The Grief Gurus

This episode marks a new chapter.

The Healing Path is evolving into The Grief Gurus—a space that goes beyond understanding grief, and into not having to carry it alone.

If you’ve been listening quietly, this is for you.

In this episode, I share what’s changed, what’s stayed the same, and why this next step matters—especially for those who have been navigating grief on their own.

Because while listening can help, it’s still something you’re doing by yourself.

And at some point, many people begin to wonder…
what it might feel like to not do this alone anymore.

If that’s something you’ve felt, you’re invited to explore the Grief Gurus community with two weeks of complimentary access:

https://www.thegriefgurus.com/landing/

And if you’re not ready for that, you’re always warmly welcomed here.

Because grief is part of your story… but not the whole story.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

After enduring the unimaginable loss of my children, I've embarked on a journey of healing that I share with you in this deeply personal episode of the Healing Path podcast. My new book, "The Healing Path, Part One: Stay Present" is the first of a transformative three-part series where I explore the first three of ten stepping stones that have been pivotal in my healing. The episode invites you to understand how these steps can universally apply to various forms of loss, not just those of loved ones, but also careers and relationships. By blogging and podcasting for years, I've crafted a narrative that aligns with my goal of building a community grounded in shared experiences of grief and the power of healing together. 

The episode also introduces "Scars 2 Medals," a virtual sanctuary where people across the globe can come together to transform their scars into strength. As I look forward to launching a structured healing course in 2025, I welcome you to join this growing movement through live events and a rich library of recorded content. Whether you're a longtime listener or new to our journey, your involvement can help create a meaningful life out of profound loss. Stay connected by visiting scars2medals.com, and together, let's cultivate a compassionate and supportive community where healing is possible.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Ever felt misunderstood while grieving? Join me as I share a touching story about a trip to Costco with my son, Zachary, whose non-verbal cues offer profound lessons in patience and understanding. Tune in for an episode rich with compassionate conversation and invaluable insights into the delicate process of navigating grief.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a situation so stressful that it felt like there was no way out? Picture this: a family road trip designed to create memories takes a turn for the worse when our son Zach gets locked in a bathroom with a malfunctioning lock. With a lit candle adding a dangerous twist, our panic rose as we struggled to free him, ultimately needing the help of firefighters. 

By examining these experiences, we uncover how our most challenging moments can drive growth and offer practical strategies for navigating caregiving and grief with resilience and compassion. Listen in for inspiration and actionable advice that will resonate deeply with anyone walking the path of care and healing.

For a visual of the crew that helped us get Zach out, visit www.lisamcfarland.com/the-z-suite/

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

What if the instinct to run away when life gets tough could actually teach us something profound? Join me, Lisa, as I unravel the concept of the "Inclination to Bolt," a powerful idea from Geneen Roth that has helped me navigate some of life's toughest challenges.

Drawing from my personal life, I open up about the daily challenges of caring for my 25-year-old son, Zach, who depends on a feeding tube and will never leave the nest. Parenting Zach has been both a gift and a Herculean task, filled with moments of overwhelming frustration and incredible insights. This episode is a raw reminder that we're not alone in our struggles, and that our scars are indeed medals of love if we decide that they are.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Have you ever felt a surge of emotion so powerful that it brought you to tears and connected you to strangers? That's the unexpected journey we undertook on April 8, 2024, during the total eclipse – an event that became a profound emotional touchstone. In our latest podcast episode, we unwrap the layers of this shared celestial experience and how it can unexpectedly strip us of the barriers we build around our lives. 

Yet, the eclipse serves only as a backdrop to a deeper reflection on how we cultivate joy and connection in our everyday lives. We probe the idea that our most content moments are born from an internal wellspring, rather than the external world, and how recognizing this can craft a life of fulfillment and less dependence on external validation. I discuss the shifting societal attitudes towards gratitude and abundance, and the need for fostering inclusivity and gratefulness to forge a more harmonious society. With no guest to guide us, this episode is an intimate conversation about our ability to support one another and contribute to a world that's more connected at its core.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

When my son Zach confuses "down" for "up" or points to his elbow when his knee hurts, it's not just a quirk—it's a window into the intricate world of emotional communication. 

Our latest episode embraces the tender, sometimes perplexing journey of connecting with the heart of what it means to truly communicate.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

As Zachary's 25th birthday nears, I am honored to share how his journey through serious health trials and countless medical procedures has been marked by an unwavering zeal for life. His uninhibited dance at a University of Maryland basketball game is more than just a spontaneous act; it is a testament to living authentically, undeterred by comparison, and an invitation for us all to savor the present with the same zest.

CLICK HERE for corresponding video of Zach’s dance!

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Join this episode as I recount a story of Zach and Alexis, two siblings united in narrative though separated by fate,.  It's a poignant reminder to embrace the present moment, practice gratitude, and commit to a journey of love that transcends our understanding, inviting us all to cultivate a life rich with compassion and connection.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.