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What if the biggest beauty secrets have almost nothing to do with how you look?

After spending years chasing the right weight, the right compliment, and enough outside validation to finally feel beautiful, I’m realizing I may have been asking the wrong question all along.

In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between being pretty and being magnetic, why being desired isn’t the same as being valued, sensuality vs. sexuality, modesty without making yourself smaller, comparison, confidence, and learning to define beauty for yourself.

Because maybe the question isn’t, “Am I beautiful enough yet?”

Maybe it’s, “What do I think is beautiful?”

And girl, that changes everything.

After almost ten months away from Full On Purpose, I'm back and I'm not coming back as the same woman who left.

This season of my life has forced me to go back to the drawing board and ask a question I don't know that I've ever seriously asked before: Who am I when I stop defining myself by who I am to everyone else?

In the first episode of Permission to Be Her series, we're talking about the difference between character and personality and the ways we can unintentionally learn to edit ourselves to fit our idea of what a "good" woman is supposed to be.

Where did you learn to be quieter, easier, less emotional, less opinionated, or simply....smaller?

And more importantly: Is it shaping your character or shrinking your personality?

Let's figure out what genuinely needs to grow, what needs to be surrended to God, and what he never asked us to give up in the first place.

Ya'll, welcome back!

🪑 EPISODE 3 — One Size Doesn’t Fit All: Parenting Different Kids with Different Needs

Hey there, mama. Ever feel like the way you parent one kid works beautifully... but totally crashes and burns with another? 😅 Welcome to the club—and welcome back to Raising Them On Purpose.

I’m your host, Becky Williams—a fellow ADHD-brained mom figuring it out in real time. In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the trickiest parts of parenting: loving our kids differently without guilt or burnout.

🔍 Here’s what we’re unpacking:

💡 ADHD Tool of the Day:

📖 Bible Anchor: James 1:5

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God...”

👂 Plus: Parenting scripts for each personality type so you’re not stuck trying to remember what to say in the heat of the moment.

🙏 And as always, we close with a prayer to ground your heart and remind you—you were chosen to raise these kids. On purpose.

🧠 Next time: We’re diving into parenting Overthinkers and Overfeelers—and how to calm the chaos without shutting anyone down.

✨ NEW! Kid Roadmap Guide ✨

👉 https://tinyurl.com/wmnfpm9c

🎙️ Raising Them On Purpose: When Big Emotions Rule the House

Hey hey—welcome back to Raising Them On Purpose. If your home sometimes feels like an emotional battlefield—complete with crying, yelling, slammed doors, and maybe a parent hiding in the laundry room with chocolate—you’re in good company.

I’m Becky Williams—health coach, Enneagram nerd, Jesus chaser, and mom of three—and today we’re diving into what happens when big emotions run the show (and how to take the reins back without crushing your kid’s spirit).

You’ll learn:

Grab your notebook, your grace, and maybe a snack—you’ll want both.

✨ NEW! Kid Roadmap Guide ✨

👉 https://tinyurl.com/wmnfpm9c

Because every child’s wiring is a gift… and so are you. 💛

🎙️ New Series Launch: Raising Them On Purpose

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual… but it does come with unique kids who were wired by God on purpose. In this brand-new series, we’re diving into the nine kid “types” — from the Big Feeler to the Little Boss to the Happy Hurricane — and learning how to parent them with peace, confidence, and faith.

To go with this series, I created the Raising Them On Purpose: Kid Roadmap Guide — a printable resource that helps you:

🌟 Launch Week Special! 🌟

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Because every child’s wiring is a gift… and so are you. 💛

🎧 Full On Purpose Podcast – Bonus Episode: Raising Kids Who Want God

How to Raise Kids Who Actually Want God (Not Just Obey Rules)

👋 Hey friends—this episode is for every parent who’s prayed, “God, I just want my child to know You, not just follow rules or check spiritual boxes.”

Whether your child is curious, resistant, deeply sensitive, or seemingly indifferent—you’re not failing.

Today, we’re diving into how to create a home culture that doesn’t just teach about God…

🌱 In This Episode:

Why behavior-focused faith backfires

The difference between obedience and ownership

How your tone, not just your theology, builds spiritual safety

What to do when your child is angry, anxious, or ashamed around God

How comparison + church hurt shape their desire (and what to do about it)

This isn’t a checklist.

🧠 ADHD + Enneagram Insights:

We’ll also talk about:

What not to say when your child is struggling

The 1 question that opens spiritual conversation instead of shutting it down

📖 Scripture Anchor:

👀 Up Next in September:

Let’s raise them on purpose. 💛

🎙️ Will I Miss the Rapture?

I used to panic every time I walked into a quiet house.

It felt irrational. Embarrassing.

This episode is one of the most vulnerable I’ve ever recorded.

Inside, I’m unpacking:

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I really okay with God?”

This episode is a gentle reminder: grace has already gone ahead of you.

🕊️ Listen now and let the truth settle into the places where fear once lived.

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🎧 Full On Purpose Podcast – Episode 5: Distraction & Desire

Ever sit down with the best of intentions—only to find yourself scrolling, spiraling, and spiritually foggy five minutes later?

This week’s episode is for the woman who wants to grow, focus, and follow Jesus... but keeps getting distracted.

We unpack:

💛 You’ll leave with:

📖 Scripture: Romans 7:15 + Hosea 3:1

🎁 Want more?

Grab the 30-day Noise devotional journal on Etsy — filled with daily SOAP devotions, ADHD-friendly tools, and emotional reset space to help you turn down the chaos and tune in to God.

Let’s turn the page on shame and walk boldly back to the One who never stopped calling us home.

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🎧 Series: Noise: How to Hear God When Life Won’t Shut Up

Ever find yourself crying in the bathmat aisle at Target and not even sure why? You’re not alone.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into emotional overload—those days when your heart is carrying way too much to concentrate. Whether it's grief, hormones, or the fact that you're absorbing everyone else's emotions on top of your own, the swirl is real.

We'll explore:

The overlooked biblical story of Rizpah and her fierce, holy grief

How ADHD and emotional intensity are linked

Tools to hold space for your feelings without drowning in them

Enneagram insights for Types 2, 4, and 9

Gentle practices to ground yourself when life is too loud inside

💛 You're not too much. You’re just carrying too much alone.

🛠️ Plus, I’ll walk you through 3 tangible tools to quiet emotional noise and share how your tears actually matter to God.

👉 Psst… don’t forget to grab the 30-day Noise Devotional in my Etsy shop. It’s filled with scripture, prayer, and daily practices to help you reset your soul—even when everything feels like too much.