As wives and moms who wear all the hats and juggle all the priorities, it can be easy to fall into a role of people pleasing and subsequent burnout. This week's guest Tanya Engesether, of the Grace Filled Leader podcast, shares her journey of people pleasing through her work relationships, and how she was able to reclaim her identity in Christ and start setting healthy boundaries.

We also get vulnerable in discussing how recovering from people-pleasing can potentially bring distress to a marriage and what we can do to maintain a  healthy relationship in the process. 

If you’re interested in learning more from today’s guest check out her information below:

Tanya Engesether

Podcast: The Grace Filled Leader 

Website: TheGraceFilledLeader.com

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We’ve all been through tough seasons in life. Times when we are struggling in life and marriage, times when we don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, times when our mental health is low and we’re experiencing anxiety, depression, overwhelm, and burnout. 

As a wife and mom, these seasons can happen more often than you think. In today’s episode, I give you 3 practical ways to give yourself grace in such seasons.

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It's out of character for me to go so long without an episode!!! Honestly, I've been going through a lot personally over the past few weeks. Here is a QUICK life update AND a link to an episode I guested on for another show. Happy Listening and I'll be back soon for you!!

My guest appearance on The Grace Filled Leader Podcast is linked for you below. I will have the episode I recorded with her available soon. Check her out!

Part 1-

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-grace-filled-leader-people-pleasing-servant/id1652933184?i=1000629057537

Part 2-

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-grace-filled-leader-people-pleasing-servant/id1652933184?i=1000629183838

Website:  https://gracefilledleader.com

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7 Day Gratitude Journal

Intimacy can come in many forms. When we think of our close relationships we often think of emotional intimacy. When we think of marriage, we often think of physical & emotional intimacy. But financial intimacy is another type that can really only be experienced through the close bond that comes with sharing a life, goals, and bills with someone!

This week, we sit down with Marital Financial Coaches Rebecca and Dylan who who talk to us about what is financial intimacy and how to create it. What holds us back from experiencing it and how are some ways to create a stress-free environment around marital finances. 

Rebecca and Dylan can be found on their podcast RADMoney or their website RADCoaches.com

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There’s a difference between the monetary price of something and the cost of it. As we work to redeem our marriages it’s important to know what the full cost will be. In this episode, I give you three things to consider as a cost when are fighting for our marriages! 

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God can speak to us at any time, but the times it can be most life giving is when we are in the midst of a dark or uncertain season. In fact, all of my best life decisions have been because God had spoken a word to me. 

Today’s guest, Jenilee Samuel of the Java with Jen podcast give us really helpful tips on how to identify God’s voice in our life AND how to strengthen our spiritual senses. 

To learn more about her programs check her out at: www.javawithjenpodcast.ORG

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Have you considered marriage counseling but aren’t sure if it will be worth your time and investment? Perhaps you’ve tried counseling before but felt like it just “didn’t work” or maybe you went to one session and your hubby never wanted to go back. 

In this episode, you’ll learn 3 ways to discern if marriage counseling is right for you, why it hasn’t worked in the past, and how to make the most of it if you choose to invest in marriage counseling in the future. 

Here is the info for Dr. Ruan that I discussed in this episode:

www.v2020counseling.com

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Has your husband told you that he feels disrespected by you but you’re not sure what he means? You don’t fight often but you want to make sure you are doing everything you can to have a healthy marriage. Perhaps you have a good marriage that you want to make great, or perhaps your marriage is struggling and you are looking for ALL the answers to make it better. 

Either way, this episode will teach you what it means to increase intimacy in your relationship, communicate respect to your husband and greatly improve your marriage as a byproduct!

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Have you ever suspected that you or your husband might have ADHD? You’re not alone. Experts are estimating that ADHD is overlooked AND underdiagnosed in adult women because symptoms present as more internalized and with less hyperactivity as compared to men.

Unless there is a deep understanding of one another, having only 1 neurodivergent spouse can cause major communication roadblocks and disagreements in a marriage. In this episode, we explore how to handle those differences and what it looks like to set goals for your marriage to ensure you grow together rather than grow apart. 

My guest, Dr. Danielle McGeough can be found through the following resources:

Many hard-working women and high-achieving mommas struggle to find time to make memories with their families and do meaningful work. Her proven methods help them plan and set goals with purpose, so they can delight in living fully both at work and at home.

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Couples in troubled marriages fall within a spectrum of behavior. Some are busy doing EVERYTHING they can to improve the marriage while others are sitting idly by not even picking up the clues that their spouse is leaving for them. 

Which one are you? In this week’s episode, I give a 3 step framework to avoid the over-functioning (or under-functioning) that can happen within the marriage so that you can take clear action before things get to a critical place. 

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