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Welcome back to season 3. In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about how Holding Old Mental Models of Each Other Damages Relationships. When people see you for who you used to be, especially our families since they are the people we’ve been around for a long time we tend to drift apart and move from them.

For instance, I had a conversation with my mom who always held me as a shy and reserved kind of person, and she kept repeating that I used to be shy and timid even after having a conversation that  I have never been so.

When such a thing happens it tends to limit the closeness we have with these people because they are so hung up on holding these old models and they can’t see the growth. Seeing a person for who they used to be tends to make the subject feel lonely and frustrated.

People will oftentimes see you for who you used to be even when you are growing, you ought to have a conversation with them and call out what you feel like and what’s going on, especially with the people you think it’s worth keeping. Just like everything, repetition is important to make the conversation sink into their mind.

It’s understandable that people take time to realize that you have moved from what you were to who you are at the moment, so have compassion and patience because they are also dealing with their past traumas. Some people wouldn’t want to see you move past who they used to see you because of their own insecurities.

It’s important to find a community of people who see you for who you are in the present moment. The question is “Who are you holding in the old mental model despite them showing you and telling you that they’ve changed?” “What’s the source of holding others to their old beliefs?” “ Are you willing to move past seeing them according to the old mental model?” Remember, holding the old mental model of others tends to damage our relationship with others since it strains the subject from having conversations with you.

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TIMESTAPS

00:46 - When people only see you for who you used to be

01:30 - When the old models get outdated

02:10 - My experience with my mum holding me as shy and timid

03:10 - Understanding the Myers Briggs profiles

05:40 - The effect of not seeing the growth and being put in the old box

07:20 - Actions we ought to take when people box us in these old models

09:30 - Consistency of behavior and expression to retrain their brains

11:00 - Shifting of career and purpose

13:00 - Being patient and compassionate with people during the process

14:00 - Finding communities that see you who are now

15:08 - On the flip side of the coin, who are you holding in the old model of mind?

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This week, Dr. Dickson and I sat down again to take the conversation to another level as we talk about going out to make a difference, changing narratives, and empowering younger generations in medical education.

Highlights from the conversation:

[00:00] Asante Dickson, MD

· Co-Founder/President of Ascension Medical Educators, LLC

· A longtime advocate for social justice in healthcare and education

· Keynote speaker/Medical educator providing quality healthcare and mitigating healthcare disparities

[06:03] Ascension Medical Educators

Ascension Medical Educators is a professional coaching mentoring service in 2018. It started with an idea of changing the way we support people in the medical pipeline.

[16:28] How our upbringing affects us

Where we grow up, what house we live in, what our parents do, how our parents think, what they are exposed to and what they expose us to contribute

significantly to whatever challenges we’re about to face. To Dr. Dickson’s family, education was everything but only few people are in the medical field. So, it was up to Dr. Dickson to figure out how he would go about organic chemistry. In short, he has always lived with “there’s got to be a way, I just do not know what it is yet”. This ended up in him partnering with his mentor to start Ascension Medical Doctors.

[34:29] Who does Ascension Medical Educators help?

Medical students are in battle and they see their comrades slowly lose the battle. And so sometimes, “C = MD” becomes a coping mechanism to keep up with all the challenges. The Avatar of people that Ascension helps are those students who decide to come back to the medical school, they are now working to put together their applications, put together their medical classes to prepare themselves for admission in the medical school. Additionally, they also help students, interns and residents who need assistance with standardize tests.

Conclusion:

With over three decades of experience from the "inside" perspective of the medical school admissions committee, Ascension Medical Educator is uniquely positioned to authentically evaluate credentials and provide honest feedback and strategic recommendations to enhance consideration for medical school admission with expert side by side coaching, to build Medical School Admission Plan.

Catch up with Dr. Asante Dickson by checking his website at https://www.ascenmed.com or contact him via email at [email protected].

You can also check him on social media channels:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amedocs

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asante_ascenmed

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/asantedickson

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about the Role Neurolinguistics Programming plays in DEI. There's the training and having the work done: The training helps in 3 distinctive areas, emotional intelligence, communication intelligence and understanding & respect of people's view of the world.   Under Emotional Intelligence, there's Emotional Awareness, Literacy and Management.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about Changing a Belief in Minutes, A Live Belief Change Exercise.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about how we deal with a conversation which we don't agree with. We are responsible for the impact our conversation has on the other person.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about how conflict is not always bad. Conflict is a normal and natural part of communication, there's always gonna be something we don't agree on.

Steps you can use to solve conflict 

       : Identify the core reason of the conflict 

       : Step into yourself(looking at the conflict on your own perspective)

       : Step into the perspective of the other person

       : Be a fly on the wall, and look at the situation on a neutral edge

Once you realize that the higher intention is almost similar to the other person then it's easier to solve the situation.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about Creating reframes to empower you.

Reframing is basically loosening the grip of unhealthy belief pattern and giving a new perspective on the view, giving someone another view.

Reframing is used to change thinking in the unconscious level.

Types of Reframes I'd like to share:

- Context Reframe; It's when someone says something and you change the context in probably a positive way.

- Content Reframe; It's changing the meaning of a situation

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about Creating New Thought Habits For New Outcomes.  Thought habits are followed by outer habits, how are we thinking about how we put in the future. Un-resourceful thought habits can be broken by first knowing there origin.  Look into the possibilities rather than focusing on what you don't want to happen.  Reframing meaning and context in order to get back on what you want.

Setting yourself an anchor, a neurological reminder.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about how we listen and what we're missing.

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In This week’s Mind ReMapping Moment, we talk about What Are You Allowing to Run Your Decisions Fear or Commitment?

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