The Daily Disturbance

Stepping away from unnecessary toxicity is, of course, your best option!

Why is it even call “Good”bye if there can be no good in it?! It isn’t always a bad thing you have to walk away from; sometimes it’s a good thing whose time is up! Too much of a good thing is bad. Even worse, an overextended blessing is an double curse! Is it time to face a situation of toxicity by walking away?

Because you’re stuck with certain friends and family, and avoiding toxicity means avoiding all of them completely! And besides, until Elon Musk resettles us in Mars, we all live in what scientists have already declared is a “toxic planet.” So, instead of avoiding, are you ready to engage?

Well, community was always what was meant to be! “No man is an island,” especially is he wants wifi installed! But this isn’t really a question, as much as it is an invitation. “Together Everyone Accomplishes More” as the words behind the acronym T.E.A.M? When well organized, yes. But what excites me more is “Together Everyone Achieves Meaning,” especially when we allow ourselves to support, help and transform each other in times of trials. “Beautiful souls are shaped by ugly experiences.” - Matshona Dhliwayo

“When going through hell,” Winston Churchill declares, “keep going!” Stop making sense of everything. That is a futile undertaking. Some of life’s realities we know much about, other will be but a glimpse, and there are those we going through in pitch darkness. But being in the dark is not a necessarily bad thing. There are songs that are best sung by birds only at night. You still can benefit from those times you feel completely lost!

Strengthen your Core Best Self. Not weaken, strengthen. Not your “many,” but “Core.” Not the “acceptable,” but the “Best.” And certainly not someone else’s, but yours. Prepping the ship and its captain are the best ways to whether upcoming sea storms. Take time to do this now, before the next storm of your adventurous life!

First is to determine if they are meant for you! If clearly, the trial is not, then stop taking those bullets not meant for you (there are enough directed at you as it is!) Granting they must be welcome and experienced, the key is in the word itself

Of course there is, especially if the trial is not meant for you! But to escape all trials is an impossibility, for whether we like it or not, someone else is in control and that isn’t you! So, might as well embrace it, factor it in and take all you can to make it work for you. No Olympics without the Trials; no “ultimate triumphs” without our share of challenges.

We take a look at Decision Completion! How can I say with pride and joy, “Thank God it’s Friday?!” “Starting strong is great,” Robin Sharma reminds, “but Finishing Strong is epic!” How to have an epic day!

It’s time for Decision testing! A decision that can’t be tested shouldn’t be trusted! Allow the testing - and that includes pain and humbling - to strengthen you towards a strong finish!

Decision making gets you started, but it is decision management that will get you there. So, how to get there? Just D.O. I.T! -  4 jabs to make your decisions a hit - under a minute!