My guest today is Tina Bauer, a mama, former foster youth, adoptee, and foster and adoptive parent consultant. Tina generously shares her perspective with us and gives many helpful tips for foster and adoptive mamas, especially those wondering if they are "doing it right."

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On this episode of the Fearless Fostering Podcast, I sit down for a chat with Mark Daley, author of Safe: A Memoir of Fatherhood, Foster Care, and the Risks We Take For Family. Mark shares about his time as a foster dad, and why he felt the need to write this book. He shares how the broken system is failing kids and first families and what foster families (and EVERYONE else) can do to help.

Find Mark's book (out January 30th) here:

www.amazon.com/Safe-Memoir-Fathe…1706476702&sr=8-1

Find Mark on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/markdaley00/

As foster and adoptive mamas open their hearts and homes to kids from hard places, they often find themselves neglecting their own well-being. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, self-care often takes a backseat. However, it’s crucial for us to recognize that our own self-care is not a luxury but a necessity. In this episode, we’ll delve into the importance of self-care for foster and adoptive mamas and how planning out self-care routines can be a game-changer.

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As you navigate the ups and downs of foster care, you may find yourself wanting to share your experiences on social media. Whether it’s to connect with other foster parents, raise awareness about fostering, or simply document your personal growth, telling your story online can be a powerful and meaningful endeavor. In this episode, we’ll explore some valuable tips for foster mamas who are considering sharing their journey on social media. Additionally, make sure to check out my free checklist, where I share all the tools I use to support foster mamas online:

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The world of foster care is filled with twists, turns, and unexpected challenges that can leave you feeling stressed and worried about your kids’ cases. It’s crucial to acknowledge these feelings and seek support. In this episode, we’ll explore ways to maintain peace and calm on your foster care journey, no matter what curve balls come your way.

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Dear Foster and Adoptive Mamas,

As we stand on the threshold of a new year, it’s a profound moment to reflect not only on the challenges we’ve overcome but also on the intentional choices we’re making for our future selves. The daily labor of love, the vulnerability of attachment, and the unique journey of foster and adoptive parenting are not easy feats. In this letter, let’s explore the power of grace, intentional living, and the transformative impact of small, consistent changes.

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In the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, it’s easy for foster and adoptive mamas to get caught up in the whirlwind of preparations, expectations, and extra responsibilities.

Amidst the chaos, it’s crucial to take a step back and remember the true essence of the season and how precious the gift of time and presence is for our children.

In this episode, we’ll explore why these gifts are the most precious offerings we can give, especially to the incredible souls we’ve welcomed into our homes through foster care and adoption.

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As foster and adoptive mamas, navigating the complex landscape of trauma is an integral part of our parenting journey. The term “trauma” carries weight, often evoking a sense of fear and concern for the well-being of our children. In this episode of the Fearless Fostering podast, we’re going to delve into the clinical definition of trauma, emphasizing its nature as a nervous system response rather than a fixed event. Understanding this crucial distinction allows us to approach parenting from a place of knowledge, compassion, and resilience.

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Click here to read more about trauma on my blog:

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Register for the Good Grief LIVE training here:

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As foster mamas, we navigate the complex terrain of caregiving, often finding ourselves caught up in the whirlwind of daily tasks and responsibilities. The holiday season, with its festive chaos and endless to-do lists, can exacerbate the already demanding nature of our roles. However, what if this December became the month we collectively committed to slowing everything down? What if we embraced the idea that true peace and joy are within our reach, contingent upon our willingness to care for our minds, bodies, and souls?

In this episode, we’ll explore the concept of slow living and delve into practical ways foster mamas can intentionally slow down during the holiday season. Additionally, we’ll discuss an upcoming opportunity for growth and support with the Good Grief Live Training on December 11th at 8 pm eastern, as well as an exciting month-long celebration featuring daily sales on valuable resources in the Fearless Fostering community.

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The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, warmth, and togetherness. Yet balancing the excitement of the festivities with the uncertainties of the foster care journey requires resilience and coping strategies. Let’s explore practical ways to navigate the holiday season, finding joy amid the challenges.

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