39:58] Alisha’s work as a mind body mentor; special offer for listeners

    [00:41:44] Book recommendation—Love and Respect

    [00:42:34] Favorite movie snack

    [00:42:58] Episode wrap-up and gratitude

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://www.alishakapani.com/

    GET ALISHA'S SPECIAL OFFER: 3 Ways to Raise Your Vibration Fast with Alisha’s Raise Your Vibration Bundle. Value: $100 Redeem at this link: https://alisha-kapani.mykajabi.com/3-ways-to-raise-your-vibration-fast

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

    • Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast app
    • Get guest offers delivered straight to your inbox
    • Access all important links in one convenient place
    • Catch the highlights even when you don't have time to listen

    Are you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com


    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

    Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi

    Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590

    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    47 min
  • Single Life After Dating Apps and Loving It with Blythe Alpern

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Blythe Alpern about choosing self-fulfillment over the pressures of dating and conventional adulthood. Blythe calls Atlanta, Georgia home and listeners will enjoy candid reflections on how Blythe’s decision to stop “finding her person” led to personal growth, renewed focus on her passions, and a powerful reframing of self-worth.

    Blythe Alpern is a copywriter and podcaster. As the founder of Wordwoman Creative, she helps beauty and lifestyle brands create website, email, and blog post content that makes their audience stop, stay, engage, and buy. As the host of The GenX Experience, which was recently recognized by AARP, she gives latch key kids a place to reminisce and share the joys of navigating midlife as an 80s kid. When she's not podcasting or copywriting, she's taking her dog, Buster, for long walks and working on maintaining her status as the coolest aunt to her nieces and nephew.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. The emotional toll and fatigue of dating apps: Blythe’s firsthand experiences with ghosting, bad dates, and lackluster connections.
    2. The impact of grief and family loss on personal priorities and capacity for relationships.
    3. Societal pressure to couple up and the myth of completion through partnership—especially as a Gen X woman.
    4. Navigating acceptance: Making peace with not having children and embracing the “cool aunt” role.
    5. Strategies for thriving solo—how Blythe channels energy into creative work, friendships, and solo adventures.
    6. Anxiety, introversion, and the challenge of doing things alone, from solo travel to coffee shop visits.
    7. The value of supportive friendships and reframing singlehood as a choice, not a deficit.
    8. Blythe’s work as a copywriter and her podcast “Gen X Experience” as creative outlets and platforms for fellow Gen Xers.

    Quote from the Episode: "I just got tired. I'm like, why am I putting effort when I'm not getting the effort back? And I deserve better. Every woman deserves better than a man with a picture of a fish." — Blythe Alpern

    Timestamps: [00:00:05] Amy Stone welcomes Blythe for a role-reversal interview; Blythe calls Atlanta, Georgia home. [00:00:45] Blythe’s creative life, copywriting, and beauty industry work. [00:01:11] Introduction to the pivotal “relationship choice” of 2023. [00:01:46] Blythe recounts dating during perimenopause and the realization triggered by love bombing. [00:02:28] Key turning points—being unsupported during family loss and making a conscious shift away from dating apps. [00:04:11] Memories of app fatigue and “terrible, lazy, lackluster men”; Atlanta’s unique dating frustrations. [00:05:11] Ghosting, rudeness, and security concerns on dating apps. [00:06:29] Expanding beyond the apps—fatigue from singles events and choosing personal growth over dating urgency. [00:08:02] Processing the decision with friends, and recognizing shared pain points among single women. [00:09:28] Feedback and camaraderie from Blythe’s support network. [00:11:13] The freedom and fulfillment of focusing on solo living and creative projects. [00:12:27] Blythe’s personal acceptance around motherhood, reframing her nurturing instincts in new roles. [00:15:23] Generational scripts around adulthood, and how acceptance and visibility among peers eased Blythe’s journey. [00:18:36] Overcoming anxiety and introversion for solo outings and travel; advice for others working through similar hurdles. [00:19:52] Blythe’s copywriting business “Word Woman Creative” and her podcast “Gen X Experience.” [00:21:56] Gen X nostalgia, community, and Blythe’s favorite comedy influencers on social media. [00:26:13] Rapid-fire questions on favorite color, clothing stores, and book recommendations—featuring “The Correspondent.” [00:27:59] Reflection on the lost art of letter writing and maintaining connections as an adult. [00:28:15] Closing gratitude and farewells from Amy Stone and Blythe Alpern.

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: The GenX Experience Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gen-x-experience/id1734296691

    Wordwoman Creative: https://www.wordwomancreative.com/

    GET BLYTHE'S SPECIAL OFFER: Book a done-for-you website content creation service, and receive a free strategy session to help you determine the best way to roll out your website launch(Valued at $450.). Use code: ADULTING

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

    • Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast app
    • Get guest offers delivered straight to your inbox
    • Access all important links in one convenient place
    • Catch the highlights even when you don't have time to listen

    Are you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com


    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

    Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi

    Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590

    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    32 min
  • Menopause Experience Navigating Symptoms and Doctors with Amy Benjamin

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Amy Benjamin about the overlooked realities and challenges of perimenopause and menopause. Amy Benjamin is based in a suburb of Des Moines, Iowa. The audience will learn about common symptoms that are frequently misunderstood, the lack of societal conversation, how Amy turned her struggles into advocacy, and how a renewed focus on humor and science is empowering women to advocate for better care.

    Amy Benjamin Moore, M.Ed., turned 31 years in education into a menopause revolution. As a GGS-Certified Menopause Coaching Specialist, she built the Menopause Mastery Toolkit app and the Menopause Symptom Tracker app so women could stop suffering in silence and start advocating powerfully for themselves. In her debut book, Hot Flashes & Cold Truths (2026) she tackles menopause with education, humor, and strategies because menopause shouldn’t be whispered about; it should be owned.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Recognizing and navigating the symptoms of perimenopause and menopause hidden among everyday stressors and aging.
    2. The struggle for medical validation—why so many doctors miss menopause and rely on minimal training.
    3. The impact of menopause on work, relationships, and mental health, including overlooked symptoms like brain fog, irritability, and suicidal ideation.
    4. Intergenerational silence: why women rarely hear about menopause from their families or communities.
    5. The transformation from unaddressed discomfort to becoming an informed and empowered advocate for other women.
    6. Social media’s role in connecting women for information and support, plus caution on product-driven “menopause influencers.”
    7. Essential tips for self-advocacy in medical settings—how to prepare for doctor visits and what questions to ask.
    8. Resources and support: Amy’s survival guide, coaching, and upcoming humorous book on menopause.

    Timestamps: [00:00:05] Welcome & intro; Amy Benjamin’s Midwest home and outlook on daily joy

    [00:00:39] Sources of beauty and daily nature rituals—adapting to Iowa winters

    [00:02:07] Introduction to topic: Amy's “basket of physical and emotional symptoms” and medical journey

    [00:03:39] Realization of menopause symptoms: joint pain, brain fog, memory issues, and stress in early 40s

    [00:08:09] Lack of family/societal discussion about menopause—generational silence and missed opportunities

    [00:13:30] The medical runaround: symptoms dismissed as aging, lack of hormone and menopause conversation

    [00:14:03] Discovery of frozen shoulder—an overlooked menopause symptom and physician disconnect

    [00:17:13] Doctors saying “You’re fine”—Amy’s frustration and the systemic lack of menopause education

    [00:19:17] Minimal training for doctors on menopause; expert commentary

    [00:22:23] Unexpected weight gain, irritability, impact on relationships and divorce

    [00:24:28] Suicidal ideation flashes—mental health symptoms leading to help

    [00:26:01] Extreme bleeding, ablation, still no mention of menopause by doctors

    [00:28:41] Working in a female-majority environment—absence of conversation and recent shifts

    [00:30:43] Amy’s motivation to support other women, break the silence, and advocate for her daughters

    [00:33:01] Certification as a menopause coach—training and UK influence

    [00:35:03] “Rooms talking about it”—social media, influencers, and connecting online

    [00:36:18] Caution on menopause influencer marketing vs. genuine medical info

    [00:38:01] Navigating the challenge of finding supportive medical practitioners—telehealth as a new option

    [00:40:12] Self-advocacy in medical care; specific strategies, persistence, and moving on when not heard

    [00:42:12] Resources for listeners: survival guide, symptom tracker, doctor visit checklist

    [00:44:01] Amy’s upcoming book, use of humor in menopause advocacy

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://amybenjaminmoore.com/

    GET AMY BENJAMIN'S SPECIAL OFFER: Menopause Survival Guide Free on the website.

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

    • Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast app
    • Get guest offers delivered straight to your inbox
    • Access all important links in one convenient place
    • Catch the highlights even when you don't have time to listen

    Are you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com


    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

    Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi

    Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590

    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    52 min
  • Weight Loss After 50 Keto Success Story for Aging Well with Lori Balue

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Lori Balue about the journey of sustainable weight loss after 50, holistic functional health, and how embracing adventure can transform life in midlife and beyond. Lori calls Los Angeles home. The audience will learn about the impact of food sensitivities, inflammation, and the difference between dieting and truly changing your life.

    Lori Balue is a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and former obesity survivor who lost 100 pounds naturally in her 50s and has kept it off through low-carb nutrition, metabolic repair, and a movement-forward lifestyle. Now in her 60s, she hikes rim-to-rim across the Grand Canyon, runs half-marathons, and teaches women over 50 how to reverse metabolic dysfunction and reclaim their energy without medications or extreme dieting.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Why midlife and post-50 weight loss often requires a fundamentally different approach, especially for women
    2. The lifelong “diet merry-go-round”: Lori’s story of cravings, diet culture, and not just losing, but keeping off significant weight
    3. How food sensitivities, inflammation, and functional health labs became breakthrough tools in Lori’s transformation
    4. Reversing asthma, depression, and metabolic blocks by personalizing food choices—not just following trends
    5. Moving beyond “willpower” and working with biology: protein, gut health, and understanding how diet drugs compare to real food
    6. Finding real joy and motivation by embracing movement—hiking, half marathons, and making nature a regular part of life
    7. The difference between short-term dieting and creating an adventurous, joyful lifestyle that sustains lifelong health
    8. Lori’s work as a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and how she supports women in breaking through metabolic blocks

    Quote from the Episode:

    "I look in my mirror, see, you know, I've still got, like, a flabby abdomen, and I'm 63, and I was 225 pounds, but I look and I feel slender. I feel slender and confident in my body, and I think that's great... I just started planning another half marathon and I'm going back to the Grand Canyon next September because this is what I love. And it keeps me activated and excited and joyful and happy. And I look forward to it." — Lori Balue 32:43

    Timestamps:

    00:08 Amy welcomes Lori and introduces the conversation about adulting, art, and daily beauty

    00:39 Lori shares her home in the Los Angeles high desert and love of her victory garden

    03:02 Shifting to the main topic: weight loss after age 50

    04:24 Lori’s backstory—struggles with childhood/adolescent weight, first diet at age 11–12

    06:07 A lifetime of diet programs, food cravings, and learning what did (and didn’t) work

    10:18 The turning point: functional nutrition, discovering keto, and what changed for brain health and joy

    15:51 Functional lab testing for food sensitivities—and finally reversing long-term asthma and inflammation

    20:19 Personalized transformation: experimenting, testing, and finally cracking the code

    22:40 Why profound, lasting change only happened when joy and health—not thinness—became the goals

    27:05 Commentary on weight loss meds, protein, and food “noise” today

    29:04 Discovering her adventurous self through movement, hiking, and the Grand Canyon

    37:45 Lori’s practice: Functional Diagnostic Nutrition, breaking blocks, and helping women reclaim health

    43:13 Fun closing: flowers, decorating, and the health tech/gadgets Lori now loves

    48:29 Gratitude and farewell

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST:https://loribalue.com/

    GET LORI'S SPECIAL OFFER: A downloadable recipe guide. Normally $27. Download here: https://contact.loribalue.com/recipebook

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    54 min
  • Sibling Sexual Abuse and the Power of Sharing Truth with Darlene Lekowski

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Darlene Lekowski about the lifelong impact of sibling sexual trauma and the journey of letting go of secrets that shaped her adult life. Darlene lives in the Charlotte, NC suburbs with her husband, Tom, their dog Pepper, and is the proud mother of three adult children. Listeners will learn how the process of opening up allowed Darlene to move from perfectionism and hypervigilance to forgiveness, healing, and connection.

    About Darlene Lekowski:

    Darlene Lekowski is a speaker, author, and advocate who writes and speaks about what happens when high-functioning adults realize that control and perfection aren’t peace—they’re survival strategies. After decades of striving to “hold it all together,” Darlene was forced to confront the emotional cost of living this way and learn, imperfectly, how to let go.

    Her debut memoir, Shattering Silence: A Story of Survival, Justice & the Power of Telling the Truth (April 2026), chronicles her journey of reclaiming her voice, redefining success, and choosing freedom over fear.



    Main Topics Covered:

    1. The effects of sibling sexual abuse and trauma on childhood and adult relationships
    2. Understanding and coping with PTSD masked by perfectionism, control, and success
    3. The power dynamics and family pressure that keep childhood trauma secret for decades
    4. How releasing control and secrets changed Darlene’s relationships with her children and spouse
    5. Navigating hypervigilance, competitiveness, and the illusion of “good adulting” as survival strategies
    6. The role of therapy, supportive friendships, and alternative healing methods like EFT tapping in trauma recovery
    7. The courage to confront abusers, share your story publicly, and reclaim agency—even through the stress and grief of litigation
    8. Darlene’s mission to help others break the silence around sibling sexual abuse and start honest conversations with their own children

    Quote from the Episode:

    "The problem, when you've got a giant secret, the box leaks... I had PTSD all my life, but I actually wasn't diagnosed with it until I was 58 years old. I thought my behaviors were normal." — Darlene Lekowski

    Timestamps:

    00:05 Opening & intros; Darlene’s Charlotte, NC home and warmup questions

    00:34 Proximity to mountains and ocean; Charlotte lifestyle and history fleeing snowy states

    01:24 Amy’s perspective from the tropics; setting the scene for a conversation on control and secrets

    02:10 Darlene’s midlife confrontation with trauma; timeline and context of her secret

    02:47 How her mother’s death and family dynamics led to her secret surfacing

    03:35 Civil trial details; trauma in court, family structure, and relationships

    04:08 Childhood abuse between siblings, control issues, and survival mechanisms

    07:11 Perfectionism, hypervigilance, and adult life before telling the secret

    09:02 Sports, popularity, and strategies to avoid being alone at home

    10:19 Parenting as an overprotective mom; shifting relationships after the truth was revealed

    12:10 Direct fears, coping, and the psychological weight of secrets

    14:34 How shame and trauma “leak” into all relationships—friends, colleagues, and self-image

    17:23 Examples of outsize reactions; healing journey and day-to-day changes after releasing the secret

    19:13 Close friendships, difficulty forming intimacy, and pivotal moments in recovery

    20:19 Confrontation, PTSD episode with her daughter, and major turning point

    22:03 Suppressing vs. confronting trauma after her mother’s death; blowup with sibling and lawsuit

    24:33 Long-term therapy, diagnosis of PTSD, and alternative healing (EFT tapping)

    27:59 Losing relationships with abusive siblings, family impact, and trial testimony

    30:29 Thoughts on secrets and privacy; why families keep trauma hidden

    33:39 The importance of open conversations with children and the prevalence of sibling sexual trauma

    35:11 Making the trauma public; support from children and transforming fear into connection

    36:40 Emotional healing after the trial; shedding anger and shame

    38:29 The ongoing journey of healing and finding purpose in helping others

    40:41 Publishing her book, Shattering: A Story of Survival, Justice and the Power of Telling the Truth

    41:24 Darlene’s hope for the book and her outreach mission

    42:23 Rapid-fire closing questions: morning routine, favorite book (The Women), travel habits

    44:22 Episode wrap-up and thanks

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: darlene-lekowski.com Instagram: @darlenelekowski

    GET DARLENE'S SPECIAL OFFER: Darlene’s first book will be available in April 2026.

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    Join the conversation on social. Find the Art of Imperfect Adulting on Instagram @theartof_imperfect_adulting YouTube @imperfectadulting and TikTok @imperfectadulting


    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

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    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    48 min
  • A Sobriety Journey of Choosing Mindfulness Over Numbing with Toni Will

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Toni Will, a lifelong resident of Kalamazoo, Michigan about breaking free from alcohol as a coping tool and redefining what sober success looks like.

    About Toni Will:

    Toni Will is a leadership coach, speaker, and the General Manager of the Kalamazoo Wings, making her one of the few women leading in men’s professional hockey. She is the host of the Women In… podcast, a TEDx speaker, and the creator of the empowHER conference, dedicated to uplifting women and redefining success in male-dominated spaces. Toni is known for her unapologetic authenticity and her advocacy for alcohol-free living, blending high-performance leadership with personal clarity and conscious living. Her first book will be published in August 2026, further amplifying her mission to help others own their story, challenge the norm, and lead with intention.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. Choosing sobriety during high-stress times: How COVID-19 lockdowns became an unexpected opportunity for self-work and lasting change.
    2. Professional sports & alcohol: Navigating stereotypes, “belly up with the boys” culture, and breaking barriers as the first female GM for the Kalamazoo Wings.
    3. The shortcomings of traditional recovery models: Why AA didn’t fit, and how modern, female-inclusive approaches (like This Naked Mind and Sober Sis) empowered Toni’s success.
    4. Sober curiosity versus “rock bottom”: Challenging black-and-white thinking and embracing a more inclusive, less stigmatizing language around substance use.
    5. Reclaiming time and energy: The practical and emotional benefits of giving up alcohol, from launching new businesses to deeper self-awareness and integrity.
    6. Community, belonging, and coping: Rethinking social drinking, friendship, and the unique challenges of rebuilding connections in recovery, as a female leader.
    7. Using transformation to help others: How Toni’s coaching, podcast, and upcoming book extend her story to support those reevaluating their relationship with substance.
    8. Representation matters: The power of seeing women openly lead in both sports and sobriety spaces.

    Quote from the Episode: “Whoever said that you had to drink to be a great leader? ...It’s just all these beliefs that are programmed into us and not in a culty way, but just culturally.” — Toni Will

    Timestamps:

    00:01 Introduction to Toni Will and the topic of choosing new coping skills

    02:07 Toni shares where she calls home and her approach to incorporating beauty into daily life

    04:02 The timeline of Toni’s sobriety journey and previous attempts to quit drinking

    05:51 Life before sobriety: career stress, family dynamics, and making the decision during COVID lockdowns

    08:56 Alcohol as a coping tool, early experiences with drinking, and societal influences

    12:53 Going public with her decision to quit drinking and gaining support from her husband and community

    13:38 The realities of leading a men’s professional hockey team as a woman, and the cultural context of sports and drinking

    15:38 Physical and emotional consequences of drinking, and challenging the concept of “rock bottom”

    18:23 Support systems, stigma, and balancing leadership with living alcohol-free

    20:33 The process of finding alternative recovery resources like "This Naked Mind" and Sober Sis

    24:00 Representation, leadership models, and the value of learning from empowering women

    28:21 The role of core values in lasting change and the influence on personal and professional life

    31:10 Coping skills, processing grief, and the complexity of friendship and belonging after transformation

    33:13 Toni’s entrepreneurial journey: launching a coaching business, podcast, conference, and writing a book

    35:21 Fun wrap-up: sober drink choices, mentors, and in-flight entertainment preferences

    38:45 Final thoughts, ways to connect, and community resources for listeners

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://www.toniwill.com/ You can find her podcast Women In … https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-in/id1745524618

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

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    42 min
  • Choices That Shaped The Art of Imperfect Adulting at 200 Episodes

    Amy Stone, host of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, marks a huge milestone—200 episodes—by reflecting on the choices, pivots, and lessons learned behind the scenes of the show. In this episode, Amy gets real about navigating life transitions, staying true to her values, and building a more inclusive space for women and creators.

    About Amy Stone: Amy Stone is a media entrepreneur, storyteller, and founder of The Art of Imperfect Adulting - a growing media platform featuring long-form interviews that explore the messy, non-linear reality of building a life.

    Topics covered:

    • Celebrating 200 episodes and Amy’s personal growth journey as a creator

    • Transparency around what works—and what doesn’t

    • Behind the scenes: experimenting with tech upgrades, building a creative team, and her ongoing search for a creator-first community

    • Special shout-out to listeners who’ve been part of the journey since the start

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

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    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

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    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

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    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    33 min
  • Solo Multi-Day Hiking and Rediscovering Yourself with Belinda Coker

    In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Belinda Coker about reinventing life through adventure and self-discovery, focusing on solo multi-day hiking as a transformative tool. Belinda splits her time between Australia, New Zealand, and Scotland. In this conversation she shares a change she made starting in her mid-50s that resulted in challenges, unexpected joys, and a profound sense of self-worth. About Belinda Coker:

    Belinda Coker is an Australian hiker and educator who shows women how practical adventure can restore confidence and clarity in midlife. After years of building businesses and raising three children on her own, she began hiking to find space and perspective, a journey that took her from the deserts of Australia to a solo crossing of Greenland inside the Arctic Circle. Belinda is also the founder of Soul Treader and The House Sitting Collective, where she teaches a structured, professional approach to trusted, responsible travel.

    Main Topics Covered:

    1. How to return to adventurous pursuits during midlife, even after decades away from the trail.
    2. Practical steps for women to build confidence, safety, and skills for solo travel and multi-day hiking.
    3. The emotional and physical transformation that comes from embracing new challenges after 50.
    4. Why Belinda swapped business travel for wilderness hikes—and how she found healing in nature.
    5. Navigating setbacks, unpredictable weather, and safety emergencies on remote trails.
    6. The role of community and how to surround yourself with the right support when starting something new.
    7. Early retirement and minimalist travel: making adventure possible on a budget through house sitting and frugal living.
    8. The mindset shift from “just a housewife” to self-affirmed adventurer and educator.

    Quote from the Episode:

    “I just felt that I really was someone to myself...I just really felt like I’d done something for myself, and that really was just so, so important. I can’t stress how good that made me feel.”—Belinda Coker

    Timestamps: [00:00:06] Amy welcomes Belinda and discusses where she calls home and her ties to New Zealand, Australia, and Scotland

    [00:01:42] Initial impressions of Scotland and the allure of wilderness versus developed environments

    [00:03:05] Belinda’s three stages of solo travel: from youthful adventures to international business trips and a post-pandemic return to hiking

    [00:06:05] The moment of self-realization at 55 and how the pandemic fueled her return to the outdoors

    [00:09:05] Starting over with day hikes, joining a local meetup group, and rediscovering health and confidence

    [00:12:27] First foray into overnight hiking, overcoming obstacles, and the liberating experience of her seven-day solo hike

    [00:17:00] How friends and family reacted to her decision and the importance of choosing supportive confidants

    [00:20:03] Lessons learned on the first multi-day hike: food, safety, preparation, and the realities of trail life

    [00:28:25] Pursuing skills to level up: Wilderness first aid, writing educational resources, and the dangers of unprepared hiking

    [00:29:43] Most recent hiking setback in the Canary Islands: managing gear failure, dangerous weather, and emergency decision-making

    [00:39:20] Upcoming hiking projects, the practicality of early retirement, and the value of simple/frugal living

    [00:42:49] Life as a full-time traveler, house sitter, and educator—plus a special offer for the podcast audience

    [00:45:29] Belinda’s quick takes on weather, travel routines, and what animals she really fears in Australia

    [00:48:09] Final thanks and closing remarks from Amy

    ABOUT THE SHOW: The Art of Imperfect Adulting elevates the voices of experience by sharing real stories from real people figuring out adult life. Every episode features honest conversations about life's choices, changes, and challenges—interviews with individuals (not celebrities) who share their personal experiences and insights. Through these authentic stories, listeners find validation, motivation, and inspiration for navigating their own path through modern life. Because there's a big difference between expert advice and shared experience, and hearing another person's lived experience helps us feel less alone in our own situations.

    CONNECT WITH THE GUEST: https://soultreader.com/

    GET BELINDA’'S SPECIAL OFFER:The House Sitting Collective, - House Sitting Courses

    20% off all courses (Retail Value $79 & $197)

    https://housesittingcollective.com/ CODE: ADULTING

    Note from the show: Guest offers are almost always limited-time and limited quantity. If you have any trouble redeeming the offer please reach out directly to the guest for support.

    If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support

    If you have a story to share and you'd like to be a guest on The Art of Imperfect Adulting, here are the steps for how you can make that happen. Pitch yourself at https://www.imperfectadulting.com/be-a-guest

    Never Miss a Moment of Imperfect Adulting

    We invite you to join our email community and let us bring the podcast directly to you! As a subscriber, you'll receive notifications about new episodes, exclusive offers from our amazing guests, and easier access to any of the important links mentioned on the show—no more scrambling to write down websites or remember special codes.

    Why subscribe?

    • Stay up-to-date without checking your podcast app
    • Get guest offers delivered straight to your inbox
    • Access all important links in one convenient place
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    Are you ready? Join us at https://www.imperfectadulting.com


    Here are a few resources that Amy uses to make all this great content. These are affiliate links :-)

    For livestreaming and recording ECamm https://www.ecamm.com/mac/ecammlive/?fp_ref=amy69

    Podcast hosting and distribution: Captivate FM https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=ntczmwi

    Website hosting with Siteground https://www.siteground.com/?referrer_id=9115590

    Ai Transcription Tool: Castmagic https://get.castmagic.io/ugrmjjrt8ofj

    For Email I recently switched to Beehiiv https://www.beehiiv.com?via=Amy-Stone

    before that I used Kit.

    Books I like and books written by show guests on Bookshop.org https://bookshop.org/lists/podcast-guest-authors

    52 min

About The Art Of Imperfect Adulting

From the publisher's feed

The Art of Imperfect Adulting is a podcast and streaming YouTube show for anyone who has ever looked at their own face peering back at them from a Zoom screen and thought: how did I get here, and what do I want to do next?