Fear doesn’t mean stop; it usually means go. Meg sits down with trainer and coach Oscar Mora to trace the real path from a steady aerospace paycheck to a ranch built for teaching, trialing, and building a club where honest feedback and consistent reps change both dogs and handlers. We talk about the moment his wife said “it’s time,” the practical signs he watched before quitting, and how discomfort became a compass for growth rather than a reason to freeze.

From there we dive into the craft. Oscar breaks down why pet skills and sport skills speak the same language—clean markers, fair criteria, and rewards that match the dog in front of you. He lays out how to get into sport without weekly decoy access by focusing on obedience, neutrality, and structured play. We explore off-breeds in sport, what a Corso can teach a handler about patience and pressure, and how finishing something with the dog you have often builds more skill than endlessly chasing a “perfect” prospect.

Puppy selection gets specific: confidence over defensiveness, love of chase, possession, and full grips. For dogs with too much gas, he explains how to install breaks early so the dog can think under conflict—like clearing a jump with a toy screaming from behind. We get candid about social media pressure, why trainers should serve clients instead of peers, and how a culture of private, constructive critique grows people faster than public takedowns. Most importantly, we show how play isn’t just fun; it’s a system for building engagement, solving reactivity, and turning stress into skills that hold up in real life.

Stick around for details on Oscar’s upcoming course, a free newsletter that translates training videos into step-by-step takeaways, and a two-day play workshop on February 21–22 in Upland designed for pet owners and aspiring sport handlers alike. If this conversation helps you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a quick review—then tell us the one skill you’re training this week.

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Leash meltdowns aren’t random—they’re rehearsed. We pull back the curtain on what “reactivity” really means, why barriers like leashes and fences supercharge emotion, and how to swap chaos for structure without crushing your dog’s spirit. We map the two major lanes of reactivity—overarousal versus fear—then connect them to what’s happening inside the body, from dopamine-fueled excitement to cortisol-driven stress. That biology lesson turns into timing and tactics you can use today.

We start at home, not on the sidewalk. You’ll learn a simple marker-based game that opens and closes a training window, plus why tethering is a crucial skill for teaching calm under restraint. We share step-by-step ways to build reliable loose-leash walking in low-distraction spaces, then show how to move from management to real behavior change. When and how should you layer tools for clarity? Why are forced sits and tight leashes making things worse? How can a flexi line help you test choices safely in open areas? We answer it all, with examples from Bella’s progress and Muffin’s spicy genetics.

Along the way, we talk emotion in training, why precision can wait, and how structure builds confidence in anxious dogs. If dog parks and on‑leash greetings have been fueling your problem, you’ll leave with a practical plan: short engagement loops, crate and tether reps, movement over standoffs, and controlled exposures that don’t reward barking. Plus, we share facility news, new classes in Upland and San Diego, a community holiday party and giving tree, and details on an upcoming seminar with our mentor Oscar focused on markers, communication, and play.

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The fastest way to a reliable recall isn’t a bigger treat pouch—it’s a cleaner language. We break down a simple system that teaches dogs to look back, come in, and shut off pressure, starting with two markers: “get it” to send away and “yes” to call back. Once that loop is automatic, we layer the e-collar over the turning moment so the sensation becomes meaningful and predictable. The result is a dog that chooses you, even when the world gets loud.

We also draw clear lines between heel and with me. Different sides, different bubbles, different payoff zones. That clarity matters because accountability only works when the rule is knowable. We show how to use a flexi leash to mimic off-leash freedom, when to tap vs hold, and how to stop living at low levels the dog ignores. Instead of nagging, we teach first with leash and food, then correct for breaking known commands. That shift tightens heel, sharpens recall, and keeps sessions upbeat and fair.

Reactivity? We tackle it from the ground up. Build engagement at home, rehearse calm returns near triggers, and correct the choice to leave position—never “shock the reactivity” first. We share practical steps for door barking too: a brief hold to interrupt, release on quiet, then a calm scatter to reset state. Add in smart victory laps at the end of play to vent drive without losing focus, and you’ll feel the whole system click. Want more help dialing levels, timing markers, and shaping criteria that stick? Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a better recall, and leave a review with your top training question so we can coach it next.

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A wet dog smell with no dog. A food bowl scraping the ground after it’s been packed away. A bed dipping to make space for four familiar paws. Our Halloween special dives into the most compelling Reddit stories about ghost dogs—some tender, some chilling, all unforgettable—and asks what these moments might mean for people who loved a pet and had to let go.

We start with a skeptic’s tale that ties rain, timing, and a suitcase full of mysteriously soaked clothes to a beloved spaniel who “found” her human and led him home. From there, we share a series of intimate accounts: a dream that delivered a goodbye before the phone rang, a late-night closet disturbance that left someone frozen in a trance, and the eerie comfort of a guardian dog who reappears to lick tears and calm a shaken child. We also step onto the trail of the Black Dog of Hanging Hills in Connecticut, exploring how folklore, shared perception, and the outdoors amplify the uncanny.

As trainers and dog people, we balance belief with behavioral insight. Why do dogs stare at corners, growl down stairwells, or bark past your shoulder as if someone’s standing behind you? We talk sensory triggers, patterns, and grief’s imprints—while acknowledging that some events resist neat explanations. You’ll hear practical Halloween safety reminders for living pups too: crate or tether at the door, manage greetings, keep chocolate and wrappers out of reach, and update IDs.

If you’ve ever felt a familiar weight settle at your feet or heard tags jingle in an empty hall, you’ll feel seen here. Press play for a thoughtful blend of folklore, training perspective, and heart. Then tell us your story—subscribe, share with a friend who loves dogs, and leave a review with your take: comforting visitation or just a very good ghost?

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Ever get told “be more fun” and think… how? We open the door to our training week—workshop takeaways, insecurity and breakthroughs, and the gritty details of turning vague advice into steps you can actually use. From pet behavior fixes to sport-dog precision, we trace how timing, markers, and body language turn chaos into clarity and why mastering the basics is the fastest way to level up.

We unpack the difference between obedience as a crutch and obedience as a skill, and we show how leash-led walking drills build calm focus without a single command. You’ll hear how we structure neutrality sessions—rewards only from you even with toys and food on the ground—and why that’s both a safety plan and impulse control in one. We talk handler energy too: pairing dog temperament with your style so training feels like give-and-take, not begging. Muffin’s story reveals the reality of emotion-first sessions, micro-sets of “boring” precision, and the reps it takes to make the dog choose you over the room.

Pack dynamics get real here—using stable dogs to teach manners, deliver fair corrections, and diffuse tension without dog parks. We also tackle confidence dips and the Dunning–Kruger curve when you train beside elite handlers. The fix isn’t a secret method; it’s community, standards, and repetition. Our facility has become the lab for freeshaping, sterile first reps, and workshops that blend fundamentals with business so new trainers can actually thrive.

If you want actionable drills, a clearer path from pet problems to sport-ready control, and a reminder that progress is built on simple things done well, you’ll feel at home. Share this with a trainer friend, subscribe for new episodes, and leave a review with one skill you plan to sharpen this week. Your next breakthrough might be one clean rep away.

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Every dog trainer's journey begins somewhere, and for Emma from Raven K9 Dog Training, that foundation was built through pack walking. In this conversation, Emma shares how she transitioned from a customer service manager in Australia to a successful dog trainer in the UK, revealing the unexpected lessons that shaped her training philosophy.

What makes Emma's approach so refreshing is her balanced perspective that honors dogs as individuals while maintaining clear expectations. She details how adopting Raven, a Dutch Shepherd with a serious history of dog reactivity, led her to explore e-collar training and develop a nuanced understanding of canine behavior. Rather than adhering to a single methodology, Emma draws from both pet and sport dog experiences to create a comprehensive training toolkit.

One of the most powerful insights Emma offers is her rejection of the "prison phase" common in many training programs. Instead of keeping dogs in a perpetual training state, she advocates for allowing them time to decompress, enjoy walks, and learn to make appropriate decisions around other dogs. This approach has proven particularly effective with reactive dogs who need to learn real-world skills beyond obedience commands.

Emma's method for building motivation is equally thoughtful—starting with minimal expectations and rewarding dogs simply for proximity before gradually shaping into sustained engagement. She explains how she pairs tools like e-collars and prong collars with positive experiences rather than jumping straight to correction, creating dogs that understand boundaries while maintaining enthusiasm for training.

Whether you're struggling with a reactive dog, interested in balanced training methods, or simply curious about different approaches to working with dogs, Emma's journey offers valuable lessons about staying open, having multiple mentors, and remaining humble in your training practice. Follow her on Instagram at Raven K9 Dog Training or check out her podcast "Girls Just Want to Train Dogs" to learn more about her balanced, thoughtful approach to dog training.

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What happens when your dog training skills outpace your business skills? In this episode, I sit down with Tori, the administrative powerhouse behind The Everyday Trainer, to pull back the curtain on the messy, challenging, and often overwhelming business side of dog training.

Four years ago, I was drowning in 4,000 unread emails while running a thriving dog training practice. My fatal flaw? Being exceptional with dogs but completely overwhelmed by the administrative tasks that kept my business running. Enter Tori, who transformed chaos into systems that allowed The Everyday Trainer to flourish.

We candidly discuss the unsustainable pace that leads many talented dog trainers to burnout—the 24/7 demands, the constant client communications, the struggle to maintain quality while handling everything alone. Through our journey of building systems, facing burnout, and eventually creating Trainers Collective, we reveal the hidden challenges most dog trainers never talk about.

This episode offers rare insight into what actually makes a dog training business sustainable. We explore how automation saves sanity, why responding quickly to leads matters more than you think, and how aligning your business with personal values creates longevity. For dog trainers wondering why they're working constantly but not seeing growth, this conversation illuminates the path forward.

Whether you're just starting your dog training business or struggling to scale an existing one, our hard-earned lessons will help you build something that serves both your clients and your wellbeing. The most successful dog trainers aren't necessarily the most skilled—they're the ones who recognize when to seek help and how to build systems that allow their talent to shine.

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The journey to competition success is rarely a straight line. In this episode, we're joined by Celine, Shane, and Thoma who take us behind the scenes of Celine's recent PSA Level 1 trial victory in Wyoming. What does it really take to prepare a dog for back-to-back trial days, and how do you maintain consistency when the pressure's on?

The conversation quickly evolves into a debate about training methodologies that challenge conventional wisdom. Shane shares his approach to e-collar use, arguing that "the quicker you can get out of escape, the better" and explaining why he deliberately trains without electronic tools to build reliability when it matters most. This perspective opens up a broader discussion about creating working dogs who can function beautifully both on and off the competition field.

Perhaps most valuable is the group's candid reflections on balancing intensity with livability. As Celine notes about her competition Malinois: "I thought she was going to be more crazy because everyone was telling me Mals are these crazy prey monsters." Their insights into managing multiple high-drive dogs in a household setting provide practical wisdom for anyone juggling the demands of serious training with everyday life.

Whether you're actively competing in dog sports or simply fascinated by the psychology behind training working dogs, this episode delivers actionable insights, hard-earned wisdom, and a refreshing honesty about the challenges and rewards of pushing the boundaries of what's possible with our canine partners. Plus, don't miss details about an upcoming trainer seminar that promises to transform how you approach dog training as both an art and a business.

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What happens when your dog isn't in a command? Do they make good decisions or fall apart completely? This question strikes at the heart of the difference between obedience training and true behavior modification.

Many dog owners believe their problems are solved when their dog returns from a board and train program perfectly executing commands like place, sit, and heel. But as we explore in this episode, obedience is merely a tool—not the finished product. A dog that performs beautifully in training sessions but makes poor choices when "off duty" hasn't undergone genuine behavioral change.

True behavior modification focuses on changing how dogs feel and respond across different scenarios and drive states. While most training operates in prey drive (using food or toy rewards), real-world success requires dogs to function well in pack drive—making good decisions without visible rewards present. This is where many impressive-looking training programs fall short.

The social aspect of dog training proves crucial yet often overlooked. When dogs learn appropriate communication with other dogs—how to share resources, yield space, and disengage from potential conflict—they develop the ability to navigate their world successfully without constant management. This social education forms the foundation of lasting behavioral change.

For those struggling with reactive or resource-guarding dogs, understand that management strategies like keeping dogs on place are sometimes necessary but don't constitute true behavior change. Real modification means teaching dogs how to handle challenging situations appropriately, with the owner stepping in only when necessary as the "referee" who enforces fair play.

Whether you're a dog owner seeking better results or a trainer looking to deepen your approach, join us for our Training for Trainers seminar on October 17-19th. Learn how to create dogs that don't just obey—but truly understand how to exist harmoniously in our complex world. Visit our website and click "For Trainers" to register while early bird pricing lasts through September 15th.

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Recorded by a crackling campfire in Montana's bear country, this episode pulls back the curtain on what it truly means to live with working dogs. Meg is joined by dog trainers Thoma and Lex (who recently welcomed a Malinois puppy into her life) for an unfiltered conversation about the expectations versus reality of high-drive dogs.

Have you ever wondered why some dogs seem impossible to settle or why your "reactive" dog behaves so differently from other dogs of the same breed? The answer might lie in understanding what these dogs were bred for. We dive deep into what defines a working dog, from detection K9s and protection sport competitors to high-energy pets with working genetics that leak out as behavioral issues when not properly channeled.

The conversation takes a candid turn as we discuss the lifestyle adjustments necessary for working dog owners – the crate rotations, the management strategies, and the acceptance that not every dog can be a "coffee shop dog." We explore how e-collars provide freedom rather than restriction for many high-drive dogs, and why the expectations we place on our dogs often cause more frustration than the dogs themselves.

Whether you're considering a working breed, struggling with a high-drive dog, or simply curious about a different approach to dog ownership, this episode offers practical wisdom on matching dogs to lifestyles, finding appropriate outlets for natural drives, and the freedom that comes from accepting your dog for exactly who they are – not who you wish they would be.

Listen in as we share personal stories of success, failure, and the beautiful reality of building our lives around these remarkable animals who weren't bred to fit into our world, but rather, to work alongside us in it.

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