In this episode of the Blissfully Bold podcast, I talk with award-winning cosplayer and Twitch streamer Twilight Phoenix about setting and maintaining boundaries in online spaces and conventions. We explore how the art of cosplay intersects with being a full-time lawyer, and how Phoenix manages her diverse responsibilities. We further dig into the challenges of dealing with inappropriate DMs, the importance of setting clear community guidelines, and the balancing act between professional and personal life. With reflections on handling unsolicited attention and advocating for self-care, this discussion highlights the importance of boundaries in fostering a respectful and supportive community.
This episode wraps up Domestic Violence Awareness Month, highlighting the need for women to prioritize their safety and well-being.
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Host
02:35 Meet Our Guest: Twilight Phoenix
05:43 Balancing Careers: Lawyer and Creator
08:34 Setting Boundaries in Online and Offline Spaces
10:19 Navigating Conventions and Fan Interactions
28:11 Challenges and Rewards of Building a Community
33:58 Advice for New Cosplayers
39:39 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Twilight Phoenix is an award-winning cosplayer and Twitch streamer from South Florida. With over a decade of cosplay experience under her belt, she is skilled in foam armor and prop making, sewing, wig styling, and special effects makeup. She strongly believes that cosplay, gaming, and fandom are for everyone, and loves spending time chatting with fellow nerds!
Connect with Twilight Phoenix:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_twilight_phoenix/
- Twitch: https://twitch.tv/twilightphoenixcosplay
- linktree: https://linktr.ee/TwilightPhoenix
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