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  • The Amazing Story of Love and Friendship: A Scream Queen & Man of Words with 14 Kids

    This week on The D Spot, we converse with Saint and Monique about the journey of their relationship. Through diligent effort and commitment, they sustain their romance with communication and an unwavering bond. Tune in to hear how they confront their difficulties, glean insight into how they navigate their partnership, and learn how they assist one another in addressing past trauma.
    ► Connect with The D Spot: https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast
    ► Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT: https://linktr.ee/danamcneil
    ► Connect with this week's guests | Anthony Saint Thomas & Monique Dupree @tha original true gata
    ► Saint's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/latterdaystt
    ► Monique's Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thaoriginalgata
    ► Key Moments
    00:29 Meet Couple Monique & Saint
    01:28 Monique & Saint Introduce Each Other
    03:00 A Man of Many Children
    05:56 This is A Couple Who Loves & Respects Each Other
    06:23 "This Love isn't Effortless, It Takes A Lot of Work"
    09:06 Relationships & The Entertainment Industry
    10:19 Saint's Fast Food Relationship Theory
    12:22 "I'm a bit of an A******"
    13:43 What Are Saint & Monique Are Doing to Keep Communication Open During Conflict?
    15:05 The Effect of Childhood Trauma on Saint & Monique's Relationship
    19:31 The Value of Having A Partner Who Supports The Healing Process
    20:23 When You Have a Trauma Background, Everything is A Threat
    23:27 "I Can't Always Understand What it is Doing to You in its Entirety"
    26:18 I Know I Can't Fix My Partner's Feelings, I Haven't Had the Same Experiences They've Had
    29:09 "In Our Worst Times, We Managed to Maintain A Level of Friendship"
    33:52 "You Are Not What Happens to You, You Are How You Respond to What Happens to You."
    37:04 "Vibrate Higher"
    39:47 Society is So Busy on Social Media Trying to Mask Their True Selves
    41:33 Monique & Saint's Advice to Other Couples
    43:44 The State of Our Union
    Music by Slip.stream - Overu "Together" - https://slip.stream/tracks/7b97d941-c382-4290-9b88-f2c8387eed13



    #thedspot #drdanamcneil #relationshipexpert #relationshiptherapy #couplestherapy #couplegoals #LoveWins #TogetherForever #RelationshipGoals #BestFriendAndLover #HappilyEverAfter #Soulmates #StrongerTogether #TrustAndRespect

    50 min
  • I Love You But...I Think You Have An Addiction

    We're excited to introduce you to Dr. Jon Deam, MD, a Psychiatrist who specializes in addiction. In this video, we'll be talking about the difference between a Psychologist and a Psychiatrist and how each can benefit you. Dr. Jon will also give us insight into Medication and Mental Health, including addressing your mental health with talk therapy and medication management. Lastly, if you have a partner struggling with addiction, Dr. Jon will provide some helpful tips on how you can be an advocate for them. We know mental health is so important, so grab your coffee or tea and join us as we learn from Dr. Deam and work towards creating a more accepting and supportive community! Don't forget to hit that like button if you found this video helpful!
    Want to be a sponsor, affiliate, or guest on the podcast? Email [email protected] for more information!
    ► C O N N E C T
    ► Connect with The D Spot: https://linktr.ee/dspotpodcast
    ► Connect with Host Dr. Dana McNeil PsyD, LMFT: https://linktr.ee/danamcneil
    ► Connect with this week's guest | Dr. Jon Deam, MD
    ► Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100076377008137
    ► Website | https://drjondeam.com/
    ► Email | [email protected]
    ► K E Y M O M E N T S
    00:10 Welcome Jon Deam
    00:31 The Difference Between a Psychologist and a Psychiatrist
    01:29 What Made Dr. Deam Choose to be a Psychiatrist?
    02:28 Dana Reads a Quote From Jon's Website
    03:12 Where DId Jon's View of Mental Health Come From?
    04:18 Breaking The Stigma and Introducing New Views to the Mental Health World
    06:31 Why Arn't More Psychiatrists Adopting This Approach?
    07:13 Medication and Mental Health
    08:26 Addressing Your Mental Health with Talk Therapy
    09:18 "I Don't Need Medical Management, Why Does My Partner?"
    10:22 How do I Tell my Partner THat I Need Medical Help, and How is it Going to Effect Our Relationship?
    12:01 No One Walked into My Office to Stay the Same or Get Worse
    13:12 Mary Realized that she liked how she felt on Prozac
    14:39 You Can Be Your Partner's Advocate
    15:53 How Do I Tell My Partner I Think They Need Help?
    18:05 Your Partner May Be More Aware of What is Happening to You Than Yourself
    19:09 "I'm Going to Lend You My Hope Until You Have it Yourself"
    20:17 Covid-19 and the Rise of Substance Abuse
    22:01 Relationships, Addiction, and Coping Skills
    22:55 "If You Hold Your Breath Long Enough, You Eventually Gotta Breathe"
    24:01 The Psychiatric Effects of Addiction
    26:52 Your Partner is Not Choosing Their Addiction Over You
    27:03 Shame Spirals
    27:57 Effects of Developing Unhealthy Coping Skills at a Young Age
    29:20 How do I Explain my Addiction to my Partner?
    31:01 There is No Miricle Cure
    32:25 Addressing the Enabler
    33:22 Addiction Might be Covering Up Deeper Issues
    36:13 Dr. Deam's Final Thoughts
    music: Music by Slip.stream - Eazy "Old Polaroids" - https://slip.stream/tracks/244d1cfd-cb31-467b-9c9f-3d79479702c7-

    40 min
  • The Formula for Love and Dating Three Guys at One Time!?

    On this week's episode of The D Spot, Shay Levister is bringing her A-game and dishing out her secrets of love. The Power of Feminine Energy has never been stronger and we're going to use The Art of Ethical Seduction to find the perfect man for us. Tune in to learn the advantages of dating three guys at the same time and the perils of a first-date dinner. And don't forget about the biochemistry behind it all! We've got the information and Shay has the experience, so get ready for the journey and trust Your Love Diva for your answers. It's all on The D Spot this week and it's gonna be an episode that you won't want to miss!

    ► C O N N E C T
    ► Find all of Dana's important links here: https://linktr.ee/danamcneil
    ► Check out this week's guest: Shay Levister, Love Coach | @ShayYourLoveDiva
    Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/SHAYYOURLOVE...
    Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/SHAYYOURLOV...
    TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@shayyourlovediva
    Website | https://shayyourlovediva.com/

    31 min
  • The Truth About Reality TV with Dr. Kirk Honda

    Get ready to have your mind blown! We're tackling the truth about Reality TV, and breaking the stigma around couples therapy in the first episode of Season 2 of The D Spot with our special guest Dr. Kirk Honda, the host of the popular YouTube Show, Psychology in Seattle. 🎥 #realitytvtruth #couplestherapy

    33 min
  • The D Spot Season 2 Trailer

    Relationships, sex, polyamory, lgbtq+, and more is what we are talking about on The D Spot with Dana McNeil and her array of guests. From fellow therapists to individuals and couples living outside of societal norms, we are breaking the stigma and normalizing acceptance in a therapeutic setting.



    Music by Slip.stream - Ponder "Map 7" - https://slip.stream/tracks/a6734e24-7f68-4fed-8b74-88f861419b5d

    1 min
  • Why People Pleasers Attract Narcissists with Mary Joye

    Mary Joye is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Life Coach and Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator. Life coaching clients from around the globe seek her help navigating codependent recovery. As a psychiatrist's daughter, she understands how it feels to be an extension of a family image and better yet, how to become independent of past programming and work towards healthy relationships. Mary helps others become conscious of their subconscious and assists them to expedite healing with meditations, visualizations, affirmations, and guided imagery.
    Her recent book, “Codependent Discovery and Recovery 2.0: A Holistic Guide to Healing and Freeing Yourself on HCI/Simon and Schuster has been well received. Her transformative journey was featured in "O" Magazine. She is a best-selling writer for DailyOM.com and her most popular course, "From Codependent to Independent" has sold tens of thousands of copies. She contributes as a guest author and interviewer to OpentoHope.com, Huffington Post, Prevention, ThriveGlobal, UpJourney, Psychology Today, and many other publications. Mary is a guest on podcasts and teaches seminars on codependency and has her own podcast on Mental Health News Radio Network titled, “Mental Health Discovery and Recovery”.
    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    - How social media is elevating narcissistic tendencies in society
    - How codependency is a form of self-harm and an addiction
    - How narcissists are attracted to kind and compassionate people, rather than the other way around.
    Connect with Mary:
    Website: https://www.winterhavencounseling.com/
    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@maryjoyelmhc
    Podcast: https://www.mentalhealthnewsradionetwork.com/our-shows/mental-health-discovery-recovery/
    Connect with Dana:
    Website: https://danamcneil.com/
    Therapy Package: www.therapygetaway.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-dana-mcneil/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTiGMC8VeLRMFl8FN9MYFSg

    30 min
  • How do you know if you Need Individual or Couples Therapy? with David Tzall

    David Tzall is a licensed psychologist that currently works with the NYPD and in private practice in Brooklyn, NY. He has gained extensive clinical experience working with an SMI population in civil and forensic hospitals and with incarcerated individuals. He advocates for criminal justice reform, including the need for drug courts and mental health resources. In his practice, David works with individuals and high conflict couples. He also engages with parents in various parts of their developmental process as a parent coach and parent coordinator.
    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    - Why should there be more divorces?
    - How couples therapy can be beneficial to a couple and an individual.
    - Encouraging introspection when it comes to suggesting therapy.
    - When to know when your relationship is over, and when you need 1-on-1 help.
    Connect with David
    Website: https://www.davidtzall.com/
    Social Links: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-tzall/
    Connect with Dana:
    Website: https://danamcneil.com/
    Therapy Package: www.therapygetaway.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-dana-mcneil/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTiGMC8VeLRMFl8FN9MYFSg

    26 min
  • Diversity and Inclusion in Relationships with Dr. Steven Jones

    Dr. Steven Jones is the founder and CEO of JONES, a global consulting firm that strengthens its clients’ ability to excel through diversity, inclusion, and organizational excellence.
    For 30+ years, Dr. Jones has provided consulting, training, and coaching services to large and small organizations throughout the world. He also served as a National Diversity Consultant for a number of companies, including Honda.
    He is the past President of the San Diego Black Chamber of Commerce. Named “CEO of the Year” in the small business category, Dr. Jones was also identified as one of the Top 50 Black Leaders in San Diego by the San Diego Business Journal.
    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    - How does diversity, inclusion, and equity play out in relationships?
    - What it means to create relationships based on understanding each other instead of just agreeing with each other.
    - How do cultural differences shape our understanding of love and relationships?
    Connect with Dr. Jones:
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/jones-&-associates-consulting-inc-/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/we.are.jones/
    Connect with Dana:
    Website: https://danamcneil.com/
    Therapy Package: www.therapygetaway.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-dana-mcneil/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTiGMC8VeLRMFl8FN9MYFSg

    36 min
  • Am I in a Relationship with a Narcissist? with Lena Derhally

    Lena Derhally is a licensed and Imago certified psychotherapist in private practice. She is the author of the Amazon True Crime and Criminology bestseller, My Daddy is a Hero: How Chris Watts Went from Family Man to Family Killer, and, The Facebook Narcissist: How to Identify and Protect Yourself and Your Loved Ones from Social Media Narcissism (foreword by Mika Brzezinski).
    Her work and expertise have been featured in Oprah Magazine, SELF, Glamour, The Washington Post, A&E, Hollywood Life, The Huffington Post, Law and Crime, Tubi TV, and more. She was formerly a clinical instructor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the George Washington School of Medicine, where she mentored medical students, and she is on the advisory board of 1455 Literary Arts. She lives in Washington DC with her husband, children, and rescue pets.
    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    - The surprising effects of popular media on understanding narcissism and what it really is.
    - The signs of abuse that may be difficult to recognize from within.
    - How to identify extreme narcissism and what to do about it.
    Connect with Lena:
    Website: www.lenaderhally.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LenaDerhallybooks
    LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lena-a-0a1bbb1b
    Instagram: @therapywithlena
    Connect with Dana:
    Website: https://danamcneil.com/
    Therapy Package: www.therapygetaway.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-dana-mcneil/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTiGMC8VeLRMFl8FN9MYFSg

    34 min
  • Why Woman are Attracted to F-Boys with Glenn Sandifer

    Glenn Sandifer has over 20 years of experience in regional and national field sales and marketing roles. While building his career as a professional, Glenn has learned that success in the workplace is often at odds with intimate relationships. He understands how busy people can enjoy their work but often fail to build or maintain healthy personal connections outside of office hours.
    With this, Glenn has also written about how the demanding business world affects romantic relationships in his book, "The Middle Ground: How To Get Great Dating Outcomes in a Modern World.”
    Here is what to expect on this week’s show:
    - How to identify your ideal relationship outcome and how to get it.
    - What makes a “high value” person and why someone might be attracted to that.
    - How to build the necessary skills to become a high-value individual, and what that really means.
    Connect with Glenn:
    Website https://www.glennsandifer.com/
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/glennsandifer2
    Twitter - https://twitter.com/glennsandifer
    Instagram - Instagram.com/glenn_sandifer2
    LinkedIN - https://www.linkedin.com/in/glennsandifer/
    YouTube – Glenn Sandifer
    TikTok – glenn_sandifer2
    Connect with Dana:
    Website: https://danamcneil.com/
    Therapy Package: www.therapygetaway.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrDanaMcNeil/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanamcneil/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-dana-mcneil/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTiGMC8VeLRMFl8FN9MYFSg

    33 min

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