The Grief Code

In this episode, Ian had a conversation with Marie Alessi. Her life-changing experiences as a child had a significant influence on her, and her realisation of her father's death has provided her with several hidden skills.

And, following the loss of her husband Rob, Marie realised the power of choosing peace and satisfaction. And you have the ability to choose happiness and healing for yourself and your life.

Marie Alessi has chosen to devote her path to breaking down the taboo of mourning. She started the Movement "Loving Life after Loss" after losing her spouse to a brain aneurysm and now helps others in processing their loss by being a fine example of choosing Compassion over crumbling apart.

Don’t miss:

• How Marie no longer use this phrase to describe loss and  dislikes the word loss since he can transform into something so radically different.
• Marie also talks about genuinely letting one's intuition lead one's actions.
• How a loss in the family is a life-changing circumstance for all of you, and it may be viewed differently by others, but you must accept the fact of loss and grief in your own unique way.
• And that every lesson you teach is also a lesson for yourself. And I adore the fact that once you recognise and embrace it, it becomes so lovely.

About the Guest:

Marie Alessi has chosen to dedicate her journey to interrupting the stigma of grief. After losing her husband to a brain aneurysm, she founded the Movement “Loving Life after Loss” and now inspires others in processing their loss, by being a shining example of choosing Love over falling apart.

Marie unexpectedly lost her husband and father to their two boys in June 2018 to a brain aneurysm. Using her own tools and strong intuition, she found and created her way back to Happiness in a way that now ripples massive impact on a soul level around the world.

Marie wrote a book about her experience of moving to Australia, meeting, marrying and losing Rob, and how she coped and found empowerment throughout her journey. She has since founded a Movement with the same title as her book “Loving Life after Loss”. With empathy and understanding, she gently picks up her clients from where they are at - with a whole lot of respect for their very unique journey. There is no “one size fits all” approach when it comes to Loss. Yet there is a stigma around grief that she peels back, layer for layer, to not get entangled in other’s expectations and honour your own needs and space.

Marie will offer you a different perspective on life, Love and grief and leave you with choices that are yours to make.

Marie loves life. She has developed an insatiable desire to heal the world from grief. After 7 years of being a Mindset Mentor, her tools were put to the test when adversity shook her family of 4.

Her husband Rob passed away on a business trip when their boys were only 10 & 8.

Marie took everything she had learned to become a shining example for her sons - and now thousands of people around the globe.

For more information or to connect, visit MarieAlessi.com

https://www.MarieAlessi.com

https://www.facebook.com/groups/LovingLifeAfterLoss

https://www.facebook.com/MarieAlessiPublicFigure

https://www.instagram.com/loving.life.after.loss

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Episode Summary

In this episode, Ian talks about how important people are in your life with positivity and what is truly unique about them. Identifying it in them whenever they demonstrate it, is the quickest way to create a positive shift. 

Don’t miss:

• Ian explains the Law of Reciprocity and how you will receive what you have given.
• Ian discusses why it would work for you to try to do it for others, and what you do respond positively to is when individuals make you happy.
• Ian elaborates on the concept of discovering more desire, more motivation to move forward, merely by some kind words, and finding a way today to find more of those kinds of comments.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian sets out on enabling the unresolved pain of others to make you feel like crap, permitting others’ projections of what is occurring for them to cause you to lose balance. Ian emphasises that no one else influences your emotions. 

Don’t miss:

• Ian explains how events made the necessary changes and how you present yourself and realise that the rope that those close to you use to hold onto. 
• That we modify what we can, we control what we can and that we can’t control how others react. 
• How you should allow yourself to feel wounded, those essential people in your life
• Ian talks through what might be quite difficult to fa

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Episode Summary

In this episode, Ian describes the propensity that each gender have as to what works well and what doesn't, he also stated that it is also crucial to realise that we all show up for that in our own unique way and the sensation of letting go of a lot of past sorrow. 

Don’t miss:

• Ian explains why something will always upset someone, and generally to avoid dealing with something within themselves that has to be addressed.
• Ian also talks about considering it from a behavioral-energetic angle and then exploring its gentler side
• How confidence exemplifies a sense of responsibility and instead of being loving, empathetic, and sympathetic, it might devolve into helplessness and a victim culture
• Ian discusses that there's a huge blind alley of various places where humans have been pulled out of their natural equilibrium for millennia.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Episode Summary

In this episode, Ian delineates that you can never completely understand what someone else is going through,  that you can become preoccupied with the consequences for yourselves, and that you need to figure out how to modify that behaviour.

Don’t miss:

• Ian discusses how someone can behave in an unbelievable manner and cause you significant distress. 
• Ian also talks through why you have to remind yourself to be more compassionate and understanding, and the significant effect it has on others versus on you. 
• Ian explains that having the fortitude to accept full responsibility means there are external variables that make it seem as if they are the source of your sorrow.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Episode Summary

In this episode, Ian chats with Dan Zehner. Dan serves his wife and three children in ways that are unique to him when he is not scuba diving in the dark with Navy SEALs, rucking in the cold with a team carrying logs, or working in his shop. He is eager to demonstrate how to live an amazing, exciting life with God and enjoy the adventure! 

Don’t miss:

• Dan explains why you must seek out adventure in my life. And so it is for everyone who were at some time in their careers, are locked in this beige cubicle.
• Dan expounds on the notion that you must demolish anything before constructing something else in its stead prior to becoming a king.
• When you need to control yourselves cognitively to focus on a task, physically when we're in a tough environment or pushing yourselves, or emotionally, you need to regulate yourselves.
• Dan explains that God's will isn't exactly a road map. But you are a match and just a small heat source
• Dan tells you that your adventure is wholly your responsibility. Really like happiness and fill you up, and almost everything else.

About the Guest:

From his darkest moment, Dan Zehner found the adventure in his life that he’d been so sorely missing.

Tune into this week’s interview on The Grief Code podcast where Dan shares with me how he went from addiction and a feeling of disconnection from the most important people in his life, to finding his strength, restoring his connection with God and discovering a deep sense of purpose as he released the pain of his grief.

By prioritising adventure in this life, sharing these moments with his wife and kids, and helping other men to do the same, he has found a drive and fulfillment that so many men crave.

Dan’s episode drops this Thursday. Click on the link below to listen to the entire interview and many other inspiring personal stories of what’s possible when you unlock your Grief Code.

When Dan isn't diving in the dark with Navy SEALs, rucking through the cold with a team carrying logs, or building something in his shop, he's serving his wife and three kids in the ways that only he can. He's ready and willing to show you how to have an epic, adventurous life with God and love the journey! Are you ready? Visit his website, www.anthemoftheadventurer.com for his podcast, blog, and to connect with other adventurers!

Links:

Website:

IG: @anthemoftheadventurer

FB: https://www.facebook.com/anthemoftheadventurer

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielzehner/

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

Episode Summary

In this episode, Ian talks through why everyone is rooting for you, everyone wants the best version of yourself, how people are evaluating you, and that you possess such remarkable talents that you deserve every accomplishment that comes your way in the future.

Don’t miss:

• How strongly a projection of a portion of them that requires mending
• Ian talks about different behaviours that may emerge from them as a result of their unhealed parts.
• Ian explains how others desire to improve their ability to speak with confidence in front of a group.
• Ian explains why some might not want you to succeed.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian reached a state where you can accept or agree with anything then you immediately regret it and wonder why you did it, but it's often too late to turn back and possibly different situations in your life in which a particular conduct is appropriate.

Don’t miss:

• Ian talks about how rapidly you will learn that not only are they devoting a great deal of time and effort to things that aren't even on their list.
• How can you adjust that behaviour so that you can still be a kind and compassionate person.
• Why should you not accept things you don’t want to tolerate.
• Ian explains that you have a choice, but it does not imply that you must be disagreeable or difficult.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian talks through your own improvement adventure that you should not have to adapt to but there are occasions when conformity is acceptable and that straight area where you extend out of your comfort zone to continue to grow, to be the greatest version of yourself, and to find ever more effective methods to fit in while being true to yourself.

Don’t miss:

• Ian talks about how you'll be able to provide the individual with what they require
• How the various energies that you can feed off of different individuals, and you go into a room and get a feeling of someone
• Ian explains that even individuals who know you well will believe you are simply being yourself since you are a version of yourself.
• How you should recognize that the tasks were never completed, and that you are not entirely cured.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.

In this episode, Ian explains that action encourages self and confidence. If you want to overcome fear, do not remain at home and dwell on it; instead, engage in productive activities. Since you deserve it, you must make the promise to yourself that you will do whatever it takes to achieve your life's goals.

Don’t miss:

• Ian discusses that pushing ahead reduces the uncertainty and dread that we feel and increases our level of self-confidence
• Ian explains that you must find your motivation, your discipline, and your resolve, and start taking action.
• How Ian expounds on the knowledge of taking action transforms everything.
• How to step towards the life you actually desire by making a promise to yourself.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others. 

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process. 

Check Me Out On:

Join The Grief Code Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1184680498220541/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianhawkinscoaching/ 

Start your healing journey with my FREE Start Program https://www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thestartprogram 

I hope you enjoyed this episode of The Grief Coach podcast, thank you so much for listening. 

Please share it with a friend or family member that you know would benefit from hearing it too. 

If you are truly ready to heal your unresolved or unknown grief, let's chat. Email me at [email protected]. 

You can also stay connected with me by joining The Grief Code community at www.ianhawkinscoaching.com/thegriefcode and remember, so that I can help even more people to heal, please subscribe and leave a review on your favourite podcast platform.