I talk to a lot of people who say, well, my mom always said _____, or my friend always said ______, or my siblings always said ______. And I mean, they know me better than I do, so it must be true. Nah, get out of here with that. Okay? This is your life. No one else gets to tell you what you are worthy of or what you deserve or what you can have in your life. Only you get to do that. So, I'm sorry. Say buh-bye to the haters and prove them wrong, prove to them that you deserve it, that you are capable, that you are stronger, that you are made to do hard things; that you were made to accomplish whatever you set your mind to.
And when you get to that moment, you are at an incredible crossroad, my friend. You can either choose to continue believing that thing that has held you back for so long, or you can walk down the other road and you can begin to believe something new; and whichever choice you make...Okay. I’m going to be honest with you. I want you to choose the opposite. I want you to believe the different thing that helps you achieve your goal. But the reality is that it's your choice and it's your life. And honestly, there is no wrong answer because it is your journey. And if you want to keep believing that thing, you can. But if you want to accomplish your goals and you want to see your dreams come true and you want to experience an even greater life than what you're currently living, take the other road.