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Starting Late, but Starting: My 65th Birthday Reflections”

In this heartfelt episode, Elysabeth reflects on turning 65 and realizing that life is far from winding down — it’s expanding.

She shares what it means to move into a bigger home in just ten days, reopen her art studio, begin teaching again, and keep writing and coaching from a place of joy, alignment, and purpose.

This episode is a love letter to anyone who’s ever felt like they started too late. Elysabeth reminds us that it’s not about when we begin — it’s about having the courage to start at all.

With honesty, humor, and gratitude, she talks about health, creativity, and looking forward instead of backward. Because starting late still means starting — and when you start, life opens up in unexpected, beautiful ways.

✨ “You are never too late for your own life. The moment you say yes to yourself, life begins again.”

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In this uplifting episode, Elysabeth Wolter explores the timeless wisdom of The Pollyanna Game — a gratitude practice that turns everyday moments into powerful mindset shifts. Discover how changing your focus from negativity to gratitude can rewire your brain, calm anxiety, and strengthen emotional resilience. Elysabeth shares her personal memory of discovering Pollyanna as a child, explains the neuroscience behind gratitude, and guides you through a practical “Alphabet Gratitude Game” you can play anytime to reset your thoughts and energy.

Tune in and remember: even when life feels heavy, there’s always something to be glad about.

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In this deeply personal episode, Elysabeth shares her journey through a major dental procedure — having all her bottom teeth removed and a denture fitted — and how fear transformed into empowerment through the use of EFT tapping, visualisation, affirmations, and nervous system regulation.

From a past experience marked by weeks of pain and panic to a present filled with ease, fast healing, and confidence, this episode is a powerful reminder of how our beliefs shape our outcomes. Learn what it means to bring yourself back to neutral, override fear with trust, and activate your innate healing ability.

✨ Topics Covered:
 • Overcoming panic in real time
 • Visualising a positive outcome
 • What self-regulation actually looks like
 • How belief influences physical healing
 • Rewriting old fear-based stories

✨ Work with Elysabeth:
 • One-to-one coaching opportunities available now
 • The Elevator Group — $99 NZD/month for the first 3 months with a testimonial

You deserve to feel safe in your body and strong in your mind.
 You matter — may the story shift for you.

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 "Aligning Identity with Your True End Goals”

In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I explore how identity can quietly shape our goals — and how aligning who you are with what you truly want transforms everything.

We talk about the difference between means goals and end goals, why chasing the wrong ones leads to exhaustion, and how to return to right action service — that peaceful state where purpose and energy align.

If you’re ready to change your identity, live with more purpose and power, and activate your passion, join the Elevator Group — a weekly space where all boats rise on the tide.

🎧 Listen now, reconnect with who you are, and remember:
 You matter — may the story shift for you.

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Today, I want to share something really personal with you — my phobia of flying.
 For years, that fear held me back. It wasn’t just about the plane — it was about control, surrender, and trust. Every time I even thought about flying, my body would react before my mind had a chance to reason with it. 

But here’s the thing — I faced it.
 This past weekend, I got on a plane and flew to Christchurch for a retreat — four nights and five days that truly changed my life.

When I got there, I realized something: the fear wasn’t really about flying at all. It was about the emotions I hadn’t processed — the ones that wanted to keep me safe but were really keeping me small. Once I began to connect to those deeper emotions, something started to shift.

That’s the power of self-work — of turning inward, of giving yourself permission to feel and heal.
 We think fear protects us, but so often, it just hides the part of us that’s ready to be free.

So, if you’re sitting there listening, wondering if it’s time for your next step — it is.
 If you’re ready to change your life the way I did, come to my retreat in February next year. It’s designed for real transformation — where you’ll be supported, seen, and deeply reconnected to your purpose.

Or if you’d like something more personal, work with me one-to-one, where we can uncover what’s holding you back and start shifting those emotional stories at their roots.

And if you’d like to be part of an empowering, ongoing community — come join my Elevator Group, where all boats rise on the tide. It’s a weekly space of growth, purpose, and courage.

Because sometimes, the only way to move beyond fear… is to take the flight.

Until next time — remember:
 You matter. And may the story shift for you.

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 A Conversation with Renee Ormond — an Empowerment Coach, Ultimate Cycle Breaker, and 9D Breathwork Facilitator based in Tūrangi. Renee guides women to release outdated money stories so they can create new, abundant realities. What inspires her most is the transformation from old self to new, and in this conversation, we dive into that powerful shift.   

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The small things are never small. ✨

The arguments, frustrations, and breakdowns don’t happen in one moment — they’re built in all the little choices that came before. The silent resentments. The words we speak behind someone’s back. The thoughts we rehearse again and again.

But here’s the beauty: it also works the other way.

The laughter of our grandchildren.

Catching up with our adult Children 

Having that coffee with a friend

The kindness of a partner.

The joy of learning something new.

These small moments fill our “love boxes” — the places inside us that hold memories we can draw on when life gets hard.

This week on The Fairy Elephant Effect, I’m talking about the tipping point of negativity versus the tipping point of love, and how the choices we make each day are shaping the story of our lives.

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Brandy R. Graham, known as the Legacy Liberator™ and Identity Coach, helps women break free from old patterns of self-sabotage and step into a new legacy of worth. She’s created the Safe to Become™ space where the nervous system is calm, the self feels safe, and the future opens wide.

I’m Elysabeth Wolter from Lizzie’s Insights Coaching, supporting women to release old stories and realign with who they truly are. Together, we believe you matter — it all starts and ends with you.

✨ Check out my September offer: 3 x 45-minute EFT Tapping Counselling Sessions for just $222 NZD. Message me today to book your spot!

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In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, I share the first time I used EFT tapping during a panic attack—while sitting in the car with my kids. For the first time in years, I didn’t have to get out and walk around to calm myself. EFT gave me a tool to shift the fear in real time and drive home with peace of mind.

We explore what EFT really is, how it works with the amygdala and nervous system, and why it’s such a gentle yet powerful practice for releasing old trauma and looping thought patterns. I explain how tapping helps rewire the brain, calm the body, and create new emotional freedom.

If you’ve ever struggled with stress, fear, or overwhelm, this episode will show you how tapping can become your doorway out. I also share a special September offer—three 45-minute EFT sessions for $222 NZD—so you can try this transformational tool for yourself.

And next week, I’ll be joined by special guest Brandy Graham, a U.S.-based stylist turned coach, who now helps women transform their lives."*

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Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges back to your own self-connection.

In this episode of The Fairy Elephant Effect, we go deeper into the real meaning of boundaries and how to set them without guilt. You’ll hear why boundaries are not rejection, how they keep you on your side of the street emotionally, and why guilt is simply an old story we no longer need to live by.

We’ll explore the difference between walls and healthy boundaries, the cost of living without clear limits, and the surprising truth that boundaries actually make relationships stronger — not weaker.

You’ll also get practical reflections and simple boundary phrases you can start using right away. By the end, you’ll see that boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re acts of love — love for yourself and love for others.

Remember: You matter. It all begins and ends with you.

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