We are not simply an identity that we associate with. If you strip me of those attributes (what society deemed good and worthy, what makes me part of the team), then what is left? Who am I then? This was a lonely realization.
But what about when I’m ready to let others in on this experience? Feeling. Reflecting. Authentically sharing with others, we become able to articulate it and grow. Then we see neither of us are perfect, and we’re connected because we are in each others’ worldview. Better understanding and accepting our differences, recognizing our common humanity. Feel the feelings.