The Communication Guys Podcast: Communication Excellence | Professional and Personal Success

There's a new mantra among communicators today: "Connection before content." It means: Before you attempt to impart that fascinating content of yours, make sure you've established a personal connection with your audience. Today's listeners want to know who you are before they're willing to consider what you have to say. In "Connection Before Content," the Guys give 5 principles for establishing the kind of personal connection that will make any audience eager to listen.

Did you know that the average businessperson sends or receives 105 emails every day? Have you noticed how many of them you ignore—and have you ever wondered if your co-workers are ignoring yours the same way? Episode 153 of the Communication Guys podcast is "Email Fails," where the Guys give 5 principles for composing an email that's sure to get opened and read.

Have you ever wondered if you would make a good emcee? We tend to think of an emcee as a comedian, but the truth is, there's a lot more to being a master emcee than just being able to tell a few jokes. When you're called on to host an entire event, will you know what to do? In "How to Be a Master Emcee," the Guys describe the 5 key responsibilities of a great master of ceremonies. You'll rarely hear these principles taught anywhere else.

Did you see the story in USA Today? A woman named Alexa Bjornson put her 7 year-old son Landon on a plane to fly to Portland all by himself. But Landon is autistic, and Alexa was afraid her son might annoy whoever might be sitting beside him. So Alexa wrote a note, enclosed a ten dollar bill, and told her son to give it to his seatmate. What happened next? In "A Story to Inspire Us All," the Guys reveal the rest of Landon's story and draw 5 communication lessons we should all learn from it.

Why are we so stingy with our words? Words are like a miracle drug: They have the power to soothe, restore, and even heal the people around us, yet we dispense that medicine so sparingly. What makes us so cautious? What holds us back? Episode 150 of the Communication Guys podcast is "Throw Me a Bone," where the Guys describe 5 crucial aspects of life where we all need to become more generous with our words.

Are you a golfer, golf viewer, or even a golf widow? Then this episode is for you. Golf immortal Bobby Jones once said, "Golf is the closest game to the game we call life." If he was right, there must be lessons we can learn about communication from the game of golf. Episode 149 of the Communication Guys podcast is "Communication Lessons from the Golf Course," where the Guys draw 5 lessons from the links that may not lower your handicap, but will definitely improve your ability to connect.

Is it possible to connect with someone whose politics or social views are the virtual opposite of your own? Yes, it is possible—and it's important that we learn to do it, because the world is becoming more polarized than ever before. How will we solve the problems of the future if we can't even talk to one another? In "How to Connect with Someone You Hate," where the Guys describe 5 essentials for beginning to connect with someone whose views are nothing like your own.

Have you ever left a conversation wondering if you talked too much? Why do we sometimes share more about ourselves than we mean to? Why do we sometimes dominate a conversation, only to wonder later why we did so? What are the subconscious drives that lead us to say too much? In "But Enough About Me," the Guys reveal the 5 subconscious motivations that tempt all of us to say more than we mean to.

Episode 145 described 6 common techniques we all resort to in order to win an argument. They never seem to work—yet strangely, we continue to use these methods, hoping each time for a different outcome. In this episode, we'll look at 6 more of those sure-to-win techniques that practically guarantee defeat. Episode 146 of the Communication Guys podcast is "6 MORE Ways to Lose an Argument," where the Guys reveal 6 more tried-and-false approaches to conflict that we all need to give up for good.

No one likes conflict, so we often look for a shortcut that might bring the disagreement to a speedy conclusion. The problem is, some of those "shortcuts" turn out to be detours that take the conflict on a tangent or even make it worse—yet for some reason we continue to try these methods again and again, hoping each time for a better result. In "6 Ways to Lose an Argument," the Guys describe 6 no-win approaches to conflict that all of us have tried—but none of us have succeeded with.