In 2012, Cari Farver after blowing up at the man she had been seeing, vanished from Omaha, Nebraska but what followed made no sense. Her family, Dave Kroupa who she had been dating, and a woman named Liz Golyar, who dated the same man, began receiving disturbing, erratic messages from Cari. As the texts escalated into threats and harassment, it was clear that Cari was a stalker, hellbent on destroying lives.
However, as the investigation unfolded, the truth became far more disturbing than anyone imagined.
In Part 1, I take you through the three year long invesitgation into tracking Cari down, the digital trail that blew the case open and the chaos that led to a shocking act of violence.
What if the stalker was someone else all along?
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