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TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN

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In this episode you get to hear how different the same story can be told. This powerful expamle of how we choose our narrative will help you look at your experiences through a solution-focused lens. 

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In this episode, Cher Kretz explores the essential quality of caring, especial when your in the middle of a challenging conversations. This is the firs of several episodes that focuses on the IB learner proviles. Cher emphasizes the significance of the "caring" attribute in personal and community development. 

Cher delves into the transformative power of empathy, sharing a personal story about a "pocket reference" she received from a co-worker years ago, which has guided her communication strategies. This episode provides listeners with practical techniques for managing difficult interactions, such as maintaining personal space, using open body language, and allowing others to express their emotions. These strategies are shared to help individuals engage in more meaningful and empathetic dialogues.

 By choosing a positive tone and being observant of others' reactions, listeners can navigate even the most heated discussions with grace and understanding. Tune in to learn how to incorporate these caring strategies into your life and transform your interactions for the better.

Hello and welcome to The Focused Mindset Podcast, 

I hope you ae enjoing the show. I'd love for you to be a part of my Hope Notes Newsletter community at https://www.thefocusedmindset.com/newsletter. It is free and you will get a three-day mini course when you do.  I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes.

Warmly, Cher Kretz

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Fear and hope are both present within us, and it's important to acknowledge and accept them. Fear can cause anxiety and panic attacks, but we can learn to overcome it. Visualizing outcomes that you truly want and focusing on what is true can help combat fear. Breathing exercises and celebrating small wins are effective tools in managing fear. Choosing to listen to the hopeful voice within us and living with a hope-centered mindset can lead to success and finding solutions.

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You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. 

TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN

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Dr. Linda Medcalf discusses the issue of teacher bullying and its correlation with school violence. She emphasizes the importance of teachers treating students with compassion and understanding, and offers a solution-focused approach to address challenging behaviors. The approach involves seeing beyond negative behaviors and looking for strengths and competencies in students. By acknowledging and highlighting these positive aspects, teachers can create a more supportive and empowering environment for their students. In this conversation, Linda and Cher discuss the importance of adopting a solution-focused approach in education. They emphasize the power of recognizing and highlighting positive behaviors in students, rather than focusing solely on their problems. They also discuss the impact of teachers' words and actions on students' well-being and the potential connection between negative experiences at school and school shootings. Linda shares her experience of giving a TEDx talk on this topic and the research that supports the solution-focused approach. 

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In this episode, we take a moment to share all the facts about the upcoming conference that you can be a part of! Dr. Linda Metcalf is teaching, and her trainings are incredible.  Don't hesitate to get your ticket so you can join me. 

 

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In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, host Cher Kretz reflects on her experience at the ASCA National School Conference and shares her insights on standing up for others. She emphasizes the importance of being an advocate for students and highlights the power of using a solution-focused approach in conversations. Cher also encourages listeners to step out of their comfort zones and attend conferences and seminars to fill themselves up and grow as individuals. She concludes by urging listeners to stand up for justice and be there for others in their everyday lives. TEDx by Linda Metcalf: Is There A Link Between Teacher Bullying and School Violence?    • Is There a Link Between School Violen...   TEDx by Cher Kretz: How to Lead With Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation    • How to Lead With Hope

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Takeaways

• Attending conferences and seminars can be a valuable way to fill yourself up and grow as an individual.
• As school counselors, it is important to be advocates for students and give them a voice in meetings and discussions.
• Using a solution-focused approach in conversations can lead to empowering and impactful interactions.
• Standing up for justice and being there for others is a powerful way to make a difference in the world.

 

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in episode 208, Cher reflects on the importance of spending quality time with loved ones and having meaningful conversations. She shares a game her family played where they discussed the advice they would give their younger selves. This exercise allowed them to reflect on their personal growth and share valuable insights. The host encourages listeners to reflect on their growth, celebrate their successes, and share their stories with others. She emphasizes the power of recognizing and empowering others for their strengths and achievements.  Takeaways

• Spending quality time with loved ones and having meaningful conversations is important.
• Reflecting on personal growth and sharing insights can be valuable.
• Celebrate successes and share stories with others.
• Recognize and empower others for their strengths and achievements.

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In this podcast episode, Cher Kretz discusses the importance of recognizing and managing fear and hope in our lives. She introduces her book '30 Days to Higher Hopes' and emphasizes the need to raise our level of hope to be better at conversations and communication. Cher shares that fear and hope both exist within us and we have a choice in which voice to listen to. She provides examples of fear talk and hope talk, and offers solution-focused questions to help shift our mindset towards hope. Cher also highlights the significance of aligning with our values and practicing mindfulness.  

• Fear and hope both exist within us, and we have a choice in which voice to listen to.
• Recognize fear talk and replace it with hopeful thoughts and questions.
• Align with your values to stay on track and move towards a hopeful future.
• Practice mindfulness to quiet your thoughts and listen to the solutions that hope has to offer.

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TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN

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In this episode, you get to listen in on a conversation Cher Kretz had with Russ Sabella, an author, school counselor, and college professor, about the solution-focused approach. Russ shares how he got into solution-focused counseling and the impact it has had on his career. They discuss the importance of focusing on strengths, resources, and opportunities rather than solely on problems. They also highlight the power of gratitude and giving credit to others. Russ emphasizes the need for practice and repetition in adopting a solution-focused mindset and the importance of believing in the potential for change. They also touch on applying solution-focused principles in various contexts, such as sports and parenting. In this conversation, Russ Sabella and Cher Kretz discuss the power of solution-focused counseling in schools. They share personal stories and examples of how solution-focused approaches have transformed students' lives. They emphasize the importance of focusing on strengths and solutions rather than problems, and how this approach can lead to positive change. They also discuss the role of technology, including artificial intelligence, in the future of counseling. Overall, the conversation highlights the effectiveness of solution-focused counseling and its potential to improve outcomes for students.

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In this episode, we explore the reasons that stress and anxiety are linked to social media and the overuse of entertainment online. 

You want to have meaningful conversations, but relationships are complicated, and opportunities are missed. This is why I created the three-day conversation navigation challenge, and you can now join for free with this link.  ALSO, you will get a 50% discount code for my Conversation Navigation Bundle that will give you both audio and video training and two courses and my book 30 Days to Higher Hopes sent to you. 

TEDx: How to Lead with Hope: Solution Focused Conversation Navigation https://youtu.be/Am3ZoF53BS0?si=ZaflEtnhsdjgJ2oN

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You might ask: Cher how did you go from being a school counselor to a top ranked podcast host? It's because of the business support at SPI (Smart Passive Income) Here is my special affiliate link to check it out: https://www.smartpassiveincome.com/community/?via=cher-kretz