The Attention Cafe

The Attention Cafe

By Rachel Walker (The Play Philosophy)EducationSelf-Improvement
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The Attention Cafe episodes

  • ... to lose yourself in a relationship? With Lisa Redmond #25

    Sometimes in relationships we get 6 months or 2 years, or 10 years down the line and we’re left wondering, have I changed? Am I who I thought I was? Is this a natural evolution of me or have I compromised on who I am to fit this relationship? Today I’m talking to Lisa Redmond about our experiences of feeling lost, and coming out of the other side more in tune with ourselves than ever before.

    More from Lisa...

    Lisa Redmond is a Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Teacher and Speaker. She helps sensitive women to improve their self esteem and relationships through her 1:1 coaching program.

    http://lifedecodedcoaching.com/

    Instagram: Life Decoded

    Lisa’s Tiktok


    More from your host Rachel...

    Relationship & Life Coaching

    www.courageouslyyou.co.uk

    55 min
  • ... to doubt your relationship? With Jenell Camara #24

    Every relationship has it's doubts - but when does doubt go beyond the small everyday niggles, to a bigger problem? I'm chatting with Nurse & Life Coach Jenell Camara about her experience of relationship doubt going into her second marriage as a single parent. We talk:

    - Where does doubt come from!?

    - How can we tell when doubt isn't 'normal' anymore

    - What can you do to move yourself beyond doubt, and learn from the things you're questioning.

    Episodes over at: www.courageouslyyou.co.uk/24

    More from Jenell:

    Website: www.thisnurseknows.com

    IG: @thisnurseknows_411

    Facebook page: This Nurse Knows | Facebook

    More from your host Rachel:

    www.courageouslyyou.co.uk


    52 min
  • ... to be successful and miserable? With Janine Aurichio #23

    How do we, as a society, define success? It’s a truly difficult question. Having money, nice things and a high-powered job all certainly end up at the top of the list. But does that mean that people who have those things are happy? Or does it just mean that they are disconnected? I talk all about it in this episode with Janine Aurichio. Janine is a Joy Master, Intuition Medicine practitioner, Whole Person Certified Coach and Recovering Approval Seeker.


    More from Janine

    www.yes2yum.com

    Linkedin: Janine Aurichio

    Meet Up Group - California

    More from your host Rachel…

    Relationship Life Coaching

    53 min
  • ... my breakup made me a great leader? With Devika Dey #22

    Breakups are the single biggest catalyst for change in our personal lives. Whether it was a short or a long-term relationship, going through the process of breaking up is tough. But it can also be exactly what we need to become the great leaders we always knew we could be. How? I talk to Love & Leadership Coach Devika Dey about her challenging marriage and divorce- and how it developed her leadership skills.

    Shownotes and blog at: www.courageouslyyou.co.uk/22

    Find more from Devika:

    Linkedin: Devika Dey

    www.devikadey.com

    56 min
  • ... my inner critic is so loud? With Helen Barker #21

    This week I'm joined by Helen Barker, a Life Coach who works with people who want to be braver in their day to day life, stop people pleasing, start feeling confident in making their own decisions and build their self esteem and confidence. This week she sharing her journey with us, and how her pesky inner critic gets in the way!

    We're talking:

    - Where our inner critics come from

    - The evolution of the inner critic - self awareness to self compassion

    - How we deal with ours, and what you can do about yours.

    Shownotes at: www.courageouslyyou.co.uk/21

    More from your guest Helen: www.braveryoucoaching.com

    More from your host Rachel: www.courageouslyyou.co.uk

    52 min
  • ... to question what you've been taught about relationships? With Niilante Ogunsola-Ribeiro #20

    Relationships are very complicated things, that’s for sure! But when was the last time you tuned into your gut – really felt what your instincts were about a relationship, and compared that to what society expects of you? Because I’m here to tell you today, what society thinks and what our biology says about relationships are two very different things! Today Niilante and I are unpicking the book 'Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray & What it Means for Modern Relationships' - it's a juicy one!

    1. Society vs Biology: which drives our concept of relationships?
    2. Why the idea of paternity certainty could be wrong.
    3. The Monogamy Cage - is Monogamy a falsehood?
    4. What this all means for our relationships.
    5. Show notes and blog over at www.courageouslyyou.co.uk/20

      50 min
    6. ... these are my relationship standards? Part 2 With Cat, Eillie & Hannah #19

      In the second part of my series about dealbreakers and standards in relationships, I chat with my guests about cheating, money differences, values and standards. And more importantly, how they impact our relationships. 

      We cover:

      1. Is cheating a dealbreaker?
      2. Once a cheater, always a cheater?
      3. Money standards in relationships
      4. The impact of our value systems
      5. How standards can change over time.
      6. Show notes and blog at courageouslyyou.co.uk/19

        Guests: Cat Snyder, Eillie Wornell, Hannah George.


        More from your host Rachel…

        Relationship & Life Coaching

        Instagram: @courageouslyyoucoaching

        Pinterest: Courageously You Coaching

        39 min
      7. ... these are my relationship dealbreakers? Part 1 With Cat, Eillie & Hannah #18

        Do you know what your dealbreakers are? And if you do, how much have they changed over the years? Have some disappeared, while new ones took their place? Or have some stayed firm all this time? In todays episode I'm talking to 3 of my good gal pals about what our dealbreakers are and what they could mean for your relationships.

        Show notes and blog at courageouslyyou.co.uk/18

        Guests: Cat Snyder, Eillie Wornell, Hannah George.

        More from your host Rachel…

        Relationship & Life Coaching

        Instagram: @courageouslyyoucoaching

        Pinterest: Courageously You Coaching

        48 min
      8. ... to not know yourself in a relationship? With Alexa Darrow #17

        How well do you know yourself? Odds are, that answer will be different depending on whether you’re single or in a relationship. But one of the most common questions I get asked by women feeling lost in their relationships is ‘is it normal to feel this way?’ Alexa Darrow and I are tackling this topic in todays episode! And yikes! It’s the most honest I’ve been so far…

        We cover:

        • How Alexa got to know herself whilst being single;
        • How Rachel got to know herself whilst being in a relationship.
        • How enlightening (and difficult!) it can be from both perspectives.
        • How we lose ourselves, and how we can get to know ourselves again in relationships.

        • More from todays guest Alexa...

          www.alexadarrowcoaching.com

          Instagram: @alexadarrowcoaching

          More from your host Rachel...

          Relationship & Life Coaching

          Instagram: @courageouslyyoucoaching

          Pinterest: Courageously You Coaching


          57 min
        • ... to obsess over thoughts about your relationship? With Hayley Davis #16

          Today I'm joined by my oldest friend, Hayley Davis, to talk about how she's struggled with obsessive thoughts, how not trusting your own thoughts can cause doubt in your relationships, and I find out what Hayley thought of my relationships aged 14!

          We cover:

          - Obsessive thoughts & true crime - wanting certainty and answers

          - Obsessive thoughts about your relationship 

          - Why we have doubt about relationships

          - We share our advice for managing these thoughts.

          More from your host Rachel…

          Relationship & Life Coaching

          Instagram: @courageouslyyoucoaching

          Pinterest: Courageously You Coaching


          59 min

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