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  • Episode 96: 96 - Long Term Relationships - TWO COUPLES
    In this hour long episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to two couples in Long Term Relationships - Jim & Glenn / Debbie & Mike. We explore how they meet, what obstacles they have faced, and their insights to sustaining love.
    Jim and Glenn started off as friends after meeting at a Xmas party. This friendship developed into something solid, with the advantage of knowing each others crazy. This couple shed light on their approach to coupling.
    Debbie and Mike meet on the TV dating show "Perfect Match". This unpredictable meeting took them to Italy, where love was organic. This couple takes us on a personal and vulnerable journey, sharing how their relationship went from bliss to anxious. Debbies experience on Young Talent Time in her teens, lead her to a bout of depression later in life. They share the hurdle of her mental health, the uncharted territory, and how it brought them closure together.
    This special episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast looks at love and the Long Term Relationship.
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    1 hr 1 min
  • Episode 95: 95 - FINISH STRONG - Joe-y Busuttil
    In the final episode of 2020, the Secret MENS Business podcast host
    Joe-y Busuttil takes a look back over 2020. COVID19 was the theme. The things we lost, things we gained, the conspiracy theories, madness we created, acceptance we found, and the prospect of losing his mother to cancer.
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    28 min
  • Episode 94: 94 - THE ROYAL BALLET - John Vye
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to John Vye about his life as a male ballet dancer. He talks about what it was like being the only ballet dancer in his state, moving to Melbourne to study ballet, and his international success.
    The Royal ballet School London. .is ,and always was, an independant Organisation. During his time with the Royal ballet school and later with the Royal ballet company, he learnt and danced in the post Diaghilev and very English style. Being a successful Ballettmeister.
    Now a successful ballet teacher in Berlin, John has had a very rich life in the arts. This podcast interview is a peak look at the intensity of being an international ballet dance.
    JOHN VYE:
    Instagram - john.vye
    Facebook - John Vye Ballettmeister dancer
    www - www.JohnVye.com/
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    34 min
  • Episode 93: 93 - MINDFUL CREATIONS - Rueben Lowe
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Rueben Lowe about Acceptance and Commitment therapy, Mindfulness, and his passion to help the community to seek a rich and meaningful life.
    The goal of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is to increase psychological flexibility, or the ability to enter the present moment more fully and either change or persist in behaviour when doing so serves valued ends.
    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to embrace their thoughts and feelings rather than fighting or feeling guilty for them. It may seem confusing at first, but ACT paired with mindfulness-based therapy offers clinically effective treatment.
    Mindfulness is a type of meditation in which you focus on being intensely aware of what you're sensing and feeling in the moment, without interpretation or judgment. Practicing mindfulness involves breathing methods, guided imagery, and other practices to relax the body and mind and help reduce stress.
    Mindfulness is about paying attention to daily life and the things we typically rush through. It's about turning down the volume in your mind by coming back to the body. Don't worry, you don't have to spend an hour's pay on a class or contort your body into difficult positions.
    RUEBEN LOWE:
    www.linkedin.com/in/mindfulcreation
    www.mindfulcreation.com
    www.mindfulcreation.com/actonit
    www.InsightTimer.com/reubenlowe
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    29 min
  • Episode 92: 92 - THE SINGAPORE RELOCATION - John Gillman
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to John Gillman who moved from Melbourne, Australia to Singapore for a career opportunity. We discuss the process of moving to another country, look at cultural transitions , and all the things John totally loves about his ex pat life in Singapore.
    Singapore is a wealthy city state in south-east Asia. Once a British colonial trading post, today it is a thriving global financial hub and described as one of Asia's economic "tigers". It is also renowned for its conservatism and strict local laws and the country prides itself on its stability and security.
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    23 min
  • Episode 91: 91 - COVID vs DANCE MUSIC - Dean Murphy
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Melbourne Radio DJ/ Events coordinator Dean Murphy about his journey as one of Australia's most prominent Dance Party organisers. His career started in the 90's and it has flourished due to his creativity, insight and ambition to entertain the punters looking for a good time.
    If you like 90's underground dance party culture, this retrospective interview will have you reminisce about a very special time in dance party history. And understand how COVID caused a massive void in many that is now needing to be filled.
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    38 min
  • Episode 90: 90 - THE EVOLUTION OF ACTING - Tim Clarke
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Tim Clarke about his journey into the world of acting.
    He openly shares with us his first calling to acting, the reality of the art form, and the way he has made it all work for him. Without any illusion, Tim found a place in the world of acting that suits him.
    Tim Clarke is an actor and writer, known for The Doctor Blake Mysteries (2013), Gallipoli (2015) and The Secret River (2015).
    TIM CLARKE BIO:
    www.starnow.com.au/timclarke3
    In this magical evening of theatre, you’ll be drawn into the secrets of The Metropolis Monologues before being entertained by the stories of The City Park Plays. This double-bill event features 12 actors, 3 directors and 11 scripts. Theatre is BACK! And we’d love to have you at ours!
    EVENT DETAILS:
    MELBOURNE WRITERS THEATRE
    DATES: 17TH – 22ND DECEMBER, 2020
    SESSION TIMES:
    6.30PM – 7.30PM THE METROPOLIS MONOLOGUES
    7.30PM – 8PM INTERMISSION
    8PM – 9.15PM THE CITY PARK PLAYS
    To purchase tickets, The MC Showroom strongly recommends that patrons visit their Event Landing page:
    http://www.themcshowroom.com/event/mwt-2020-season/
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    27 min
  • Episode 89: 89 - THE EVOLUTION OF MARDI GRAS - Albert Kruger
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Albert Kruger, the CEO of the worlds largest PRIDE event, MARDI GRAS Australia.
    Albert shares his vision for Mardi Gras in 2021, the challenges faced due to COVID, and the changes occurring within the LGBTQI community.
    www.mardigras.org.au
    FREE TRANSGENDER COURSE:
    www.udemy.com/course/transgender-101/
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    22 min
  • Episode 88: 88 - WORLD AIDS DAY - LGBTQI HEALTH - LANCE SCHEMA
    In this special WORLD AIDS DAY episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak to Lance Schema from the Queensland Council for LGBTI. Health. We discuss the changing history of HIV, and the way we view it in 2020. We explore PREP, resilience, and the future for queer culture.
    Queensland Council for LGBTI. Health-
    www.lgbtihealth.org.au/69
    FREE TRANSGENDER COURSE:
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    27 min
  • Episode 87: 87 - A PERMISSION FILLED LIFE - SUZANNE WRIGHT
    In this episode of the Secret MENS Business podcast we speak with SUZANNE WRIGHT about how she made the decision to give herself permission to listen to her inner voice, rather than to old messages telling her incorrect information. This revelation. allowed her to find something she has been seeking for a LONG time - Inner Peace.
    Humans are creatures of habit. We like our routines, our ways of doing and being in the world.
    Then something comes along and all that gets disrupted, blown up, maybe even obliterated. We start to fumble around in the dark looking for the light switch that will turn everything back on.
    Over the last few months Suzanne found a new normal, a new routine that she settled into. She dealt with not feeling settled at all. As well as being somewhere in the middle all depending on the minute, day, or week.
    Regardless of where she was in the moment, she gave herself permission to be in the present moment.This interview explores this process.
    We also look at her charity - SHINE.
    Shine is an innovative not-for-profit charity, connecting young people in Cambodia and Australia to create a better world. We run a community project in Otres, Cambodia to alleviate poverty and assist children and families break the poverty cycle by providing a range of education, health and wellbeing services. The project is registered in Australia and runs completely on donations.
    In Melbourne Australia, we educate, empower and inspire teenagers to create social change through our social impact youth program and the volunteer experiences we offer. Young people are powerful: Shine gives them the chance to find their light and use it.
    SHINE CAMBODIA:
    https://shinecambodia.org
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    24 min

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