The BOSSUP Podcast

Hey Girl Hey!!

Have you ever wondered why after you've been in communion or conversation with certain people, you feel emotionally tired? They come into your life and suck all the life out of you. Whether it's because you have poured too much of yourself into them or their countenance was so heavy, you had to work extra hard to stay upbeat. These are called energy drainers.

In this episode I'm going to share FIVE reasons why energy drainers are able to come into your life and disrupt the harmony you have fought so hard to establish. The last one is going to change your life forever! If you are ready, let's go!!

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Hey Girl Hey!!

Hey Boss!

Energy is like money in the bank, once it's spent it's gone! Gone Forever!

I don't usually talk about romantic relationships because well... I don't have a lot of lived experience in the dating world. But you know I can find a life lesson in anything! When I was forwarded two songs from two different people, I knew I had to bring the lesson to the Bosses! Girlfriend if WE (women) don't get it together and do a better job vetting the people we give access to us, we are always going to find ourselves trying to recover from the hurt of other people. This recovery can come from romantic relationships as well as platonic relationships - because the way we do one thing is how we do all things.

Although you are NOT responsible for what people think of you, you are responsible for how you show up in this world and who you allow in your world. How can you invite someone to your table if you don't know what you want to be served at the table? It's time for US to do a better job interviewing people before giving them access OR we will continue to full time benefits to the WRONG people! The interview process has been lacking lately and well it's time for us to get some tips on how to do a better job. If you are ready, let's go.

HEY GIRL HEY!!  

WHAT'S IN YOUR CUP? 

Psalm 23:5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

Just because it's in your cup does not mean you have to give it all away. In fact, what's in your cup is for you. You should be giving from your overflow!  

As women it's important that we learn to balance and live a life of reciprocity. 

Join me in the SheShed as I chat with Dr. Sherell Edwards the CEO of THREE Florida-based LLCs and a Holistic Healthcare Practitioner. Dr. She explains how she manages it all and still take time for herself.   

As a BOSS, you must limit your availability to everyone. You cannot be everything to everyone. YOU ARE NOT EVERY WOMAN! You are your woman. You get to decide who gets access to you. 

In this episode, I talk about:

If you are ready, let's go. 

There is so much talk about women NOT being feminine enough. We are running corporations. We are starting our own businesses. Many have waited to have babies later in life or not at all. Then you have the side where women are being "forced" to take care of the households because our men counterparts aren't. But is this a reality or just something being talked about in the media? 

Well I sat down with Allyson Bell, the Founder and CEO of Rising Goddess Wellness and we put it all on the table. Allyson left her job as a registered nurse to start her coaching business because she wanted to teach women how to embrace their femininity. Well, let me just say this conversation was an eye opener for me. It helped me to see the truth about feminine and masculine energy. Come inside the SheShed and hear what she said.

This Podcast is a glimpse into the BossUP: Becoming the CEO of Your Own Life coaching program offered by Master Life Coach and Life Strategy Coach Tina Bailey. The program is designed to help women in leadership roles see themselves as a business and market themselves a the product. 

Once you realize you are the CEO of Your Own Life you can demote, promote or terminate anything that no longer serves a purpose in your life. In my world, being a BOSS is being Bold, Optimistic, Strategic and Self-reliant. It's about living your life on your own terms. It's about finding harmony and dancing to the beat of your own drums. It's about living a life you love instead of trying to make something out of the life you were given. 

In this episode, I dive into a personal thought of how life have evolved over the generations, but how if we aren't careful we are going to pass our insecurities and fears on to our children and then to their children. Imagine if your children truly believed they were the prize and lived as the prize. Imagine if your children understood the power they hold by marketing themselves as their biggest intellectual property. Imagine if your children weren't afraid to take a risk and do the things that made happy instead of the things people said they should be doing. 

NOW imagine if you did that!!! It's time to let go of insecurities and fears, small thinking and limited beliefs and start living the life you were created to live. You are the prize! You are the best product on the market. I just need to you to believe it. 

Join me in the SheShed with guest Salina Miller.  Salina Miller, is a believer in Christ, wife, mother, visionary, public speaker, author, trailblazer, philanthropist, and the Founder/CEO of Mother 2 Mother a Non-Profit.  Salina is also the Founder/CEO of Matters of the Heart Christian Counseling Service.   We talk about how childhood trauma, fear, shame and a lack of confidence keeps you from living your dreams. If this sounds like you in any form, I encourage you to listen in.   Mentioned in this show:  Women in Leadership Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/unlockingnewlevels BossUP Program www.tinabaileyonline.com Heart Matters Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/Theheartmatter1

Let's launch into Season 2! 

The first season was about me learning the platforms and searching for my audience.  This season we "build" your life business! 

Well if nothing changes nothing changes!

You see, I've been there! I was tired of being tired; so I got my ish together and made some changes! They weren't easy but they were necessary.  I'm doing everything in my power to help you avoid the scenic route. I'm, also, bringing a few friends to help me bring light to just how important building YOU will be if you want to build a successful business or career!

I encourage you to take the personal mission statement mini-course. This will help you get clear on WHY you exist and WHY everything you have experienced up to this point in life, was necessary for your NOW.  

Do you have an entrepreneurial mindset? What is an entrepreneurial mindset? 

Being a leader is not for the faint at heart! There will be many lonely moments. Moments where you question everything including yourself. Moments where you want to throw in the towel. Moments where you have to shut out the world and focus on your own thoughts. And guess what it's okay!

In this episode, I sit down with CEO and founder of SWI Management Group, Sacha Walton. She tells us how after earning multiple 6 figures she found herself trying to make ends met and ultimately starting over. She tells us how not only did she feel defeated at times but how she didn't want to continue. She shares the "Ugly Truth about Entrepreneurship" 

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Trust the process!! How do you trust the process when what you've been praying for just don't seem to be happening? You take one step forward only to be pulled back two! 

Whether it's in business or in life, trusting the process can be hard. I have FIVE tips that have helped me learn to not only trust the process but to trust me along the way.  Let's Go!