Love, the thing the inspires us, it makes us feel alive. The notion of connecting with someone and sharing everything you are with them. They accept you as you are without question.
But what happens when it goes wrong? When love simply isn't enough, it feels like we will ever be able to shake that pain and self doubt. No one can tell you anything positive that you can believe. But guess what, given time and support, allowing yourself to hurt and then to heal you can begin to see light at the end of the tunnel. The irony is the next time love comes a knocking, you will more than likely be so focused on yourself and your goals you may not even notice it there. That is when it it pure, because your energy will have made love, the right love gravitate towards you.
Its ok to hurt, it really is because it will teach you to rebuild yourself stronger. A support network will form around you giving you the space to heal.