The Goode Show

In this episode of The Goode Show, military spouse Katy Sabala, Outreach & Partnership Specialist with University of Maryland Global Campus (UMGC), shares how a PCS move led her back to higher education and into a career supporting military-affiliated students.

Katy discusses the realities of military spouse life, frequent relocations, and how education can create career continuity despite PCS challenges. Drawing from her own experience, she explains how persistence, adaptability, and online learning opportunities helped her build a meaningful career while navigating military life.

This episode explores military spouse careers, higher education for military families, PCS transitions, and the importance of educational support for service members, veterans, and spouses.

🎧 Perfect for military spouses, active duty, veterans, and anyone considering higher education while balancing military life.

Raised by a single mother, Dusty Anfuso learned early on that nothing in life comes easy — and that determination, discipline, and work ethic are built, not given. In this episode of The Goode Show, Dusty, a U.S. Air Force veteran, shares how watching his mother persevere shaped the mindset that carried him through military service and beyond.

We talk about resilience, accountability, and what it truly means to be a go-getter when the odds aren’t stacked in your favor. Dusty’s story is a powerful reminder that success is forged through consistency, grit, and showing up — even when it’s hard.

If you’re looking for motivation, perspective, and a no-nonsense conversation about earning your wins, this episode is for you.

🎧 Episode 73 available on all major streaming platforms.

The first episode of the year is HERE — and I’m kicking things off with my side-kick and co-host, Kim Brinkman! 🎙✨

In this episode, Kim and I look back at last year — the wins, lessons, laughs, and the conversations that made an impact across our military spouse and veteran community. We talk about growth, challenges, surprises, and the moments that reminded us why this platform matters.

Then we look ahead to 2026…new guests, deeper topics, bold conversations, and exciting projects on the horizon. 🚀 From community stories to entrepreneurship, transition, leadership, and real talk about military life — this year is going to be powerful.

Whether you’ve been with us since day one or you’re just joining — we’re so glad you’re here. Hit subscribe, stay connected, and be part of the journey. ❤️

👉 Watch, comment, and tell us what topics YOU want to hear in 2026!

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It’s the last episode of 2025, and we’re talking New Year’s resolutions — the big dreams we swear we’ll stick to… until at least January 3rd 😂

In this episode, I dig into why we make resolutions in the first place, how many people actually keep them, where this whole tradition even started, and why our good intentions sometimes lose the battle to snacks, procrastination, and real life.

With a mix of humor, honesty, and a few “yep, that’s me” moments, we’ll look at how to create resolutions you might actually keep in 2026 — without the guilt or pressure.

Grab a coffee, laugh along, and let’s walk into the new year with intention… and maybe slightly lower expectations 😆

In this episode of The Goode Show, we sit down with Jennifer, a senior military spouse who has navigated multiple PCS moves while building a meaningful and thriving career. Like so many military spouses, Jennifer has had to reinvent her professional path each time her family relocated. But instead of letting the uncertainty derail her, she leaned into resilience, optimism, and an unwavering belief that military spouses deserve accessible employment opportunities—no matter where duty calls.

Today, Jennifer proudly works with Compass Military Division, an organization dedicated to creating real, portable careers for military spouses. Their approach goes far beyond inspirational language and patriotic messaging. Compass backs its support with tangible career pathways, training, mentorship, and family-first workplace culture, ensuring spouses don’t have to choose between serving alongside their loved ones and maintaining professional success.

Based in San Antonio, Jennifer shares what it feels like to work with a company that means what it says—a company that recognizes the value of military spouses, respects the realities of PCS life, and takes action to support long-term career growth.

If you’ve ever wondered what’s possible for military spouses in a world where careers often feel disrupted, Jennifer’s story is a reminder: you can build a life, a purpose, and a profession—even when your zip code keeps changing.

🎙️ Tune in to hear:

• Jennifer’s personal PCS career journey

• What makes Compass Military Division different

• Practical ways companies can support military spouses beyond just “thank you for your service”

• Real career opportunities for spouses looking for flexibility, fulfillment, and professional growth

Listen, share, and support military spouses who are redefining what career continuity looks like.

In this episode, I sit down with Ali Craig, the powerhouse behind Victor + Valor, a branding agency dedicated to elevating military-connected brands and the entrepreneurs who drive them.

Ali breaks down one of the biggest points of confusion in small business: the difference between marketing and branding — and why understanding both is essential for growth. She shares how to implement each effectively, even when you’re a one-person operation juggling all the hats.

We dive into the importance of a strong, authentic brand identity, how storytelling builds trust, and the ways Victor + Valor is reshaping and empowering the military business landscape.

If you’re a military spouse, veteran, or entrepreneur ready to take your brand to the next level, this episode is packed with clarity, strategy, and inspiration.

Tune in and learn how to elevate your message, your mission, and your impact. 🎙️✨

In this episode, I sit down with Terry McKearney, Veteran and President of the San Diego Military Advisory Council Foundation (SDMAC Foundation). Terry shares why the Foundation was created and how it’s helping service members transition from military to civilian life — through education, mentorship, and community connection.

We talk about what it takes to build a future beyond service, how SDMAC Foundation is helping veterans and spouses stay rooted in San Diego, and the importance of investing in those who’ve served our nation.

🎧 Tune in to hear how this incredible organization is shaping brighter paths for our military community.

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What happens when you're managing a home sale, a PCS move, and solo parenting while your spouse is deployed overseas?In this powerful episode of The Goode Show, I sit down with Aaron Hantman - a military veteran with over 20 years of active duty service who now finds himself on the OTHER side of deployment. While his wife serves overseas, Aaron is tackling one of the most stressful situations any military family can face: selling their home, packing up their entire life, and preparing for a major move... all while being the only parent on deck.**In this episode, Aaron shares:**✅ What it's like transitioning from active duty to military spouse✅ How he's managing solo parenting during deployment✅ The reality of selling a home while your decision-maker is in a different time zone✅ Why they chose Compass Military and how it made all the difference✅ His honest struggles with the mental and emotional load✅ Practical tips for military families facing similar situations✅ The importance of accepting help and building the right support teamThis isn't your typical real estate story - this is about resilience, sacrifice, and the incredible strength of military families who do the impossible every single day.WHY COMPASS MILITARY?Aaron breaks down exactly why working with a real estate team that TRULY understands military life made this overwhelming process manageable. From flexible scheduling around solo parenting to navigating VA loans and PCS timelines, hear firsthand why specialized support matters.**TIMESTAMPS:**00:00 - Introduction & Meet Aaron Hantman03:45 - From Active Duty to Military Spouse08:20 - The Decision to Sell During Deployment12:30 - Why Compass Military Was the Right Choice18:15 - Day in the Life: Packing, Parenting & Showing a Home24:40 - How the Kids Are Handling It All29:10 - Lessons from 20+ Years of Military Service34:25 - The Hardest Moments39:50 - Advice for Military Families45:30 - Looking Ahead to Reunion & New Assignment**CONNECT WITH US:**🔔 Subscribe for more real military family stories💬 Share your PCS story in the comments👍 Like if this resonated with you**RESOURCES MENTIONED:**Compass Military - Real estate team specializing in military relocations[https://www.youtube.com/@UCmzPPzgSEvJxsAmBSwpqP9g ]**#MilitaryLife #MilitarySpouse #PCSMove #Deployment #MilitaryFamily #CompassMilitary #RealEstate #MilitaryVeteran #MaleSpouse #SoloParenting #HomeSellingTips #MilitaryPCS #TheGoodeShow**Know someone going through a deployment or PCS? Share this episode with them. Sometimes just knowing you're not alone makes all the difference.

Episode 66: Supporting Foreign-Born Military Spouses with Fadoua Harrabi & Lydiah Owiti-Otieno

Moving to a new country is challenging enough—but imagine doing it while navigating the complexities of military life. In this powerful episode, we sit down with Fadoua Harrabi and Lydiah Owiti-Otieno, two incredible advocates who understand this journey firsthand.

As foreign-born military spouses themselves, they know what it's like to leave everything familiar behind, navigate language barriers, figure out TRICARE registration, tackle immigration paperwork, and learn an entirely new "language"—military culture with all its acronyms, customs, and unspoken rules.

Where do you turn when facing all of this at once? Fadoua and Lydiah decided to BE the help they wished they'd had. Together, they founded the Foreign Born Military Spouse Network—a vital resource providing support, guidance, and community for spouses navigating the intersection of immigration, cultural adjustment, and military life.

This conversation is filled with honesty, resilience, and practical wisdom. Whether you're a foreign-born military spouse or know someone who is, this episode offers hope and real solutions for navigating this unique journey.

Please share this episode with any foreign-born military spouse you know—let's make sure no one has to navigate this journey alone.

Our own Kim Brinkman—associate producer of The Goode Show, military spouse, and incredible mom to seven—sits down for one of the most important conversations we've ever had. Kim knows better than anyone the power of sharing our stories, and today she's sharing hers.

With courage and grace, Kim takes us through the heartbreaking loss of her baby girl Alia to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), and how her family found their way through the darkest valley imaginable.

In this tender, honest conversation, Kim shares:

• How she held her family together while her own heart was breaking
• The beautiful support that surrounded her—from her military family to friends who showed up in just the right ways
• Why her faith, her husband, and her six other children became her lifeline
• The small moments of light that helped her keep going
• What she learned about grief, resilience, and the strength we don't know we have until we need it
• Her heartfelt advice for anyone facing unthinkable loss—or walking alongside someone who is

Kim believes deeply in the healing power of sharing our stories, and this one is a gift. It's about love that doesn't end, hope that persists, and the incredible capacity of the human heart to heal without forgetting.

Content note: This episode discusses infant loss and may be emotional for some listeners.