The Happily Never After

In this heartfelt episode of The Happily Never After, host Heather McG welcomes Denise Hendricks, an award-winning television producer and proud mom, to share her journey to motherhood through adoption. From her early career days at The Oprah Show to navigating the complexities of adoption, Denise opens up about the challenges and joys of becoming a mother. Tune in to hear about the emotional highs and lows, the importance of a supportive community, and the life-changing decisions that have shaped Denise's path. Whether you're considering adoption or simply seeking a compelling, meaningful story, this episode offers valuable insights, heartfelt moments, and a lot of laughs. 

ABOUT DENISE HENDRICKS
Denise Hendricks is an award-winning television producer, and writer, but the title she enjoys most is Mom. She has been in the news and entertainment industry for several years producing for: CNN, MSNBC, The Oprah Winfrey Show, the OWN network, HLN, ABC, BET’s late- night talk show The Mo’Nique Show, and for NBC, CBS, ABC and FOX television news affiliates across the country.
She is currently Supervising Producer of CNN Headlines, the streaming channel for cable news giant CNN.

Denise holds a B.S. in Journalism from Florida A&M University, an M.A. in Christian
Education from the Interdenominational Theological Center, and a Screenwriting certificate
from Emory University.

She is a member of Delta Sigma Theta, Inc., and the Producers Guild of America. Denise resides in Atlanta with her 9 year old son, they both love to travel, visit parks and spend time with family and friends.

• Follow Denise on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@cdenisehendricks
• Connect with Denise on LinkedIn

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTER
The Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com

Shayna Ferm and her co-founder Tracey Tee designed The Pump and Dump Show to connect to new moms about the realities of motherhood with humor, music, and community. Their show was growing exponentially, until in 2020 the covid-19 pandemic brought about an unexpected collapse. Today, Shayna is sharing candid reflections about her journey in forging a new path as a women's fiction author. Join us for an inspiring conversation about resilience, creativity, and the unexpected paths that lead to personal growth. 

ABOUT SHAYNA FERM BRYAN
Shayna is a lifelong creative with nearly thirty years as a performer, producer, musician and writer. After building the brand, Band of Mothers, which included a nationally touring comedy show for moms called The Pump and Dump Show, alongside the Band of Mothers Podcast co-produced by Warner Bros, Shayna has redirected her talent to writing women's fiction novels that focus on crisis and self-discovery in midlife. 

• Follow Shay on Instagram at @shaynafermwrites
• Learn more about Shay at her author website
• Mentioned in this episode: Heather Garbo Book Coaching

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTER
The Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com

Host Heather McG sits down with debut author Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez, who survived eight years of conversion therapy then began his empowering journey to healing and belonging. He discusses the challenges and revelations that led him to co-found an organization that helps queer individuals find affirming faith communities. Timothy's story, featured in major outlets like NBC and Vice, is a testament to resilience and courage. Tune in to hear about his upcoming book, Conversion Therapy Dropout, and his ongoing advocacy for queer people of faith. Don't miss this transformative conversation about faith, identity, and how to take the steps needed to live one's truth.

ABOUT TIMOTHY SCHRAEDER RODRIGUEZ
Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez spent almost a decade in gay conversion therapy—all while working behind the scenes at some of the most influential Evangelical Christian megachurches. After embracing his identity as a gay Christian and stepping away from church work, he co-founded Church Clarity, an organization that helps queer people find affirming faith communities. His story and work have been featured by NBC, VICE, Huffington Post, Religion News Service, and Newsweek. Born in the Midwest, he now calls New York City home, where he continues his work as a writer, digital strategist, and advocate for queer people of faith.

His first book, Conversion Therapy Dropout: A Queer Story of Faith and Belonging will be released on May 5, 2026. Pre-order his book here.

Follow Tim on social at @timothy.s.rodriguez on Instagram and Threads, or follow him on Substack at timothysrodriguez.substack.com. 

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTER
The Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com

In this episode of "Happily Never After," host Heather McG sits down with Ish, a comedian and former lawyer, to explore the tumultuous journey of recovering from a toxic relationship. Ish candidly shares her experiences with a narcissistic partner, the emotional rollercoaster of breaking free, and how she transformed her pain into a viral TikTok series. Through humor and raw honesty, Ish discusses the complexities of revenge, healing, and self-discovery. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that delves into the depths of emotional abuse and the power of reclaiming one's narrative.

• If you are experiencing domestic abuse you can reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline via web or at 800.799.7233

ABOUT ISH SIDHU
Ish is a comedian and former lawyer turned TikToker. In the last year she has amassed a following of 573k+ followers on TikTok and 275k followers on Instagram and is best known for her series Revenge Ideas from a Lawyer That Won't Get You Arrested... Probably. It's definitely not legal advice, but it sure is funny.

• Follow Ish on Instagram and TikTok at @whattheish

MORE ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTER
"The Happily Never After" is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com

In this episode of The Happily Never After, host Heather McG welcomes Andrea Rappaport, co-host of top How Not to Suck at Divorce. Andrea shares her journey of overcoming an abusive marriage, the impact of her childhood on her adult relationships, and her path to healing and self-discovery. She discusses the importance of recognizing red flags, the challenges of rebuilding life post-divorce, and the ongoing process of personal growth.
TAKEAWAYS

• We often marry before knowing our true selves and worth.

• Ignoring the truth can lead to detrimental life choices.
• Panic attacks can be a sign of unresolved past trauma.
• Rebuilding life post-divorce requires laying a new foundation.
• It's common to seek validation through dating after divorce.
• Children can sense unhealthy parental relationships.
• Personal growth is an ongoing journey, not a finished product.
• Physical movement can help break mental paralysis.
• Professional help is more beneficial than relying solely on friends.

ABOUT ANDREA RAPPAPORTAndrea Rappaport is the co-host of the popular podcast How Not to Suck at Divorce. She's been featured on News Nation, TODAY show online, The Tamron Hall Show, as well as numerous appearances on local TV. Andrea uses her comedy skills and money her father spent on voice lessons, dance lessons and The Second City Conservatory to help divorcing individuals exhale and feel less alone. After leaving an abusive marriage when her boys were 2 and 4, Andrea is an advocate and public speaker on not only recognizing, red flags in relationship, but acting on them. She is happily remarried to man funnier than she is and lives in the northern suburbs of Chicago with her wildly crazy blended family. When she's not on the air or running her marketing firm, she can be seen hunting for discount fashion at TJ Maxx or Marshalls.

• Follow Andrea on Instagram at @theandrearappaport
• Follow Andrea on TikTok at @divorcepodcast

MORE ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com⁠

Shaka Senghor is a resilience expert and bestselling author who shares his transformative journey from incarceration to freedom. Shaka discusses the hidden prisons we all face, the importance of vulnerability, and how shame and guilt can hinder personal growth. He reflects on his early life, the role of reading and writing in prison, and the impact of solitary confinement. Shaka emphasizes the power of active journaling, mindfulness, and creating safe environments for children, ultimately defining freedom as being present and embracing joy.
TAKEAWAYS

• Everyone has hidden prisons.

• Vulnerability is key to personal growth and connection.
• Shame and guilt can impede progress in life.
• Reading and writing can be transformative, even in prison.

• Mindfulness helps in overcoming past traumas.
• Active journaling can unlock deeper insights about oneself.
• Creating a safe environment for children is crucial for their development.
• Our worst deeds do not define us; we can evolve beyond them.
• Freedom is about being present and embracing joy.

CHAPTERS00:00 Introduction to Transformation03:07 Shaka's Early Life and Challenges05:45 The Role of Reading and Writing in Prison09:06 Experiences of Solitary Confinement11:51 Parole Journey and Life After Prison15:10 The Premise of 'How to Be Free'17:47 Understanding Hidden Prisons20:59 The Impact of Shame and Vulnerability24:06 Navigating Life's Challenges27:47 Unpacking Childhood Trauma30:03 The Power of Active Journaling33:27 Vulnerability as a Strength36:35 Creating Healing Through Vulnerability39:07 Breaking Generational Cycles42:06 Redefining Freedom48:41 Mindfulness and Moving Forward52:28 Finding Freedom in Adversity
ABOUT SHAKA SENGHORShaka is a resilience expert, bestselling author, and speaker whose journey from incarceration to transformation has connected with audiences worldwide. Born in Detroit amid economic hardship, he spent 19 years in prison before finding his own path to freedom. Today, he shares the frameworks that transformed his life, helping executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes break free from their own invisible barriers. His mission is to show that everyone can achieve freedom and create a life full of possibility, purpose, and joy.

• Follow Shaka on Instagram at @shakasenghor
• Learn more at shakasenghor.com

MORE ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com⁠

In this season finale, Heather McG shares her personal journey deprogramming from a fundamentalist Christian environment. Joined by guest host Sydney Davis Jr. Jr., Heather talks about what it was like growing up with 21 siblings, confronting the beliefs that no longer served her as an adult, and redesigning her life from the ground up. Heather and Sydney explore the complexities of fundamentalism, the impact made on their lives, and how to shed your shame. The conversation also talks about how we are more than the worst things that have happened to us, and how changing your life starts with you. After all, happiness is an inside job.
CHAPTERS04:53 Facing Loss and Personal Growth09:56 The Impact of Fundamentalism15:04 Racism and the White Savior Complex20:05 Acknowledging Privilege and Moving Forward22:14 The Power of Sharing Personal Stories24:41 Navigating Change and Growth25:08 The Systemic Nature of Fundamentalism28:35 Confronting New Realities in Chicago31:20 The Shift in Beliefs35:17 The Great Unlearning39:15 Finding Closure with a Complicated Past44:52 The Complexity of Grief and Freedom48:03 Shame and Its Impact on Healing51:24 The Power of Sharing Stories57:22 Finding Hope and New Beginnings
ABOUT SYDNEY DAVIS JR. JR.Sydney Davis is a comedian, satirist and host of the podcast Growing Up Fundie. Her standup comedy special, Trash, is available on Amazon Prime, and she holds an MFA in creative non fiction. She currently lives in Arizona with one husband, four parrots, and three venus fly traps.

• Follow her on IG: @sydneydavisjrjr
• YouTube: SydneyDavisJrJr

MORE ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at  www.heathermcg.com.

In this conversation, Sydney Davis Jr. Jr. shares her harrowing experience of being hit by a car and the subsequent challenges she faced, including dealing with the insurance company and the emotional toll it took on her life. She discusses the longterm impact of stress, the journey of working through trauma, and finding new purpose after a life-altering event. The conversation emphasizes the need for vulnerability, courage, and determination in the face of a new reality.
TAKEAWAYS

• Sydney Davis Jr. Jr. experienced a life-changing car accident that impacted her deeply.
• The prolonged aftermath of the accident involved dealing with an uncooperative insurance company.
• Fear and anxiety became significant parts of her life post-accident.
• She fought hard for her rights and compensation from the insurance company.
• The experience changed her perspective on life and her career.
• She emphasizes the importance of speaking up and knowing one's rights.
• Stress can have lasting effects on mental health and personal relationships.
• Finding joy in new activities helped her cope with the changes.
• It's crucial to connect with others and share experiences to heal.

CHAPTERS03:41 The Car Accident Experience04:09 The Aftermath and Emotional Turmoil10:41 Confronting the Other Driver14:46 The Struggle for Help18:26 Fighting the Insurance Company22:11 Navigating Trauma and Fear26:35 The Importance of Knowing Your Rights28:59 Understanding Anger and Rage32:10 The Long-Term Effects of Trauma35:49 Finding New Joys After Trauma42:19 The Journey of Healing as a Practice44:58 Navigating Identity and Expectations48:17 The Importance of Sharing Stories51:05 Empowerment Through Saying No56:48 Building Connections and Seeking Support
ABOUT SYDNEY DAVIS JR. JR.Sydney Davis is a comedian, satirist and host of the podcast Growing Up Fundie. Her standup comedy special, Trash, is available on Amazon Prime, and she holds an MFA in creative non fiction. She currently lives in Arizona with one husband, one rescue dog, four parrots, and two venus fly traps.

• Follow her on IG: @sydneydavisjrjr
• YouTube: SydneyDavisJrJr
• Website: sydneydavisjrjr.com

MORE ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at www.heathermcg.com.

SUMMARYRavayna Coe is the mother and wife of loved ones who are autistic, and she explores the multifaceted nature of autism, challenging the traditional narrative that frames it as an ending. Ravayna shares the story of her neurodivergent household as she herself has ADHD, as well as discussing the spectrum of autism, the importance of early intervention, and the diverse experiences within the autism community. She emphasizes the significance of communication, the challenges of parenting, and the need to shift societal perceptions of autism. The discussion highlights the beauty and complexity of raising a neurodivergent child, celebrating their unique qualities while navigating the challenges that come with it.
TAKEAWAYS

• Autism is a neurotype, not a disease.
• Diagnosis can provide clarity and direction.
• Non-verbal communication can be revelatory for the entire household.

• Ableism is a pervasive issue that needs addressing.
• More than one thing can be true in parenting experiences.
• Community and support in navigating autism.
• Celebrating the unique qualities of autistic individuals is essential.
• Hard experiences can lead to beautiful moments.

CHAPTERS02:52 What does it mean to be neurodivergent?06:03 Navigating Early Intervention and Support08:44 The Impact of Autism on Family Dynamics11:40 Challenging Misconceptions About Autism14:47 Celebrating Progress and Unique Interests17:43 Flipping the Script: Autism is not an ending23:02 Challenging Ableism and Societal Norms25:24 Redefining Hardship and Reward27:45 Nonverbal Communication32:33 Innovative Communication Strategies for Autism34:29 Celebrating Asher's Unique Qualities36:15 Embracing Complexity in Parenting
WORK WITH RAVAYNA COE

• Follow her on Instagram at @ravayna
• Learn more at www.loveravayna.com

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com⁠

SUMMARYAlicia Parrott, a street artist known as ShePosse, shares her inspiring journey of recovery from addiction, emphasizing the transformative power of art and community. She reflects on her past struggles, the importance of being present, and the lessons learned throughout her recovery process. Alicia discusses how her art serves as a form of expression and connection, highlighting the significance of vulnerability and breaking the stigma surrounding addiction. Through her story, she encourages others to seek help and confront the issues that are holding them back.
TAKEAWAYS

• Alicia is 20 years sober through her recovery journey.
• Art has always been grounding for Alicia, helping her through tough times.
• Recovery is a continuous journey, not a destination.
• Being present allows for deeper connections with others.
• The love of friends and family can be a powerful impetus for change.
• Alicia's art reflects her recovery journey and emotions.
• Vulnerability is key to connecting with oneself and others.
• The stigma around addiction can prevent people from seeking help.
• Community support is vital in recovery and art.
• Embracing imperfection is essential in both art and life.

CHAPTERS02:49 The Struggles of Addiction05:43 Finding Comfort in Art08:45 The Turning Point: Intervention and Recovery11:50 Understanding the Recovery Process14:47 Lessons Learned Through Recovery17:38 The Power of Connection20:40 Connecting with Oneself24:09 The Impact of Life Experiences25:04 Art as a Healing Tool28:48 The Community of Recovery and Street Art32:32 The Birth of ShePosse35:17 Embracing Imperfection in Recovery36:47 Creating for the Invisible37:25 Finding Color in Life's Messiness38:20 Messages to My Younger Self39:49 Breaking the Stigma of Addiction42:09 The Journey of Recovery and Self-Compassion
ABOUT ALICIA PARROTTAlicia Parrott is a multidisciplinary artist, senior graphic designer, and the street artist known as ShePosse. Her work lives at the intersection of recovery and resistance, blending formal fine art training with raw, street-level expression. Sober since 2006, Alicia draws deep parallels between recovery and street art—both rooted in presence, anonymity, and the act of showing up without knowing how long something will last.She earned her BFA from SUNY Purchase and brings over 25 years of experience to her design career. Her artwork has been exhibited alongside Shepard Fairey and Lady Pink, and is featured in the book Theez Are Our Streez, by Deelaruz. She’s also the co-producer of Sticker Movie, a documentary celebrating global sticker culture.Working under the name ShePosse, Alicia explores duality—personal and public, soft and sharp, design and rebellion. Her work gives voice to women, especially those often left out of the conversation in both art and recovery spaces. Whether it’s seen in a gallery or found weathered on a street pole, her work is meant to connect, to witness, and to remind others they’re not alone.She lives and works in Solana Beach, California—but her art shows up in streets worldwide.

• Follow Alicia on Instagram at @sheposse

ABOUT THE HAPPILY NEVER AFTERThe Happily Never After is a podcast that features stories of big endings that led to personal breakthroughs. While endings can hurt, they also provide opportunities to heal and grow, and sometimes, they even set us free. Endings can offer an opportunity to begin anew, in a better way, and that’s what we’re here to talk about.

• New episodes every Tuesday.
• Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatheathermcg⁠⁠⁠⁠ on IG for related content and discussion.
• Read The Happily Never After on Substack at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://thehappilyneverafter.substack.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Learn more about Heather McG at ⁠⁠www.heathermcg.com⁠