The Grief Gurus

Have you ever found yourself shouting into a phone, desperate for a human response, only to be met with unending robotic menus? Picture the frustration that crept into my day when I lost my son Zach's feeding pump during travel, and the ensuing battle with an impersonal customer service system. That's the springboard for our latest episode, where we unravel the threads of systematic dehumanization that are becoming entwined in the fabric of our society. We explore the emotional toll of our increasingly automated world and share insights on how to reclaim the human connections we're at risk of losing.

Pull up a chair and join us for a heart-to-heart on the critical role empathy plays in our day-to-day lives. We've all been there—caught in the snarl of inefficient service or feeling unseen by the world rushing around us. But through personal anecdotes and engaging conversation, we lay out actionable steps for cultivating deeper, more intentional relationships. It's about acknowledging our collective impatience and leaning into empathetic exchanges that remind us of our shared humanity.

Our conversation comes full circle as we delve into the art of finding common ground through communication. It's not just about making small talk; it's about those moments of connection that sow the seeds of a stronger community. We share strategies for enhancing these interactions, whether they be over the phone or in-person, with simple yet profound gestures like using someone's name. As the episode winds down, we leave listeners with a gentle reminder of the power of staying present and the beauty of expressing gratitude for the ties that bind us all. Join us on this journey towards a more connected and compassionate world.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Tis the season for giving, and nothing brings more joy than the act of generosity itself. Let's make a pact to shift our focus from the usual holiday frenzy to contemplate the less fortunate and find our unique ways of extending a helping hand. 

I'll be taking you along my personal journey of little acts of giving that have brought immense fulfillment. Inspired by the touching words from the Isha Foundation, we'll uncover how to give without draining our empathic selves. So, ready to make this season truly festive by spreading some warmth?

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Picture this: Your child is seeking your attention, yearning for the magic that unfolds when you’re fully present. In our latest heartfelt episode of the Healing Path podcast, we journey through a transformative experience where I chose to be 'be here now' with my son, Zach, leading to a beautiful unexpected bonding moment. It was a bedtime story miracle, an embodiment of the power of presence.

Being a mother to a special needs child comes with its own unique challenges. We'll navigate through one of my personal struggles and how consciously hitting pause, instead of reacting, opened up a space for joy and gratitude. We'll also focus on the importance of recognizing when we're on the verge of losing control and how to reroute our path mindfully. I invite you to join us in this compassionate space, as we wear our scars proudly, celebrating them as medals of love. The magic lies in showing up fully in each moment, and the transformation that follows. Let's explore this together.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Join this light and casual episode for updates on my upcoming book THE HEALING PATH; along with information on how to join our healing community called Scars 2 Medals.  I share a few stats on where HP Podcast listeners are located geographically.  Check it out :) 

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Click HERE to access Sample Writing Document from THE HEALING PATH
Click HERE to join our work-in-progress virtual community Scars2Medals

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Remember the exhilaration of jumping headfirst into the crisp water, the coolness enveloping you, pushing away the scorching heat of summer? I remember it all too well, despite the sting of swimmer's ear that often followed. My love for water sports was so profound, it overshadowed the discomfort. 

Have you ever pondered why we risk heartbreak for love? I invite you to join in the conversation - This is an episode about our ability to calculate risk in order to make the best decision for our own personal experience of life.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

When grief becomes a silent houseguest, how do you navigate daily life? How do you trust yourself and maintain presence when your heart is shattered? Join me on a journey of understanding grief as a constant rather than a process, as I share personal insights from my own experience with the loss of my daughter Alexis 26 years ago. 

Discover how I've learned to manage grief that shows up every day, in small but impactful moments, and how self-care can be woven into this new normal. 
This conversation promises to be filled with honesty, valuable insights, and a compassionate understanding of living with loss.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Have you ever wondered how ordinary people transform life's trials into triumphs, turning the bitter lemons into the sweetest lemonade? It's all about resilience and the hero's journey that we call, super-survivors. My good friend Chris Dale and I unravel the secrets of these extraordinary individuals who master life's challenges, emerging stronger from each setback. We discuss the four critical levers they pull to recover from tragedies and hardships, and how we can incorporate these into our lives for our growth.

Dive in as we discuss the importance of embracing the totality of our experiences, the pain, and the joy, as we navigate through loss and recovery. Discover how small steps and incremental changes can lead you to a place of strength and blessing. We also delve into the power of gratitude and generosity in bolstering resilience. My conversation with Chris is not just about resilience theory but turning it into practice. So, lend an ear, share your stories, and let's inspire each other to embody the spirit of super-survivors.

Here are the links to those episodes of Real Talk with Life After Grief Chris Podcast (found anywhere you access your podcasts):

• “A Mother’s Grief with Lisa McFarland” (August 2022)
• “Super Survivor Lisa McFarland” (August 2023)

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Ever wondered how the absence of a loved one feels? It's an inexplicable void but we explore how connecting with love can harmonize us and build a healing path. We delve into the idea that grief never truly leaves us, but miracles can be born from it. In this episode, we also discuss how our greatest challenges can be converted into pathways for recovery and connection. 

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

Grieving is not a one-size-fits-all experience, and neither is the healing process. In this powerful episode, we unravel the idea that our healing must be entirely our own undertaking. 

We shine a light upon the unique aspects of our relationships with the deceased, our personal history of grief, and our self-care practices during the period of loss. 

With deep conversations and introspections, we hope to help listeners recognize that life adjustments are necessary after the demise of a loved one, and understanding our unique grief experience is pivotal in comprehending why our healing should be our own endeavor.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.

In this post we are learning to reclaim our balance and equip ourselves with every resource to heal. With every breath, we are given a fresh start, a choice to pivot and redirect our journey. I urge all of us to remain present, be grateful, and to take full ownership of our healing process. Remember, it’s perfectly fine to take a break and make adjustments while we grieve. So, join me, as we learn to embrace healing and growth every day.

Show Notes + Resources:

Grief Gurus Healing Community: www.thegriefgurus.com

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GriefGurus

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thegriefgurus

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/griefgurus/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GriefGurus/

Lisa McFarland: https://lisamcfarland.com/

Carol Banens: https://carolbanens.com/

Information on books written and published by Lisa and Carol can be found on their individual websites, social media profiles and Amazon.