"The Fruit Snacks Podcast" with Emily Wardrop, the T1D Moms Coach

No matter what the problem is,

Jesus is the Answer

Anything you are struggling with right now, Christ can and will help you. He makes meaning out of all of the mess of this life. Without Him nothing makes sense, but with Him, we can understand the purpose behind all of the hard. 

There is no growth in ease. We are here to progress. To learn and grown. We can't learn if we don't make mistakes and we growth requires resistance. 

Lean in, team up with Him in His yoke.

In this episode I share with you the talk I gave at church yesterday about the Savior's role in the Plan of Salvation. There is no Salvation without Jesus so that was an easy topic. 

No matter what you are struggling with, no matter what the question is,

Jesus is the Answer! 

All things are present before God (D&C 38:2 and Moses 1:6)

But we are divine eternal beings. 

So we can try to keep an eternal perspective and "time bend" the way God can. 

When we trust that He created us and called it good, then we get a glimpse into remembering our eternal goodness.

You ARE Good because you always have been, always will be, and therefore are now in the present also.

Even though you made mistakes in the past and you are trying to be better in the future.

If you could bend time and put the past and future into the present, you could believe that you Are a Good Mom and then easily live into that.

Try it on. Try time bending. It's life changing. Literally. Cause we are so used to living in a world misguided by the human invention of the clock and calendar. 

But if you believe in your eternal presence, you can be her now. You are her now. You're not what you did in the past or how you hope to behave in the future. You just are who you are. Believe that and you'll be ready to enjoy the. miracles of being who you've always been.

If you want some solid help applying this woo woo concept, sign up for a free chat at dropthewar.com/appointments

Use the link for the RBC and we can do both. Relationship Boost Call and talk about time bending. I'm so down! Let's Go!! 

Stacy Saunders is a certified life coach who coaches moms of kids with food intolerances. She is the Mother of 3 and is a Member of Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. And is a Homeschooler.

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In this episode, Stacy and I have a great conversation about how to approve of yourself. 

Being a mom is hard and it only gets harder when we are so hard on ourselves! 

But if we can shift the narrative from "I'm going to do that cause I should or If I was a good person then I would" to really believing that we don't do things in order to earn our own approval, things can shift dramatically.

Stacy recently made this shift and explains how it has changed her life so much. 

For more tips and tools on believing that you ARE a Good Mom, check out my free prerecorded masterclass at dropthewar.com/believe

And to schedule your FREE RBC Relationship Boost Call go to dropthewar.com/appointments 

See ya there! 

When Barbara coaches moms of adult children, the same fears, doubts, and lies come up for them as come up for my Moms of young kids!

No matter your age or your child's age, Believing that you ARE a Good Mom can be a challenge.

Reprogramming your brain to just believe in your inherent goodness that is not dependent on your actions is a new skill for most of us. 

Listen in today as you learn from Barbara's experience and wisdom and start believing. 

If you want more help on your journey to believe you Are a Good Mom, check out my free prerecorded masterclass at dropthewar.com/believe

And to get your FREE RBC Relationship Boost Call, go to dropthewar.com/appointments

For more from Barbara Stacey go to:

www.happy2bmecoaching.com

and the happy2bme podcast

You are not wrong. You don't have to make yourself wrong. Even if other people are doing things differently. And even if your own true self would do something differently, the way you just did it was right for that time. 

Connection coach Jill Wright helps all of us believe that we ARE Right Also! (we're not Wright like she is but we ARE Right!) You are not wrong!! You Are Always Right!!

You ARE with a capital letter A!

If your brain is always going to judge, at least we can drop the war with it by calling it discerning instead. And if we have to compare, let's compare ourselves to something useful, like our eternal self. We always have been and always will be but we need to remember who that is. 

Instead of trying to make the right decisions and do everything right, let's just make decisions, make them right and believe that we ARE a Good Mom! 

You have all the information that you need. You don't need another book, blog, email, or IG post to give you more information on how to be a good mom!! You already ARE and when you believe that, along with acceptance of the awareness of where you are now, then you will live in alignment with who you've always been! And it's SO Fun!! 

Learn more at dropthewar.com/believe

Sign up for a FREE RBC Relationship Boost Call at dropthewar.com/appointments

And find more of Jill's amazingness at 

My website: https://jillwrightcoaching.com

IG: https://instagram.com/jillwrightcoaching

Podcast: https://jillwrightcoaching.com/listen

I currently have a fun freebie where people can get their 2023 Word of the Year on a bracelet. They can get that here: https://jillwrightcoaching.com/bracelet

Laura Hernandez is also a Mama Coach and we have a super fun conversation about how Systems can help us keep our Sanity and get us out of Survival Mode.

"I am the owner of Mama Systems and the mother of ten children.

In just five years, My husband and I added six children to

our family - three biological and three through adoption. Four of the kiddos

attend public school, we home-school five children, and I

manage 20+ appointments a week for our four special needs children.

I am passionate and dedicated to helping women bring more peace to their

homes.

Designing customized systems that help a family run more smoothly and

reduce a mother's daily workload is my specialty."

If you want to learn more about HOW to Believe you ARE a Good Mom, get my free prerecorded masterclass at dropthewar.com/believe

Here at Drop the War life coaching we drop power struggle wars with our kids to create more PEACE in our parenting!

So today we are delving deeper into what Peace even is.

Where does it go in "the model"? Is it a circumstance, thought, feeling, action, or result? 

Peace is fun to play with because it could actually go in any of those categories.

And I believe it is such a complicated mental construct because peace is not actually of this world. 

In John 14:17, Jesus promises us that "Peace I leave with you. MY peace I give unto You. NOT as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." 

So there is a worldly peace which fits in the model but Jesus is giving us HIS Peace! Which is not as the world giveth. 

Awesome! So what does that look like for you? In this episode I explore a bit about what that is meaning for me right now. (which is always up for evolution, of course) 

If your heart is feeling troubled right now whether by the global wars or your own personal wars, I invite you to Drop the War and enjoy the Peace that only Jesus Christ can bring. It surpasses this world and all the stress and worry of this world. You can feel peaceful amidst all the full range of human emotions a the same time. Make peace with feeling your worry. Just let the emotions be human emotions and know that you are more than a human. You are a celestial being so in the eternal perspective, there is nothing to be afraid of. 

Peace Out!  

What does your heart yearn to do but your brain tries to tell you is impossible?

We are buried in limiting beliefs that keep us living small. But you are an eternal being. What does your soul know that your mortal brain has forgotten? Your desires give you clues into who you cosmically are. 

Now is the time of year that we let ourselves remember. We tap into more of our potential as we get intentional about what we want the new year to bring. 

What would you love to believe is possible? that the world has conditioned you into believing is impossible? 

The world was flat until it wasn't. It wasn't humanly possible to run a mile is less than four minutes until someone did it.

What record to you want to break? 

What goal would people laugh at you for if you shared it with them? 

That's a good goal. Probably not a "SMART" goal but who cares? 

Let's do the impossible this year! 

Let's break records and tear down our limiting beliefs so that we don't feel stuck anymore!! 

Who's with me?! 

Let's go! 

Dropthewar.com/believe to get started

Marci Owen is a dear coach friend of mine. She puts on an incredible coaches retreat which I got to attend a couple years ago and it was amazing! 

On this episode, she shares with us a couple of her very impactful personal stories which I find so inspirational in motivating me to Be Myself, believe in myself, and to live my dreams, "Because I Can!" 

Believing that you ARE a Good Mom IS Believing in Yourself so this is the perfect message to share on this podcast and at the perfect time of year as many of us are embarking on a New Year, New You! 

Earn the confidence to be this new version of yourself by doing the thing that scares you. Feel the courage by feeling the fear and doing it anyway. And by doing so, you develop the confidence you're seeking. 

BE YOU!

Enjoy the episode and don't forget to sign up for your FREE RBC Relationship Boost Call! dropthewar.com/appointments

From Marci:

As a life coach, I help Christian moms over the age of 30 tap into their inner strength and confidence. I understand that it can be easy to doubt yourself and feel unfulfilled, especially as a mom, but my goal is to help you believe in yourself and your potential. By working together, we can revamp your beliefs about yourself and empower you to take control of your life and pursue your passions with purpose and meaning. Let's work together to fully engage with your life and create the future you desire.As mentioned on the podcast: Discover the power of reflection with my free pdf journal: The Journey. Imagine looking back on the past year and being amazed at all the progress you’ve made. That’s exactly what my free journal will help you do. By setting aside a couple of hours to reflect and recognize events from 2022, you’ll discover hidden strengths, talents and moments of courage that you may have forgotten about. Plus, as a bonus, you’ll also receive a guide to help you intentionally plan for the year ahead. I promise the way this is laid out is actually fun! Let’s do this!Email me at: [email protected] and we’ll send it straight to your inbox.

And all the other ways to find her:

website: https://marciowen.com

I am a baby whisperer

I am also a new born Mommy Whisperer. 

What do I want to whisper to you Momma?! 

You are amazing! You just did something miraculous and spectacular and you are a rock star! 

AND especially...

Your Worth does NOT depend on your productivity!!

It is time for rest.

Let other people help you.

What you do or don't do does not make you a good mom!

You ARE a Good Mom!!

It is in your divine DNA. It is your inherent identity.

No matter what even if and especially when! 

AND that NEVER changes!!

Imagine a world if we all actually believed that.

That is my mission.

To believe that I AM a Good Mom and to help ALL the Moms of the world believe it also!! 

Because Believe Achieve! 

So, lay back and relax and enjoy being a mom! 

And let everyone else enjoy your baby also!! Those of us who have moved out of that season, LOVE taking care of babies because we don't "Have" to anymore. We WANT to! So let us!! So that you can fully experience whatever you are going through. It's all good and rigged in your eternal perspective favor. Trust that God is in the details. He's got you. No worries. You will feel ALL the feels!! Embrace it all. The good, the bad, the ugly. It's all part of this incredible journey called life. 

AND if you're not a newborn mom, STILL Your Worth does NOT depend on your Productivity!!

If not, then drop the war on those thoughts.

Need help with that? Sign up for a FREE RBC! Relationship Boost Call at dropthewar.com/appointments