The Dude Therapist

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In this thought-provoking episode, host Eli Weinstein and guest Dr. Ramani dive deep into the intricate world of narcissism, gaslighting, and rebuilding trust. Dr. Ramani, a renowned clinical psychologist, unravels the origins of narcissistic behavior, tracing it back to deep-seated shame and insecurity. With a focus on self-awareness and accountability, she offers valuable insights for personal growth and healing. The conversation also sheds light on gaslighting, a manipulative tactic prevalent in intimate relationships, where victims' realities are denied to exert control. Dr. Ramani advocates for self-reflection, validation, and the gradual process of rebuilding trust in oneself to heal from toxic relationships.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is an author of several books including Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist, and “Don’t You Know Who I Am?”: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. The focus of Dr. Durvasula’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations. Her work has been featured at SXSW, TEDx, Red Table Talk, the Today Show, and Investigation Discovery. You can also find her on YouTube where she has accumulated millions of views on her videos discussing narcissism on her successful channel, and on social media @DoctorRamani. Now she will be adding the role of host to her resume as she launches her new podcast, Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani, a show that focuses on narcissism and its impact on relationships.

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On this episode of 'Dealing with the Struggles', podcast host Eli Weinstein and guest Minaa B dive deep into the importance of acknowledging and normalizing our struggles without shame. They discuss toxic productivity, the impact of social media on well-being, and the need for mental health support in workplaces. Minaa B, a licensed social worker, shares insights on self-acceptance, trauma healing, and the power of genuine human connections. Tune in to discover how self-care can lead to community care and healing in this captivating conversation.

Bio:

Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, mental health educator, and author of Owning Our Struggles. A former psychotherapist specializing in anxiety, depression, and trauma, Minaa has worked in various mental health industries, including early childhood in NYC Early Head Start programs, private practice, and community mental health. She obtained her graduate degree in social work from New York University.

Minaa is also a wellness coach and the founder of Minaa B. Consulting, a mental health consulting practice that helps organizations develop psychological safety. As a mental health educator and coach, Minaa emphasizes the connection between mental health and social justice. She teaches individuals how to foster self-efficacy and enhance emotional resilience through community care. This approach acknowledges the impact of relationships in facilitating personal and societal change and assists individuals in establishing supportive and healthy connections.

In addition, Minaa is the host of the Verywell Mind podcast, runs an advice column called Free Therapy for Cosmopolitan magazine, and is a member of the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez. As an expert in her field, Minaa has been featured in various media outlets, including Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind with Taraji, Oprah Daily, and Katie Couric Media, among others. Minaa currently resides in New York City.

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On this episode of the podcast, Eli Weinstein and guest Amoila Cesar explore the transformative power of movement and mindset. Amoila, a renowned strength conditioning coach, shares his journey of personal growth and emphasizes the importance of consistency, self-awareness, and mindset in achieving fitness goals. He introduces programs like 'Insanity' and 'Six Weeks of the Work,' focusing on primal movements for mobility and strength. The episodes highlight the value of simplicity in movements, trying new things, and embracing gradual improvement for holistic wellness.

Amoila Jamil Cesar is one of the world’s top Celebrity Strength Conditioning Coaches and BODi Super Trainers. He has led millions worldwide on their fitness journey, pushing people beyond what they thought possible and changing lives. From Professional Athletes, A-list celebrities, and CEO’s to mothers, entrepreneurs, and more, Amoila has been the driving force, inspiring people to reach new limits and

become the best versions of themselves.

Amoila’s impressive roster of clients includes celebrities such as Two Chainz, August Alsina, Jack Osbourne, Merle Dandridge and NBA superstars including Julius Randle, Demarcus Cousins, Jordan Clarkson, Elfrid Payton, Kevon Looney, Patrick Patterson and Bobby Portis and more. He is also the Strength and Conditioning coach for professional Tennis star Taylor Fritz.

Amoila has been featured in GQ, Men’s Journal, Sports Illustrated, Men’s Health, Bleacher Report, and Hustle. Soul, Authority Magazine, GIO, Live Fitness Now, KTLA, Sheen!, FTW, NBC Bay Area, NBC San Diego, Thrive Global, PS. Fitness and others.

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On this episode of the podcast, host Eli Weinstein interviews entrepreneur and executive coach Andrew Horn. They discuss the importance of authenticity and emotional mastery in relationships, as well as the power of gratitude and appreciation. Andrew introduced his platform, Tribute, which allows people to express gratitude to others. They also explore the significance of men's retreats in redefining masculinity and creating a supportive community. Andrew emphasizes the role of beliefs in shaping behavior and identity and the need to validate children's emotions and create a safe space for expression.

Andrew Horn is an entrepreneur, speaker, and executive coach whom Forbes recently called “Dale Carnegie for the digital age.”

He built his last company, Tribute.co, to 8-figures and millions of users and landed at #256 on the INC500 before stepping down to focus on coaching and growing IRL - the Institute of Relational Leadership. 

Andrew spends most of his time helping high-impact entrepreneurs and executives to master a relationship-centric path to success, fulfillment and leadership excellence. He frequently speaks for organizations like Google and The Cleveland Clinic, and he’s even been featured on the homepage of TED.com.

He's on a mission to create art that reminds him how he wants to live, and his creations revolve around three core pillars: radical authenticity, personal integrity, and relational mastery.

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On this episode of Relationships and Personal Growth, host Eli Weinstein and guest Rachel Wright dive into the impact of working in the field of relationships on their own personal lives. They discuss the importance of maintaining professional boundaries and Rachel shares her experience of humanizing therapists by sharing personal information online. The conversation also explores the concept of non-monogamy and the significance of communication and reassessment in these relationships. Tune in to learn about different relationship designs and embrace personal growth and change within your own relationships.

Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is a distinguished psychotherapist and renowned speaker with expertise in modern relationships, mental health, and sex. Her mission is to help people live happier, healthier lives by providing insights and practical advice in a relatable and engaging way.

With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel has worked with thousands of clients worldwide, earning a reputation for her empathetic and humorous approach. Her message has resonated with audiences on stages across the globe, as well as on her podcast, The Wright Conversations - A Podcast About Sex, Relationships, & Mental Health. With over 52k downloads, the podcast has garnered widespread attention and featured interviews with experts in sex, relationships, mental health, and their intersections.

Rachel is also a seasoned educator and coach, having created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and co-produced and hosted a show at Green Room 42 in NYC called “One Night Stand: A Night for Sexier & Healthier Broadway.” She was also SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach and is currently one of mindbodygreen’s article review experts.

As a widely recognized mental health and relationship expert, Rachel has been featured in numerous media outlets, including The New York Times, PIX 11 (NYC), Women’s Health (online and print), Cosmopolitan (online and print), and NBC News Radio, among others. Rachel's personal touch, sense of humor, and deep empathy make her the perfect guide for anyone seeking to improve their mental health, relationships, and sexual well-being. When she's not working, you can probably find her in her pajamas, eating gluten-free food and belting out show tunes. Connect with Rachel on Instagram @thewright_rachel or visit her website, www.rachelwrightnyc.com to learn more. 

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Tune in to The Dude Therapist podcast for an insightful conversation between host Eli Weinstein and guest Dr. John Delony. Dr. Delony, a therapist and mental health professional, discusses the importance of honesty and directness in therapy, as well as the need for emotional support and understanding. The conversation delves into topics such as belief, spirituality, and societal pressures that contribute to anxiety and stress. Dr. Delony also explores the impact of clutter and chaos on mental well-being and emphasizes the importance of making choices that prioritize mental health and well-being.

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Over the last year, I have struggled to be the best parent I would like to be with some dysregulation and lack of emotional control.. so let's talk about it.

In the last 2.5 weeks of making a conscious change, I have felt real calm and centeredness as a parent, and it's been way too long not feeling that way.. Heres how I did it

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On this episode of 'The Dude Therapist', host Eli Weinstein interviews Dr. Nicole Lepera as she shares her journey from traditional clinical training to a more holistic approach. Dr. Lepera discusses the importance of concepts like polyvagal theory and the brain-gut connection in mental health. She also explores the struggles of modern relationships and the impact of societal messaging on unrealistic expectations. Tune in to gain practical tools for navigating conflict, addressing past traumas, and practicing self-care for personal growth and healthier relationships.

[00:00:06] Summary: Dr. Nicole Lepera, a holistic psychologist and author, is featured on the Dude Therapist podcast. They discuss various topics related to love, relationships, and personal growth.

Dr. Nicole LePera is a holistic psychologist trained at Cornell University, The New School for Social Research, and The Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis. She is the founder of the global community healing membership SelfHealers Circle and the author of #1 NY Times Bestseller 'How to Do the Work', 'How To Meet Your Self' and'How To Be The Love You Seek'

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Join me on this episode as I share some personal struggles and the lessons I've learned in 2023. From embracing change and taking risks to seeking therapy and practicing self-reflection, I encourage listeners to overcome their own challenges. I also discuss the impact of social media and the importance of being present in real-life interactions. Don't miss this inspiring conversation about personal growth and spreading kindness in a world filled with struggles.

This last year has taught me so much about myself, my life and the world I want to live going forward... so I wanted to share a few things.

Thanks for tuning into this solo episode; hopefully, there will be many more to come this year.

This episode covers:

- The power of just trying with some fear

- Do something, not everything

- My own struggles with fatherhood, being a husband and depressive periods

- How to be more present and pull yourself into today vs. escaping into tomorrow

- The burden of our dreams and how to carry them better through this year

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On this episode of Dude Therapist, host Eli Weinstein interviews Ricky Williams, a former NFL running back and CEO of several companies. Ricky talks about his journey of overcoming adversity and finding inner peace and how his early religious upbringing and experience as an athlete helped him to recognize the opposition within himself and to take on the challenge of overcoming it. He encourages people to be curious about their own potential and to be kind to themselves and others and emphasizes the importance of choosing the right people to keep close for your healing journey towards balanced living.

[00:00:06] Ricky Williams: Football, Cannabis, Healing, Empowerment.

Ricky Williams has devoted his personal life and professional career to inspiring greatness, whether in himself, his teammates, or those around him. 

Williams founded Highsman in 2021 to empower professional and everyday athletes as well as sports enthusiasts alike through cannabis. He brings a deep knowledge of herbs, sports and wellness to the brand. His belief in the healing properties of cannabis is intertwined with a distinguished football career, and he credits smoking herb as a way of coping with the challenges associated with being a professional athlete, from social anxiety to physical injuries. 

His widely acclaimed football career began at the University of Texas at Austin, where he was named a two-time All American. Shortly after, he was drafted by the New Orleans Saints and continued an illustrious football career, known as one of the most electric running backs of the century. Most notably he played with the Miami Dolphins for the span of seven seasons. He faced two suspensions during his tenure due to the NFL’s strict marijuana policy. He finished his career with over 10,000 rushing yards and 74 total touchdowns and retired in 2011 after playing his final season with the Baltimore Ravens. Williams was inducted into the College Football Hall of Fame in 2015. 

No longer burdened by the NFL’s marijuana policy after retirement, Williams began his professional journey into herb and wellness. In 2018 he co founded Real Wellness, an alternative health brand after studying Ayurvedic and traditional Chinese medicine. This, along with his personal exploration of cannabis, paved the way for the launch of Highsman. 

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