Hey Dog Lover 🐾

It’s the Monday after Bootcamp… and Thanksgiving here in Canada. 🇨🇦

So I wanted to offer something simple, grounding, and honestly—really powerful.

Because training probably takes up, what? Maybe 5–10% of your day tops?
So what’s happening in the other 95%?

That’s where your dog is learning the most about who you are—
and where your bond is really being built.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through 3 simple things you can do today (no training required!) to strengthen connection, deepen trust, and help your dog feel safe in your everyday life.

🔹 Be Quiet
If you want to talk to your dog... shut your mouth. (Yep—Nelson said it first. 😉)
We spend so much time narrating, cueing, correcting—
that we forget to actually listen.
Try this: spend 5–15 minutes moving through your world with your dog in silence.
Observe. Notice. Let the quiet speak.
Because the quiet moments are where the real communication happens.

🔹 Notice How You Move Through Space
Your presence affects your dog—every time you move, shift, or reach.
Leadership starts with noticing, not controlling.
So today, just pay attention:
How does your dog respond when you walk into a room or step closer?
No fixing. No labeling. Just awareness.

🔹 Be Curious About What Matters to Your Dog
If your dog stops to explore something—go see what it is.
Not to redirect. Not to control. Just to witness it with them.
That tiny act of curiosity says, “What matters to you, matters to me.”
And that’s where mutual relevance—and trust—grow.

You don’t need to “do” more training to build a better bond.
You need:
✨ More silence
✨ More noticing
✨ More genuine curiosity

When you change how you show up in the everyday moments, your dog will feel it—
and your relationship will grow stronger.

So… which one can you try today?

Hope you enjoy this one!

Tracy xoxox

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🎉 Missed Bootcamp?
You can still catch the replays and learn what calm, confident leadership really looks like to your dog.

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🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com

Dear Dog Lover 🐾

Someone once asked me what good training looks like.
And I said — it looks like nothing at all.

Because when it’s good — when the relationship is solid — you don’t have to do much.
It’s quiet. It’s steady. It’s felt.
That’s not control.
That’s leadership.

In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on a word that’s tossed around a lot in the dog world — leadership — and looking at what it actually means to your dog.

Because here’s the thing…
Leadership doesn’t look like “being in charge.”
It looks like awareness.
It looks like calm in uncertainty.
It looks like trust you can feel.

You’ll hear stories about Gunther (of course 😉) and how real leadership isn’t loud, reactive, or over-commanding — it’s quiet consistency. It’s being the one who notices, who moves first, who says with energy alone, “I’ve got this. You don’t have to worry.”

“You don’t have to be louder than your dog.
You just have to be calmer than their fear.”

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve been trying to lead but it feels like micromanaging

• You’ve ever confused obedience with influence

• You’re ready to show up in a way your dog actually feels safe following

Because leadership isn’t positional — it’s relational.
You don’t earn it through control.
You earn it through clarity, consistency, and calm.

Hope you enjoy!

Please be sure to share! Rate! and Comment!

Tracy xoxox

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🎉 If you’ve been part of the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp this week — this is the work.
You’re already practicing what leadership looks and feels like to your dog.

And if you’re just tuning in, it’s not too late.
You can still catch the replays, join the conversations, and start showing up in a way your dog truly feels.

🦴 Save your spot at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com

Hey friend,

I just wanted to pop in for a minute...

This isn’t a regular episode.
It’s a quiet moment to talk about why I created the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp… and why it matters so much to me.

You see, most people come into this work thinking it’s their dog that needs to change.
The barking, the pulling, the spinning — all the chaos that makes your shoulders tense and your breath go shallow.
And I get it.
That’s what most training is built around: fixing the dog.

But what I’ve heard, over and over again, from the people who go through Bootcamp is this:

“The biggest change wasn’t in my dog… it was in me.”

And that’s the part that gives me goosebumps every single time.

Because this work isn’t about being the problem — it’s about realizing you’ve always had the power.
When you shift — even just a little — your energy changes.
Your dog feels safer.
The chaos starts to soften.

It’s not about better obedience.
It’s about showing up with clarity and calm.
You don’t need to become someone new.
You just need to uncover the leader your dog already believes you are.

So if you’ve been studying, trying all the methods, doing all the things… and you’re still feeling frustrated or disconnected, this is your reminder:
You’re not broken.
You and your dog are just learning to breathe together again.

That’s what this Bootcamp is really about — not control, but connection.
Not training harder, but trusting deeper.

And that’s why I hope you’ll join us.

🎉 Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp — live or catch the replays!
There’s still time to come hang out with us and start building the kind of relationship that feels calm, confident, and real.

🦴 beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

Hope to see you there

Tracy

Dear Dog Lover 🐾

You’ve probably heard it before — “Your dog’s behavior problems are rooted in fear.”

And while that might be true, fear itself isn’t the problem.
Fear is normal. It’s necessary. It’s survival.

In this episode, we unpack what really happens when your dog feels fear — and how your response to it can either build trust or break connection.

You’ll hear stories about Gunther, my young pup, and how sitting quietly in a field turned fear into calm… and how standing tall during a siren helped him regulate through trust instead of redirection.

Because here’s the truth:
✨ Fear doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be felt, seen, and walked through — together.

If we rush to correct or distract, we risk missing the very thing our dogs need most: a partner in survival.

This episode is for you if:

• You’ve ever tried to “train away” your dog’s fear

• You’re curious about what real emotional safety looks like

• You want to learn how to lead with calm confidence (instead of commands)

  
  

  Hope you enjoy! Be sure to share, rate or comment!

  
  

  Tracy xoxox

  
  

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🎉 Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp — happening October 7–9!
Learn the skills to help your dog process fear, build confidence, and feel safe again — without obedience drills or overwhelm.

🦴 Save your seat here: beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

In this special behind-the-scenes episode, you’ll be listening in on a powerful coaching moment from inside The Fearless Framework community.

This time, I’m working with Candice and her dog, Arlo, as we do a real-time video analysis of Arlo’s behaviour. It’s a super cool conversation where we get to slow things down, look closely at what’s really going on, and talk through what Candice can do next to help Arlo feel more confident and supported.

She walks away with tactical steps—and you might, too.

Hope you enjoy!

Please be sure to Follow, Share and/ or Leave a Review!

Tracy xoxo

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🎉 Want your own chance to get coaching like this—for free?
It’s not too late to join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp, happening live September 7th–9th.
We’ll dive deep into what actually helps fearful and reactive dogs feel safe—and on Day 3, I’ll be doing live coaching, just like this.

🦴 Save your seat at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

Podcast music provided by shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

In this special episode, you’re getting a sneak peek behind the curtain—into a real coaching call from inside The Fearless Framework Online Program

We’re quietly eavesdropping (with permission, of course 😉) on a session between me and Laurel, who’s preparing for a big move with her dog, Henry. As Laurel shares, we dive into how a fresh start can be more than just a change of scenery—it can be a powerful opportunity to reset boundaries, redefine leadership, and help your dog feel safe and confident in a new environment.

Whether you’re moving or just dreaming of a reset in your relationship with your dog, this conversation is packed with practical insight, grounded strategy, and the gentle encouragement you’ve been craving.

Hope you enjoy this peek behind the scenes! 💬

Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with another dog lover who could use a little clarity and calm.

Tracy xoxo

✨ PS: The Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp is almost here!
Join us for this free 3-day live experience happening October 7–9th. @ 12pm ET /11 am CT /10am MT/ 9am PT

You’ll learn:

• Why obedience doesn't work on fear (and what to do instead)

• The one shift that changes everything for your fearful dog

• How to show up as the calm, confident leader your dog actually needs

Hint: Day 3 is your chance to get personal coaching—just like Laurel did. ;-)

Save your seat now at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

Special thanks to:
🎶 Shawn Trotter — shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover 🐾

This one might come with a little ambient background noise, courtesy of my son mowing the lawn — because hey, life doesn’t pause when you're trying to record a podcast. 😅

But while he’s out there pushing a mower, we’re in here pushing back on one of the most common (and misguided) pieces of training advice:

“Just ignore the behaviour you don’t like.”

Here’s the truth:
Ignoring your dog’s behaviour can frustrate your dog as much as it does you.
And it definitely doesn’t help them feel safer or more supported.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

• Why ignoring behaviour can actually make things worse

• The story of Gunther and the crate — and how I handled it (hint: it wasn’t with treats or silence)

• What it really looks like to model the behaviour you want instead of waiting for it to appear

• Why your dog needs leadership, not just passivity

The truth is: your dog isn’t trying to be difficult.
They are being a dog, and you have to give them feedback.

Do you agree with this behaviour? Or not? Either way, they need to know.

Hope you enjoy this!

Please be sure to share, rate and review!

Tracy xoxox

HINT: If you say nothing, you have *agreed* with the behaviour.

🐾👣 Next Steps:

Join the {Free} 3 day Bootcamp!

Have you been told you’re the problem in your dog’s behaviour?

Maybe it was a trainer.
Maybe it was the internet.
Maybe it was your own inner critic whispering that if you were just more consistent, more firm, more “alpha” or more positive… your dog would be fixed by now.

Here’s the truth:
You are not the problem.
But you are the solution.

In the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp, we’re leaving behind the blame — and picking up the real tools that create lasting change.

Over 3 days, I’ll show you how to:

• Stop trying to train your dog out of behavior that comes from stress or confusion

• Shift from reactivity to relationship

• Lead in a way that feels good for both of you

• Understand what your dog really needs from you — and how to give it without bribery or burnout

This Bootcamp isn’t about obedience.
It’s about ownership — of your energy, your leadership, and your connection with your dog.

If you’ve ever been made to feel like you’re doing it all wrong… come hang out with me instead. We do things differently here.

Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp⁠beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp⁠

Special music credit to Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

🎉THE CALM DOWN, DOG! BOOTCAMP IS BACK 🎉— and I couldn’t be more excited.
It’s happening October 7–8, and we’re diving deep into the real work of living with dogs — not just training them.

In this episode, I’m sharing the real reason I got a new German Shepherd puppy… and the realer reason why I’ve been rejected by rescues and breeders more than once.

Yep.
Despite working professionally with dogs for over 20 years, I’ve had doors closed on me simply because I don’t subscribe to the “purely positive” training model.

Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on:

• Why I don’t train with treats or corrections — I train with relationship

• How my pack helps raise balanced, confident dogs (including Gunther)

• The difference between controlling behavior and creating trust

• Why relationship-first leadership is more misunderstood — and more effective — than you think

And yes… I’ll be teasing a powerful moment I caught on video that I’ll be sharing exclusively inside the Bootcamp.

If you’ve ever felt like mainstream training advice doesn’t work for your dog — this one’s for you.

Hope you enjoy this one!

Tracy xoxo

🐾👣 Next Steps:
Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp of course!!
beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

Special music credit to Shawn Trotter
www.shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

In this delightfully spontaneous episode, we’re keeping it real because, well, life happens! I’m sharing a little behind-the-scenes peek into my world: the whirlwind of getting a new German Shepherd puppy named Gunther, a recent jaunt to England, and some curious insights I picked up about dog culture across the pond.

“How interesting!” you’ll hear me say because it’s all about bringing that curiosity back home and letting it shape the way we build trust and leadership with our dogs.

So, join me as I chat candidly about the ups and downs of this new adventure.

It’s a bit of a mixed bag episode, but I promise it’ll be full of heart, a few laughs, and some thoughtful reflections on how to raise a confident, curious pup.

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If you’re eager to dive deeper into creating calm and confidence with your own dog, don’t miss our upcoming Calm Down Dog Bootcamp!

It’s happening October 7-9th, and you can fetch all the details at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp.

Let’s be the reason and the reward in our dogs’ lives, together. 😉

Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
Welcome to Part Three of the Beyond the Bark Series! In this final episode, we’re wrapping up my contribution to a recent article on barking with some of the most practical — and controversial — questions around the topic.

Here’s what we’re covering today:

• How furniture placement can actually reduce barking (yep, where your couch goes matters!)

• Using tools like curtains, crates, and X-pens to prevent escalation and create calmer spaces

• Why too much “free reign” often leaves dogs feeling like they have to control too much real estate

• The controversial topic of bark collars, shock tools, and water guns — and why I believe leadership, fulfillment, structure, and boundaries should always come first

• My closing thought: the key to everything with dogs is learning to understand them, not forcing them to fit into our human world

This episode ties it all together and helps you rethink barking not as a nuisance, but as information you can actually use to lead your dog more clearly.

xoxo,

Tracy 💛

👣🐾 Next Steps:
If you want to understand your dog on a deeper level so that everything gets easier, join me inside the Fearless Framework. It’s where we break the fear cycle and build the kind of trust and confidence that makes barking less of a problem in the first place.
👉 BeyondObedience.ca/fearless

👣🐾 Bonus: Come join the free Living Beyond Obedience community on Facebook, where you can connect with like-minded dog lovers, ask questions, and share your journey.
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🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com