Make A List Of People Who Inspire Or Deplete You. Strike Through The People On The "Deplete" List. Now Go Cultivate The Relationships You Want.
One of the most interesting conversations I've been having with people recently has revolved around the importance of friendships and thinking critically about the people you spend your time with, both while at work and when not working.
I'd like to start by challenging you to truthfully assess if you fall into one or more of these categories:
I realize that there are people in my life who aren't helping me be my best; they may even be holding me back. I want to surround myself with the right people
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I'm done going to bars and watching football for ten hours on weekends with my college friends who drink their faces off, and I want more.
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I want to build a new community of friends who challenge, support, and inspire me
So often, we fall into the routine of spending time with the people we feel comfortable around, even if they aren't giving us the energy to do something meaningful with our lives.